So I was reading about the concept of "Alpha Widows", and I realized that I suffer from the opposite. Im a "Hot Chick Widower" if that makes any sense.

Basically I was dating a 10 for like six months. Usually I max out at getting 7's. Anyways as you can guess that ended, but now Im faced with this huge issue of not being able to lower my standards again. I keep comparing other girls to her, and I feel like I'll never be happy again unless I get her or another 10.

How do I get over this. I fee like "Hot Chick Widowers" is a huge reason why a lot of guys have trouble dating again after a bad break up with a chick out of their league.