All credit goes to the great Patrice, for this piece of gold. I've found this very helpful, especially when getting over approach anxiety. You here guys rate girls on a 1-10 scale, however you'd probably give an average girl a 6 or 7. Which is way to close to 10, already putting the women on a pedestal. Now think of a woman on a 1-30 scale as followed, 1-10 (Ugly), 10-20 (alright), 20-30 (fine). Now when you see an average girl, you put her in that 'alright' zone. So it brings that average girl down to the range, shes actually at.

I'd recommend the Black Philip show to everyone, its not only entertaining, but he has some great insights. Heard this on the first episode of the show.