We spend alot of time here discussing how a man should expect, prevent, and deal with a womans cheating. Many of us are beyond this stage. We studied game, lifted, and have ourselves become the prize. The tables are turned. What we need to discuss are strategies and tactics for the soft harem running jerkboy who has been detected.

Many moons ago, I was engaged and busted by a friend of a friend of a friend of hers while out drinking with a pretty financial analyst. It was a swanky bar and the fling had naughty librarian glasses and a supertight navy suit. When confronted, I made every mistake possible:

I apologized

I felt guilty

I answered all her questions

I confessed

I spent the next few months "making it up to her"

You can guess how this worked out. The losing strategy of honesty and remorse reframed me as the LowSMV loser who needed the relationship and was scared to take the L

Since then, when caught red handed, I employ the philosophy of denial. Coming clean might make YOU feel better, but despite what the clueless posters at ask relationships say, it most certainly ISNT what a woman actually wants when confronting her mans infidelity. She wants the choice to either hamster away his bullshit story or dump his ass.

Best way to ensure the former is to be the dark triadic asshole who displays preselection and the confidence to let a woman walk for her unwillingness to tolerate his biological need for hot strange. Its no guarantee she wont leave, but your chances are infinitely higher that she stays if you dont break frame. Many times, she leaves and comes back later, with spread legs, to the cad who broke her heart