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Now THIS is hypergamy in action.

SpawnQuixote

April 9, 2013
39 upvotes
/r/TheRedPill

Now according to the messages my girlfriend sent to her friend, he's respectable and knows she has a boyfriend, but I know it's just an act. Anyways, she is considering hanging out with him without telling me, to see if he is "better for her".

DAT Hypergamy.

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Title Now THIS is hypergamy in action.
Author

SpawnQuixote

Upvotes 39
Comments 37
Date April 9, 2013 8:25 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1c0hcy/now_this_is_hypergamy_in_action/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/now-this-is-hypergamy-in-action.3901
https://theredarchive.com/post/3901
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Comments

[–]TRP Vanguardtheubercuber41 points42 points43 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The sad part is what he is considering his best response.

"Don't worry babe, I'm limiting my future for you, so I'll always be close and I'll always be here for you and please don't leave me and I love you"

Disaster waiting to happen...

[–]FountainsOfFluids11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Stay with me honey! I'll be the best doormat ever!"

[–]Modredpillschool5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's trying to negotiate desire and attraction.

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"whenever I find someone I like better I just move on"

=]

[–]5F42DE47BC6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

When we say they have a hamster in their head we generally don't mean literally. It must be nice having the attention span of a rodent.

Shiny keys! Look at the shiny keys!

[–]DEVi4TION4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Shit at least she straight up admits it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not publicly of course.

[–]TheIslander82926 points27 points28 points 13 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link

Correct course of action is to keep having sex with her and start spinning plates to fuck around on the side. Have her dump him when she finds out.

I'd rather be the asshole that got dumped for cheating, than the loser that got dumped over another guy.

This is basically what I told him over there. Let's see it get downvoted to oblivion now.

[–]soapjackal13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

He should just break up with her. 2 wrongs don't make a right.

[–]TheIslander82916 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Who said anything about making a right?

I'm advising him on his best interest as a man that's about to become single.

[–]soapjackal-3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

I'd agree if he's just stretching his game reflex and kicking his approach anxiety in the balls, but actually having multiple girls spinning while thier still dating is rather cunty advice.

[–]TheIslander82914 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

It's just doing exactly what she's doing. She's spinning plates too.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link

Who let all these fuckin white knights in? What is this? seddit 2.0?

[–]TheIslander8294 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck!

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You left the door open again, TheIslander829. God dammit. Now we have to clean up the place.

[–]PatrickLatham1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh dat truth :/

[–]soapjackal3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I'm a poster on here bro, but I can mos def disagree with someone on here without being a white knight, we're not some super organism that has no internal dissent.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

That might be true, but I'd say you've still got some waking up to do if you haven't realized the inherent disadvantage you place yourself in by not spinning plates.

It might be ugly, it might not be what we'd like it to be, but spinning plates is one of the few options some of us have.

[–]2StandardDeviations4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It might be ugly, it might not be what we'd like it to be, but spinning plates is one of the few options some of us have.

All the moral and social controls that once protected men are gone, spinning plates is pretty much all we've got left.

[–]soapjackal3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If The dude in question was spinning plates from the beginning and wasn't hiding the fact, I would not disagree.

Unfortunately in this case he wasn't, so recommending he cheat on his GF because it looks like she was about to, so that she will dump him is not something I would respect in another man and should not be defended.

He should dump her, start spinning plates, and run a small harem once he's out of the Relationship.

Just because she fucked up does not give him any excuse to be a cheating git, so I think theislander's advice is not of very high quality.

And bro, chill out about 'waking up' and 'swallowing the red pill' I agree with most stuff on here, but I'm still gonna disagree with infidelity no matter which gender.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm still gonna disagree with infidelity no matter which gender

Why?

It's morally wrong? By whose decision? Under what authority?

In many cultures out there wives encourage their husbands to have sex outside of marriage, it's basically expected in some cultures. Why? Because this is how men are built. Being forced into monogamy simply because it isn't your culture's "default operating mode" is a sack of bullshit in my opinion, and it fucks with people's heads (it did with mine). It's basically the equivalent of forcing someone left handed to become right handed imo.

This type of mentality is just another example of women getting their gimmidats because of some "equality" bullshit being crammed down our throats.

Woman: "I'm a woman and I want monogamy. Men and women are equal, so I guess you want monogamy too!"

Compliant Beta Male: "Uhhh... yeah I want monogamy, if that means I can have sex with you!"

[–]kytoph2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That girl is going to fuck the other guy, if she hasn't already (which id honestly put money of the fact that she has). She told her friend that she was going to break up with him. That relationship is over.

She obviously has zero respect for him, so why should he have any respect for her? She started the shopping around, obviously she feels this is acceptable behaviour in a relationship, so he should follow suit. I am a big supporter of treating people the way they treat you.

[–]soapjackal4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn't showing up on the alien blue version, I don't mean to call you a cunt, it's just crappy advice. Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she's a terrible person, and if she's planning to hook up with some guy he should just drop her like a bad egg instead of being caught cheating.

[–]FountainsOfFluids7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Real men honor their commitments. If they are exclusive, he should break it off before seeing other women. It's seriously low behavior to cheat on women. Not because of the need to respect them, but the need to respect yourself, and have your word mean something more than empty air.

[–]TheIslander8298 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Commitment is a two way street. Think of it like a contract. If one party breaks the terms, the other party is no longer bound by its obligations to continue the agreement.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's like a contract in which the man actually commits more and forfeits power when entering. Men are at a disadvantage unless they're spinning plates.

[–]TheIslander8290 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

[–]FountainsOfFluids-2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely. But she hasn't broken the contract yet. And even if she did screw some other guy, why the hell would you want to still see her? Find some other women who haven't turned you into a cuckold.

[–]TheIslander8292 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

why the hell would you want to still see her?

Revenge fuck.

[–]FountainsOfFluids-5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Seek therapy.

[–]TheIslander8292 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why?

You've never revenge fucked a girl? Try it.

[–]un-affiliated3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Best sex I ever had. Was with a girl for two years and she never swallowed until the revenge fuck, at which point she did it without me asking.

[–]Lupo3825 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she hasn't broken the social contract, she would be honest after a year and a half of being in a relationship. Instead, she makes a date with another man, and with a possibility of leaving her bf in lieu of what she sees as the BBD.

That being said, I'd dump the bitch, who knows what hes sticking his dick into, if she's being safe in her play, and what may happen as a result of her dating around. I wouldn't want to catch something someone else gave to her, Herpes, AIDS, baby, etc.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Cheating as a man isn't nearly as bad as people make it out to be. In fact I'd say it's the only option available for most men in the post feminist era.

As much as I'd like to honor my commitments to women, I've been burned way too many times for doing so.

So save the moral judgements for after you've crossed the lake of fire.

[–]FountainsOfFluids10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you don't intend to be exclusive, don't make the commitment! If you have game, you don't need to be promising anything to get the pussy.

Cheating is for honorless scum. Sorry, but nothing else need be said. You don't respect yourself, and you don't trust anybody else. It's a pathetic way to live.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]un-affiliated4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Makes men look bad to who? Women? Are you worried they're going to go with their other options?

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