I don't want to hit the wall. Yet. Of course it's inevitable, but I would like to really hit it hard many years from now.

We have enough disposable income that I've started doing some subtle things, like occasional botox to prevent deep lines on my face. I'm careful about this because, as much as my husband would like a good-looking wife, I know he would like some money in his bank account, too (I'm very frugal). However, I haven't told him about it - I use my own disposable money - because I want him to just be in awe at how young-looking his wife remains.

I was thinking about Angelina Jolie. She is nearly forty. Forty! Do you think she has "hit the wall"?

Can't we push back that age 30 limitation if we eat well and do careful maintenance? And get lucky, I know. Genetics.

We just moved to Scandinavia, and something I notice here is that all these hot young blondes look like their husband's mothers by age 45. There is a HUGE difference in how women age here vs men (something to keep in mind!). I want my husband to still be proud of me years from now.

I'm looking for some honest feedback here, and I know you guys will provide it. We married young, and I'm hoping it isn't necessarily all downhill from here yet.