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Pre-selection by accident and gone horribly wrong?

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January 6, 2013
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Title Pre-selection by accident and gone horribly wrong?
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Upvotes 4
Comments 9
Date January 6, 2013 6:42 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/162kjt/preselection_by_accident_and_gone_horribly_wrong/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/pre-selection-by-accident-and-gone-horribly-wrong.235439
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[–]TAOofSTEVE2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like his female friends are content keeping him as an orbiter and are not willing to share the one commodity they keep him around for: attention.

[–]Modredpillschool1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This was my take as well.

[–]TRP Vanguardlegendofpasta0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Steve gets it

[–]RedHonest1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I see this type of situation as the OP being the BMOG (beta male of the group). The women don't actually have any interest in the guy, they seem him as their kid brother and have maternal love for him.

And that's it right there. It would be like sarging with your mom: Obviously, your mom is going to screw things up for you, because she instinctively wants to see you protected, she doesn't want you to get hurt, etc.

My suggest for the OP: Sarge alone. These friends of yours are going to keep pulling you back to beta. If you want to show a woman your alpha side, you're not going to do it when they're around.

[–]Desmadre0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck this hits close to home, a buddy of mine is in a similar situation. All of his LJBF girls are always DYING to hang out with him. The way they call and text him you'd think he had game but sadly this is not the truth. Whenever they hangout they always talk about relationships (mainly about their bfs/ex/flames) and when it comes to him all they say is the whole "You're a great guy, the right girl for you hasn't found you yet!" I've explained to him countless times that they have no interest in you actually getting a girlfriend because it means less time for them. Sure they tell him you need to take chances and go out with different girls, but as you all know or SHOULD know by now is never take what a women says at face value, listen to what they respond to or how they act. I cringe every time I see him check into a place and he is with them.

[–]Samseau0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude's a bitch

[–]TRP Vanguardlegendofpasta0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

beta trash.... lol and then the dude goes on /r/AskWomen about it.. mm hmmm

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe not pre-selection but I found this an awesome story.

[–]GeorgeGordonByron1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

if I were the OP, I'd have introduced the new girl to the group of friends, just long enough for her to see my friends getting handsy, and then gone into isolation. preselection is the ultimate DHV.

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