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[–]prodigy2throw10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There's another sub for this. Asktrp
[–]Shiva-Lingam6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes you have to let your friends go and move on.
[–]1SeamusAwl2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Move on. He has oneitis and even her cheating on him couldn't break him of it. It must be pretty bad if he couldn't even tell you to fuck off himself but let her.
[–]BakedP0Tato[S] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah seems like the only option. I've known him for over ten years
[–]ImamMahdi4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you've known him that long, chances are that when he comes to his 'senses', he's going to regret ruining things with you and come back to you apologizing.
At that point, you should forgive him, because he would have learned his lesson.
Doesn't sound like he wants to screw things up with you, maybe just wants some distance, because you keep trying to get him to break off his relationship, but he himself just can't accept that outcome.
The other thing is...you are so young and so is he...21 is not that old and if he's been with her since he was 18....it's tough for him too, to let go.
Tl:dr; Just move on and let him be, give him the distance he wants. But don't cut him off completely, check on him time to time. And if he wants to be friends again, forgive him and accept his apology. If he trusts you and likes you as a friend enough, to call you and come to you crying and telling you all that shit, he probably respects you.
[–]BakedP0Tato[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I appreciate this. I just want to tell him to man the fuck up! but i'm still just ignoring it all.
[–]ImamMahdi0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah don't escalate it. Or he will think you abandoned him and that you also think that you shouldn't be friends. Let him be and he will realize it was his fault for pushing you away
[–]akru30000 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's hard a thing to acknowledge brother but you can guarantee they WILL break up and he WILL come back asking for friendship once he's alone again. Maybe forgive him up to you but you gotta let him go and let him be his own man
[–]darknes662 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"I'll be here for you when she breaks your heart again" Then break all contact. Ghost his ass like he should have ghosted her, but save the voicemails. You won't hear from him if she's still in his life
[–]Mangoinhand1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This.
It is loving snd supportive and non-needy on your part.
[–]LordThunderbolt1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yoh have a beta guy who's gf went behind his back to strip and cheat on him with a client. He's damaged goods dating damaged goods. You can't save him, just let him be. It's too late for that guy. You need new friends who won't ditch you because of some girl.
[–]BMeyerBA0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd say keep the messages just in case the idiot needs them in the future, but I don't know what this chick is capable of so you should probably save your own tail and forget about this sap
[–]BakedP0Tato[S] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah definitely. how she just threw a rape allegation at me
[–]420KUSHBUSH0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I feel like this would have been me if I didn't discover TRP really early. Honestly, let him be, he'll come around eventually. Just make sure to keep all recordings of her potentially, and probably, falsely accusing him of rape.
She accused me of rape too but she threatened to tell all his friends he raped her as well but I have no proof of that. I think I have enough evidence to prove how insane she is if shit goes down
[–]420KUSHBUSH0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good, and keep it on more than one device. Best of luck for you and your friend in this dire situation. Just wait things out, and your friend will convert and join us. It's only a matter of time.
[–]CallMeHaseo0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude it's crazy how the blue pill guys fall under this mind control once they get some pussy. Dudes become zombified simps out here. All these chemicals squirting in his head will destroy his life lol. Like wake up.
[–]BakedP0Tato[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know how he can't see how crazy she is. She was gonna call the cops on him? for cheating?
[–]Paladin29030 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When a guy is under the "love" spell, there's nothing you can do or say to snap him out of it. He has to do that himself. If he chose her over you, then forget the asshole. It might be tough, but with friends like that, who needs enemies?
The girl is a cunt, and he'll eventually come to his senses, but there's nothing you can do to accelerate that process. She'll chew him up and spit him out. It sucks, but your friend is a lost cause. He got hooked on "Crack Cuntcaine." He's an addict.
[–]DouglasPR0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
he's not rock bottom yet. He will be blind until then. Chill and wait, if he is a bro to you and deserves your friendship, when he's done with her you hang out with him again.
[–]fackdack0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is this a normal now for a guy to call his friend and cry?
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