Today was a good daygame session. I got out of work and immediately went to approach. I approached a girl on the train platform and went indirect, complementing on her dress. She didn't reciprocate well so I just left. Train came and I headed to my first destination to warm up for a bit.
Approached this Asian girl, she looked good but I knew she didn't know much English, turns out I was right. I told her she looked nice and we had a small conversation. I was shooting shit to be honest. It went along like this:
"My name is Salted_Pretzel, you?"
"My name is Sakura"
"Oh, Sakura, like Naruto? You seen Naruto right?"
"Yes, I think..."
"Yeah, I don't like Sakura, Naruto is okay, Sasuke is cool, you know Sasuke right?"
At this point I was laughing inside. It was fun just shooting shit, making shit up and not caring. She headed inside this corporate building and I said bye. Didn't go for the number but was a good warm up.
Usually after a set It would take me a long time before I approach another girl, doing so I would lose momentum and kill any social vibe I try to build up. Not this time. I immediately saw this girl on her phone and I opened her, she looked at me weird and went back to her phone, I moved on and approached another girl who was waiting in line at this very small cafe. It was an indirect opener but nonetheless getting my body and mind warmed up. My goal was to get at least 5 approaches in that area before moving on to another.
I approached maybe 15 in that small area alone. Mix of indirect to direct. One girl I was having fun, getting out of my comfort zone and trying to tease her, it was going well. She was a waitress and told her to show me her fake smile. She laughed and I told her when she is working to tell the customers that her name is Bob, stupid shit, haha. I asked for the number and she said she had a boyfriend. I told her she needed two boyfriend and she giggled and said bye.
Another one I stopped in front of her and she just said thanks, smiled and went back to her phone. No biggie. More approaches, here and there. I opened this girl as she came to my right as I was walking. I opened indirectly and I was bantering with her. I'm sort of getting used to teasing but I need to work on it more. I got her number.
Went to a supermarket to buy some water. There was this cute girl, shopping, I gave her a complement about her clothes, she smiled and said thanks, there was this tall gorgeous girl at the check out line. While I was waiting to pay I asked if she was a model. Turns out she was, I was making small talk and then I left to payed for water.
Not everything has to be a full blown direct I-wanna-fuck-you set. By giving a simple complement or small talk is still just as good. Also I didn't want my momentum to die so I opened. My aim when small talking is not fuck everything and open direct, it's to build momentum and get into "state" so when I do see that women I really want it'll be a tad bit easier.
I left the supermarket and spotted this girl across the street. I crossed and immediately opened here. We were talking for a bit. I stop asking for numbers in a beta way. I tell her what's her number and either hand her my phone or start typing. This bitch was asking me for my social media. I tell her straight up I don't have social media and tell her to give me her number. She hesitates a little bit and I hand her my phone. Fake number or not, I'm done asking for numbers like a pussy. It's like what Mark Manson says, either a fuck yes or a fuck no. She puts her number and says she doesn't text much. I'm indifferent at this point as my abundance mentality kicks in as I spot another gorgeous girl that walked passed us.
I said bye and go after the other girl. I was too late as she entered the subway. That didn't stop me I as approached another girl at the intersection. More approaches, nothing sticking. My fucks been going down. I talk to this shorty, she was boring. She wasn't giving me anything. My old self would try to salvage the set as much as possible, not this time. I said bye immediately and moved on and guess what? I approached another girl a few minutes later.
I moved on to the second area but while I was in the subway there was this cute Asian girl that walked passed me.
"Oh, why not? She''s cute"
My mind spoke as I approached her in the front. I told her she looked nice and we chatted. I was focused on not breaking eye contact. Not like a stalker creeper kinda thing but more subtle. She have a boyfriend and I laugh it off, telling her I can be her number one boyfriend and her current one could move over. Funny.
I finally get to the second area. I'm a little stifled for some reason. Hot girl everywhere but my boldness is gone. I side approached this one bubbly girl. It was great, she did all the talking and I got her number, it's a dud as I write this but it's whatever. Approached a few more and opened a pair. Just told them that one of them is cute and moved on.
I got a few numbers and I went to my normal coffee shop to read a bit and rest. After the coffee shop I saw this girl on her phone I opened directly. She was happy, she complemented me on my attire and I was blushing. It felt good. The downside was there wasn't much time to build a rapport as her uber came. I said bye and walked. Approached a thick Hispanic girl. I can tell she was shy, got her number but then told me she had a boyfriend. I deleted her number and moved on. Opened more girls, complements and direct openers, did stick much. I was fine with it. It was tough getting home as I kept approaching women after women and delaying my commute home. I guess that downside of approaching? Hahah.
Overall it was great day. Approaches and getting comfortable with women slowly. Not the best but it's one step closer to my goals.
PROS:
-Approached a lot
-Didn't spend a lot of idle time
-Teased a bit in my conversation
-Worked on approaching from the front
-Took control of the conversation
-Asked for the number in non pussy way
-Had fun
-Didn't let the rejections haunt me
-Immediately approached one after the another.
CONS
-Eye contact and smiling wasn't on point
-Weak stops for a majority of sets
-Didn't spark attraction for a lot of my sets
-Could have approached the more "intimidating" girls
-Entered interviewing mode a lot of the times
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