[Rant/Venting] I'm a walking paradox

Thotwrecker · 2016-03-17T09:29:55+00:00

You are getting flack because your friends can tell you're a bitch, you're not congruent to the person you're trying to portray. You don't OWN the shit you do. If you want to work out, go balls to the wall. Be proud of your newfound hobby; don't preach about it, but make it clear you love it and you're proud of your body.

With girls you are all fucked up in your logic. "I'm a great looking guy with a decent body type that can't get pussy."

Well, shit, Mr. Great looking guy, how many girls did you approach this week? How many women are you flirting with on a daily basis, and are you trying to escalate it? Are you actually hitting on hot girls you see, are you acting on whatever it is you think chicks in your social circle "dig" about you?

"Some traumatic shit happened." So what, that's no excuse, everyone has some traumatic shit, you cannot let it affect you as an adult man. You cannot live in fear, run by your childhood wounds and traumas.

What is it you think is supposed to happen? Do you think that women see a high SMV guy and think "Hmm, he's rich, he's in good shape, he's about a 8 in terms of social skills, 9 in terms of body, 7 in terms of social proof, etc. I'm about a 8, so I'm going to be attracted!"

No! Women do not actually see your internal SMV, they do not apply logic. You have to go close them. You keep mentioning how you're getting chick attention. Like you can tell that they think you are cute or hot or whatever.

Here's what you need to understand. Do you realize how fucking worthless "chick attention" really is? It doesn't mean she wants your D, it just means you're titillating her or capturing her focus for 1 second. It's a window of opportunity for you to go build some ACTUAL attraction, but it is NOT attraction itself.

50pluspiller · 2016-03-17T07:26:24+00:00

You're a pussy.

If you want change then change, if you want something go for it.

What's the worst that could happen?

frerri · 2016-03-17T06:58:08+00:00

Yea, what the fuck. You have to want it to succeed.

TheRavenousRabbit · 2016-03-17T07:39:28+00:00

So, essentially, the problem you have is by not trying? You're not actually going after women?

I'm gay and I understand women better than you, it seems. Women are passive when it comes to the dating game. They don't approach, very rarely do they do so. Gosh, didn't your dad teach you this?

ClimbingTehLadder · 2016-03-17T11:44:18+00:00

About going full RP - the rule of thumb is simply don't talk about it. Don't give friends RP advice, and definitely don't tell them about RP itself. No one will really notice a difference in you except for increased confidence and drive towards achieving your goals. If friends don't accept your newfound self respect and confidence, drop em.

_red_carpet · 2016-03-17T14:36:14+00:00

See someone about your anxiety.

drizzcaken · 2016-03-17T14:56:00+00:00

Are you also a really shitty rapper in your favorite pair of ironed socks?

It's easier being said than done but with due time you should break out of your shell as long as you actively invest in a changing for yourself.

Remember you must work on yourself first, worry about the girls and other shit later because that will all actively come to you.

The anxiety that comes with success is normal since it's a big change so learn how to enjoy being out of your comfort zone

max_peenor · 2016-03-17T19:27:38+00:00

I have a feeling that I'll have more enemies than friends

They aren't enemies. They just aren't in your frame. They don't understand. Smile, nod and move on with your life. Just remember, no matter what they feel about you, or merely say what they feel about you, they will always respect power.

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-17T12:47:58+00:00

How does this in ANY WAY help the community? This crap belongs in AskTRP.

Title	[Rant/Venting] I'm a walking paradox
Author	AR96
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	March 17, 2016 6:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4arw3e/rantventing_im_a_walking_paradox/
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