Red Pill friend is blind

monsieurhire2 · 2014-01-13T12:32:23+00:00

It is ALWAYS a waste of time to try and talk your "friends" out of these types of situations. You cannot live their lives for them. I tried doing this and all it did was waste my time and energy. All you're going to do is piss the guy off. He may agree with you a million times, but he'll still go back for the experience of getting laid. Think about it. If the girl is obviously a loser, but he can't see it, then what does that say about him? That being said, physical chemistry warps reality for people. Anyway, focus on your life. Make new friends. Lead by example. Obviously, there is more to swallowing the red pill than reading TRP. It's the difference between knowing the theory and applying it in real life.

heist_of_saint_graft · 2014-01-13T14:20:46+00:00

Oneitis for an LDR 200 miles away means he hasn't even tasted the Red Pill.

wangber · 2014-01-13T13:19:49+00:00

He might have swallowed the red pill, but he didn't kill the beta inside yet.

pcadrian · 2014-01-13T18:50:00+00:00

Sounds like he's got oneitis - the red pill man's kryptonite.

IllimitableMan · 2014-01-13T14:00:30+00:00

he keeps throwing back to me "its something."

He's thirsty he's in a scarcity mindset he's not fully swallowed the pill he values her more than he values himself.

/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tei1v/respect_yourself_more_than_you_respect_her/

Your friend is a beta travelling for that kind of bullshit.

Rollo-Tomassi · 2014-01-13T16:26:51+00:00

Unplugging chumps is like triage. Save the ones you can, read last rites to the dying.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/04/03/hear-me-now-believe-me-later/

[deleted] · 2014-01-13T13:02:34+00:00

[permanently deleted]

lost_2_apathy · 2014-01-13T15:38:44+00:00

I expect many people here claim they are RP, but the reality is they are not even close.

I don't try to help friends with TRP. I just let them know how I do it. If they want more I tell them. It's hopeless to preach it, 90% of the time you'll get the exact opposite reaction you're looking for.

If people try to give me shit about what I'm talking about I just use the excuse I'm studying Evolutionary Psychology.

Darth_Pete · 2014-01-13T14:27:34+00:00

The pussy is a powerful weapon against male clarity. No matter how much red pills we take, getting a taste of some good pussy can cause a instant relapse into blue pill syndrome. Constant mainstream contamination also doesn't help. That is why I make sure I take my daily dose of red pill so I don't get reinfected with blue pill-itis. I just hope when I start spinning plates again that I've learn my lesson.

logically_ · 2014-01-13T18:04:08+00:00

Your friend hasn't swallowed the red pill yet. Not even close. He's desperate, obviously.

LastRevision · 2014-01-13T18:47:26+00:00

This is the difference between learning TRP theory through life experience and finding a neat new subreddit; give it time and let him make his own mistakes.

RedBigMan · 2014-01-13T19:27:22+00:00

He goes up to visit her after 2 months of talking, and they have a nice weekend although shes apparently too tight for him to get it in all the way....work that one out. Shes also 26.

It's ok, just smash that shit a few times and she'll be the right size. Women get loose for a reason and it's not because they're not fucking.

How the fuck can someone who swallowed the red pill still make such naive mistakes?

The only reason for this is he never actually swallowed it. Sure he may have read the sidebar shit. He might have an understanding of how it works. He just has not applied it to his own situations. He's got a severe case of the oneitis and in many cases the only cure for that is to get kicked in the balls figuratively or literally by the woman who they have oneitis for. Maybe after that he can actually swallow it and start acting like a man instead of a lovestruck boy with a crush.

[deleted] · 2014-01-13T17:44:23+00:00

You're not red pill if you read it and then think it somehow doesn't apply to you or your situation.

That's just called having a pyrite goose. It ain't even gold but he sure wants to treat like it is.

And ultimately, there's nothing you can really do. Something Americans- and many others- tend to not realize is that people really need to make their own mistakes before they're going to learn anything. People don't establish cause and effect trends without it. Just tell him he knows what he's doing (or that you hope he does) and that you hope he finds all the hapiness in the world. Don't put yourself in a situation where you can be wrong and he actually finds some shred of happiness with her and things actually work between the two of them. People underestimate how completely different personalities might bounce off each other at first, but end up being a far stronger foundation for a relationship than two people who are nearly identical in personality, only to discover they hate themselves. The issue there isn't so much compatability as an ability to understand each other.

I mean, she could be perfect for him. Broken clocks can be right twice a day. But me thinks this is more about pigs flying, than a matter of probability.

mordanus · 2014-01-14T01:07:49+00:00

We run on hormones as guys. The only moment of clarity we ever get is the 10 minutes after sex. Women are only hormonal once a month but we have it all the damn time. Trying to explain to your friend how fucked up his world is won't work with him being driven by the hormones that tell him to get with this girl. If you want him to get out of that relationship get him a girl that he doesn't have to drive 200 miles for and he should be good.

Title	Red Pill friend is blind
Author	redditredpill
Upvotes	24
Comments	34
Date	January 13, 2014 12:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1v3pnl/red_pill_friend_is_blind/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/red-pill-friend-is-blind.9954 https://theredarchive.com/post/9954

Comments