My Story

JensenMse · 2018-02-14T07:18:05+00:00

Same story with me as well...in a 19 month LTR who just suddenly started getting cold with me the past month. I'm suspecting she has the feels for a new guy now. I've been afraid of ending things, despite my gut feeling telling me to end things and continue with my mission.

Funny thing is just yesterday I decided to do some cold approach the first time after almost two years, thinking I might just try and see whether I still got it in me, and besides I had nothing to lose...and I got three new numbers. I'm now seriously convinced to end my LTR and start spinning plates.

Long story short: LTRs are really the Red Pill on hard mode.

Self-honest · 2018-02-14T15:07:52+00:00

I blocked her on everything to give her space

Keep it that way. Delete everything. Never speak to her again.

G_Banger · 2018-02-14T06:16:57+00:00

Same thing is starting to happen to me right now... Girlfriend defensive of her phone, she wants to stay home on Valentine's tomorrow and not hang out (which seems extremely strange to me), less sex than we used to have, she's very distant when we're not hanging out in person anymore, doesn't show me as much affection in person as she used to... etc, etc. Not sure what to do.

I have a gut feeling it's time to cut the cord, but I'm not great at this shit.

throwaway_dpel · 2018-02-14T13:04:21+00:00

very similar to my situation.

17 male, just out of LTR with my girl of 3 years since I was 14 and she was 16. I was a bit of an asshole to her for the last while and I regret big time treating her how I did. not because I want her back, but because that is not how to treat a girl.

I lost my virginity to this girl and she was my first everything, before we met she had fucked a lot of guys and at the beginning of our relationship she flirted with a lot of guys. she snapped out of that but I could never get over her sexual past and so that ruined our relationship because of how I treated her.

now, 3 months on and I'm happy, shes going out with some fat guy for Valentine's day and I'm hanging out with friends.

it gets better!

Title	My Story
Author	Giddleor
Upvotes	19
Comments	15
Date	February 14, 2018 5:10 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7xfqdv/my_story/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/my-story.48745 https://theredarchive.com/post/48745

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