Short post, no TL;DR

I've noticed that all the natural alphas I know will ignore betas quite often, even when asked something directly, if it's some fluff talk or unimportant, and the betas end up asking 2-3 times before getting the alpha's attention. They seem to do this naturally.

Lesson learned: If something is of little importance, in the case of what a woman says for example, flat out ignoring her is the alpha move and gives tingles due to holding the frame of "My inward thoughts are too important to interrupt in order to answer your silly question/acknowledge your statement". It's a very strong frame and I've seen all alphas hold it.