I'm going to regurgitate some red pill advice that I have found to be crucial to successfully beginning a sexual relationship with a new plate. I'm going to bring up some of my own personal idea's that I have noticed throughout the years. All of this information, written below, is pre-sex advice, and some can translate to relationship advice. Without further adieu, here we go!
I. Always hide your effort:
“Part of being attractive is always looking like everything is effortless to you. Behind the scenes, you work hard – you work like a fucking fanatic. You tear your body apart at the gym, you eat clean like your body’s the holiest temple on Earth, you schedule sleep hours like you’re a baby, you pour your blood, sweat, and tears into your professional success and your networking, you hone your social game through months and months of embarrassment, you’re always reading, always learning, always growing, always mastering something new. And you never let anybody see you work. Never talk about it, never allude to it.” -written by unknown Red Pill author.
II. Women love social relationships:
Invite them to social gatherings where you can showcase social proof that people show/ have interest in you. Introduce them to your friends in order to increase an emotional connection and personal investment. I would only use this tactic, if the girl is on the fence (indecisive on whether or not she is attracted to you) and isn't interested in a one-on-one date. You must hone in on your ability to gauge a women's interest in you. A “how to tell if a girl is interested in you” article on here would be fantastic. I might pick up that endeavor later. In getting back to the course content; the reading material that led me to this conclusion (women love social relationships) was the book “Brain Sex” which emphasized how women's brains value social relationships more than men, and men value “objects” more than women value them. This is self-evident if you look at the segregation between men and women in occupational choices. I tested this theory out in the field, and I found that it worked best when the girl was lacking the social life she desired, and was somewhat disinterested in me, but she would give me her number, because she wanted to meet new people. If she show's a lot of interest in you, don't go through the trouble of bringing her to social events. A few, if not one, one-on-one dates will do. Post-sex, you can invite her to parties or clubs, but wouldn't you rather look for new options at these events?
III. Treat every girl as flirting practice:
Social skills are perishable, as are most skills, if you don't practice it. It doesn't hurt to brighten up a 3's day by practicing flirting with her, so why not?
IV. Tease:
“Nothing displays confidence quite like teasing your girl. It is an implicit yet powerful display of abundance, as you demonstrate you haven't the need nor desire to pedestalize her or take her too seriously.” -written by unknown Red Pill author.
V. Don't justify:
“Justification is seen as low value behavior, an admission of guilt, a symptom of inferiority.” -written by unknown Red Pill author.
VI. A women's emotional investment in you is zero, pre-sex!
Absolutely FUCKING ZERO! Don't mistake yourself by thinking otherwise. She will fuck your best friend after you put in so much work to court (have sex with) her, shortly after she used you for a couple meals, validation, a better social life, or to solve her multitude of problems. She will fuck your best friend even if she knows that it would devastate you and break apart your friendship. She doesn't give two shits about you once her hypergamy is activated. “You'll never find yourself in a situation where a girl is giving you gifts and cooking you meals, but NOT having sex with you.” -written by unknown Red Pill author. She will only consider you as a human being after she has had sex with you. In any other circumstance, you are completely expendable. If you aren't fucking her then she should be considered expendable too. Remember there is no concept of honor, loyalty, or relational equity with women during the pre-sex phase of your relationship. NONE!
VII. Always be willing to walk away from the table:
Otherwise you are dependent on her emotionally, and that usually doesn't end well. Personally, I consider women to be horrible investments, because you never receive a financial profit, you can never reclaim your time back, their value depreciates over time, and all you are really bartering for is their vagina (unless you have them on a pedestal) and there are no guarantees that she will even give you that. So why should you have any issues with walking away from the table?
VIII. Law of least effort:
I have taken a girl snowboarding, outdoor rock climbing, and west coast swing dance lessons. I have thrown a Valentine's day party for a girl, only to get my sexual advances rejected by the end of the night. When I worked at a bar, I let a girl skip a big line to get in and then convinced the bartender to serve her a drink before all of the other thirsty customer's who were impatiently waiting for their drink. Through all of this effort, I didn't fuck any of these women! While enduring all of my failures, I saw friends of mine fuck hot (7+) women by only inviting them out to get coffee, an alcoholic drink, or dinner. You must have sex with a girl before showcasing a lot of effort, and if you have already had sex with her, why would you put forth this much effort?
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