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[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I used to be overweight and experienced rejection at that time.
Bet you didn't. Bet you didn't approach men in the same way women expect men to approach them. Bet you didn't approach ten guys in an evening. Bet you didn't get shit tested to oblivion like most guys get.
I bet what happened was you tried one time with one guy who was totally out of your league, and then went home and cried about it for a week. Or maybe you're talking about getting dumped? As if men don't have to suffer that too. You were fat and had a boyfriend. Fat men rarely get even that privelege - and those that do excel in other areas.
I just want anyone ... to know that girls/women are not out to get you ...
Oh we know you'd love us to believe that you're not out to get us. A million divorce statistics, alimony payments, "accidental" pregnancies, unfair marriage settlements, rape allegations and entitled girls endlessly exploiting men say otherwise. You don't know what it's like to face all that - how could you? And I'm not asking you to. But don't pretend there is any form of gender equality here.
who has been rejected, who has been hurt by a relationship
Hurt by a relationship? Just one? Why are you hurt dear... because you got used and dumped? Or because you've had three decades of being used and exploited by women? How can you compare? Have you lost most of what you've ever earned in life, had your social life eviscerated, and been lumbered with eternal payments to someone who lied to the police to get you put in jail? No? No... you got used and dumped one time, and now you conclude men are as bad as women. Boo fucking hoo.
And no, I've not suffered the above either. But only because I've been smart as fuck in avoiding terrible deals with normal women. Normal women who idealize love and marriage and relationships just like you do... and how could they not? If monogamy, marriage, divorce etc favoured me so much as it does women, I'd idealise and romanticise it too.
I get how frustrating it is to relate to somebody that doesn't actually want what they are saying they do
It's not frustrating any more for most of us - it's fucking laughable. We know the game, and we're done playing by your rules for your benefit. You reap what you sow, and you've gotten away with this shit for millenia. Now it's payback time ladies. And it's the most gentle payback ever - you get acceptance of your nature and men who understand you. You won't even know it's happening. You'll probably even enjoy it.
But I want you to know, this is not a gender or sex issue.
Sorry... you don't get to decide what the issue is. It is absolutely a gender issue, and it is absolutely a sex issue. Because we say it is, and what we say is based on cold hard logic and experience. You don't like that? Of course you don't. You're staring down the end of a shotgun that's labelled "no more beta bux exploitation".
Oh sorry, let me rephrase that so you can feel it: we don't believe your myth of love, you (as a gender) have had ample opportunity to demonstrate that it is true and you have failed us. We will no longer sign a contract promising you a retirement plan.
Me, along with so many other men and women, want to provide for a family one day.
hahahaha women want to provide for a family? hang on, let me find my hamster food, that poor little bastard must be starving to death with all that running.
Don't let the shitty people in the world stop you from seeing the good in right person for you.
You're right... and I'm working on finding the right set of girls for me, who will give me everything I want and be loyal and good and sexy and decent and not ask for any form of commitment. This is my definition of "good", and I am very open to it when it comes along.
I am so sorry for whatever hurt brought you to this sub but I fully promise that type of hurt is universal
How do you know it's universal? How can you possibly understand the male experience? You are a member of the most priveleged group ever to have walked the earth, even though you personally were temporarily excluded from some of its benefits due to your choice to stuff too much food into your face and avoiding the gym.
But now that you're not fat any more, you think you can identify with men? Because you didn't get what you want one time from one relationship? You can sit there, look forward to your future marriage from a man happy to die for you, and think you can identify with a gender that is fully expected to do that dying? Sorry lady, I think you need to read the sidebar a few more times.
[–]BeefJesusMaker 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the utmost appropriate response to this post.
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[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You are the only one who stands to lose from this mentality
From what mentality exactly?
I am a master at logic, and also a woman
Oh dear oh dear oh dear... clearly I overfed that hamster in my last post :)
Joking aside - you seem to be genuine so I'll address you as such. What is your concern here? TRP is about acceptance, not the hate that you seem to interpret it as.
We advocate advancing the male sexual strategy. Women generally don't like that one bit, because aspects of our strategy conflicts with yours. That's fine, but our way is not hatred. It is just our way. It is what men want, it is what makes men happy.
We generally (and me in particular) don't believe in the "settle down with that special snowflake" idea that you are concerned I'm distancing myself from. Most here (and again me in particular) have repeatedly tried to have what women like to call a meaningful relationship, many times. Speaking specifically for myself: the woman has always fallen very far short of any reasonable expectations.
I was always left unimpressed yet confused. Everyone told me how wonderful women are, yet they behaved like utter shits sooner or later. Why? I had no explanation. Until I came here, and for the first time in my life it all made sense. ALL my past experiences fitted. No other explanation (parents, friends, family, books, girls themselves) has any bearing on reality whatsoever, it's all just wishful thinking mixed up with a huge helping of "women are wonderful, you just need to find the right one".
From your tone, you probably also believe in "the right one". For most men, "the right one" means a woman hitting the wall hard enough to pretend to be decent long enough to get married and pop out a few kids. Again this isn't my story, but it's a common enough one in the people I've seen (obviously not using TRP as a potentially biased sample).
I just want you to know that beneath the BS, beneath the red pill rhetoric, there are real people at stake, including yourself
Noone is pretending there are not real people at stake. You are fundamentally not grasping the gulf between what men want and how we are treated. How could you? For you, men are either top 10% awesome people with clearly no problems whatsoever (there to be fucked or referred to as the evil patriarchy as needed), or bottom 90% whiners who you won't listen to because ... well, they're bottom 90% whiners.
Men are not allowed to tell you their problems. Men who try are shunned, labelled unattractive, mocked, ridiculed. You are only interested in the ones who appear to have it all and laugh while doing it. As soon as a man shows real vulnerability you either exploit it for commitment or toss him aside as unattractive.
I choose to be in the "make it look easy and laugh about it" category thanks.
And this is why men do not express their problems to you and why you think their lives are very different to reality. This is why we come here. This is why there is so much happening here. This is why you think we're just angry trolls distancing ourselves from true love. Really... we're not... and the only thing we're missing out on is a painful divorce.
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[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If we could have this conversation without the loaded assumptions in my direction,
Look up the definition of hypocrisy sometime.
Just one question: as well as posting on TRP, did you also go on TwoXChromosomes and ask women to be more reasonable to the men in their lives? To stop divorceraping them, to stop the false accusations, to stop getting "accidentally" getting pregnant? To quit the shit tests, to be honest, to say what they mean and mean what they say?
No, I bet you didn't. I bet you thought "hey, maybe I can make the world a bit better by fixing at least one of those bad men over at TRP".
Sorry, not interested in discussing the rest of the details of your post. It's all been said before, and you're not going to listen to any of it anyway.
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[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am reaching out to listen
Your initial post (now deleted because it contravened our rules on at least two major counts) had nothing at all about listening, and an awful lot about telling.
I don't understand this but I am hoping to.
What is it that you don't understand?
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[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
which is that lots of women do not fall within the parameters outlined by this sub.
AWALT has been discussed at length in a number of recent posts.
Is a different perspective always rejected this way? Seems irrational.
Read the guidelines. You clearly violated two of the rules. The rules are there for very good reason.
Like I've said, as a female, I've read the sidebar and it doesn't apply to the females that I know or to myself.
Thing is though... it does apply to you and about you. You don't think it does. You think you're loyal. You believe in love. You think you understand men. You think you would never do the things we don't like. But you would. In the same situation, you'd do the same thing as everyone else does. 99% of people are the same. Maybe you're the 1%... but why should we take the risk on a 1% when there are so many women out to exploit us?
And now you're thinking "I don't want to exploit men! I just want a nice stable steady attractive boyfriend, and maybe in time get married and perhaps have a family", not realising the extent to which your princess dream directly maps to male exploitation.
Or have I misunderstood, and really you want to just go round handing out free blowjobs and never asking for a damned thing for yourself?
I'm trying to go head to head on a logical test are you ready?
I will not be submitting to your tests, logical or otherwise.
Are you hear to listen (as you said) or to try and poke holes in the logic (as you seem to do) or to try and educate us that "women are people too" (as you've said several times) or that for our own good men should realise that NAWALT (as you've also tried to do) ?
One of the complaints about women, that rings true from my experience, is that they're always changing the subject and never get pinned down on one particular thing. Winning an argument against a woman is like wrestling with a pig - you just get dirty and the pig enjoys it.
In other words: it's hard to take you seriously because you keep changing your mind about your agenda.
[–]Squeezymypenisy 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to redpillwomen. This is men only. Stay out.
[–]CisWhiteMaelstrom 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am a girl who dates guys.
Hahaha, Oh my god, nobody gives a fuck. Get the hell out of here.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Oh, wow. You're serious.
You actually think that what you have to say is worth listening to just because you're female.
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[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't think I'm any better than you.
That's not your malfunction. Your malfunction is that you think you're going to come along and tell 140,000 people something that none of them has thought of in three years. In your two minutes of typing.
Because you offer a unique female perspective or something.
Well, you're not special. Everything you said, we've all heard before. You're just another chick having an emotional reaction, and thinking it's the first time anyone in the world has thought this.
You mistake the intensity of your reaction for some sort of authenticity or meaning.
Listen, sweetie. I don't hate you. Your naivety is kind of cute.
But you don't really know what you're talking about. Pain isn't avoided by holding hands and singing kumbaya. Pain is avoided by making wise decisions, and that's what men are here to learn. So I'm afraid I have to remove your post.
Because well-intentioned as you are, this is a place for grownup talk, and you're just not ready to contribute to that. Which means you are getting in the way.
[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And behold how the thin veneer of compassionate concern rubs right off. Couldn't bear to not be taken seriously, eh?
Sweetie, your kind is common around here that we have term for y'all. We call you "concern trolls". It means someone who attempts to police your language or behaviour for their own ends, under the pretense of concern for your welfare or image.
Now, that you've most cooperatively hung yourself with the supplied rope, allow me to show you the door, and suggest an alternative venue where you can continue your love affair with the sound of your own voice.
Toodles.
[–]Icaria25 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hating women is for the TRP noobs, literally, they walk over here because they are full of anger towards women.
TRP actually heal that anger and directs it to healthy patterns of life.
The sidebar itself is made so that a hateful man may find logical reasons for why it's life went wrong and it's usually in all the dreamy stuff you talk about like everyone is special and so on ( an ego projection which needs to go ).
The whole point of this sub is acceptance, and domination, of reality. There is no compromise and no discussion, only amused mastery and firm beliefs.
You come from a very far place ( mentally ) as you are trying to change eternal truths with words. But words come and go, truth stay and everyone here got burned somehow.
People come on TRP for their benefit, not social justice, because they realize the world is fucked up atm.
Morality is good because it make societies stable, but we are not living in a stable society. And it will be up to men to fix it as always. You as a woman can only find your nest and provide comfort for a worthy man, and not much else. That was always your role and if you think otherwise, you have been lied to. Like most of us.
Women need to address fate to embrace it; Men need to address fate to rock it and bend it to their will.
If you remove the polarity, both have really no mission in this world and can't hope to make it better when they miss the core point.
Save yourself and then you will be in the position to help others. Until you are there, your words and actions won't mean much.
[–]Bevinisyourdad 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I came here for the girl advice, stayed for the lifting tips. Have a girlfriend, workout 6/7 days a week, write music and do well in my human resources program which preaches equality like you wouldn't believe. The redpill isn't just having sex with women. You make yourself better and those things just kinda come along after a bit.
[–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Remember the concept of god?
Yahweh is four hebrew letters "Yod-Hei-Vav-Hei" and if you translate it you get:
"Masculine male fucks female and creates life."
Red Pill is basically the true god.
If you seek the masculine male and wish to fulfill your potential as a female then the Red Pill will be perfect for you.
But in that word god there are two "Hei" letters. They represent androgyny.
Androgyny is not fulfilling your potential.
So if you come here to preach equality and androgyny you have made an error.
We advocate maximum polarity of the sexes... Red Pill advocates male self improvement towards masculinity.
You, as a female, will never fulfill your potential with an androgynous beta male.
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[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Masculinity is polarity.
You likely (99%) don't comprehend what Red Pill is about.
We seek to polarize.
The Blue Pill world seeks to depolarize and make men and women equal. (androgyny)
Red Pill is the secret to creation. (as was known 6000+ years ago)
We know we are tapping into the Truth of existence.
For men we are excited to be discovering the great Truths of the ages.
Red Pill runs far deeper than you comprehend.
[–]battleof_lissa 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This is crap. General "friendships" with women are pointless so I'll respond from a more intimate view.
Women can and sometimes do treat men how you described, in the moment, but more likely then not it completely stops for one reason or another.
What then? Were did all that mutual humanity and generalized respect go?
It's scary easy how quick and painless a woman can fall in and out of "love," sod the fall out.
Once they know what (and who) they want or don't want, nothing else matters. Especially the feelings of the men in their dust. I am not saying something as stupid as all women are evil. It's their quick ability to go from adoration to quick and icy indifference that's worse than hate.
[–]battleof_lissa 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Who cares? What women feel when they get dumped doesn't matter in a men's thread.
[–]battleof_lissa 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What I want doesn't matter. I only responded because I'm a woman too and I knew it would get deleted anyway.
[–]bearslikeham0 points 10 years ago [recovered] (14 children) | Copy Link
/u/yamarrrr What is your goal here?
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[–]bearslikeham5 points 10 years ago [recovered] (12 children) | Copy Link
So you believe most people are here on the red pill only as a result of bad relationships? I am here because this is the only place I know where people talk and debate the true nature of woman and sex without being worried of being persecuted by a weak sick society. The stereotypes are true and are a result of empiric evidence. You don't need to save anyone but man from the lies impose to demoralise and destruct masculinity and family values.
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[–]bearslikeham1 points 10 years ago* [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
I only wonder why people are here. I don't know.
Seriously you don't know? Keep reading posts and side bar until you understand.
I wonder what is your opinion of this sub, could you explain me that?
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[–]bearslikeham2 points 10 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
Ok.
I am a red pill follower. I strongly agree with everything that is discussed and posted on this sub because to me is pure truth and always hit the nail. Without looking my comment history, how do you imagine me? Do you believe I have dated adults? In what do you believe I base my ideas? On experiences? On lack of sex or resentment?
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[–]bearslikeham 2 points2 points2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What do you want in terms of a relationship connection?
I don't give a fuck about connection, I only care about benefit.
To devalue someone, and to make assumptions about them based on their gender?
I don't devalue and I know my assumptions are true.
do you keep dating?
I don't date, I'm pretty direct with what I want. I learnt to value time as the most important resource and dating is a waste of time.
do you not hold hope for a true emotional connection with your partner?
I honestly don't care about emotional connection. My brain is goal orientated and wasting and destroying my life for the purpose of "having a partner" or "connecting with a girl" is not one of my goals.
[–]bearslikeham2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Is not only inefficient but worthless.
Why not just be gay?
Because I am heterosexual. However I truly envy the great, healthy and stable relationships my two gay friends have, thing which is impossible to have with woman.
not waste your time dating any human?
I told you I don't date, I fuck.
You say in several comments that you are intelligent , why do you believe you are intelligent?
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