Ok a lot of you are probably anti-gay or at least not interested but messing around in the gay dating market first hand gives an insight into how women perceive the sexual market. Why? Whether they like dicks or pussies all guys tend to be more or less the same. Thirsty as fuck.
Body
Like many guys, I used to just swipe right on every girl on Tinder, vaguely hoping one would swipe back, purely a numbers game. Apparently every guy does this. When I decided to try adding guys to my interests suddenly about ~95% of the guys I swiped on I matched instantly. Needless to say I didn't even bother saying hi to any but 5. These five were interesting for various reasons, mostly it's the ones that stood out from the crowd of generic people that caught my eye.
When I decided to go on a date with this one Asian guy I soon learned what it must feel like to be a girl. I got this impression that the whole time we were hanging out he was just messing around until we could get back to his apartment where we could fuck. Needless to say this definitely made me less interested. I showed very little interest in sexing him, mostly because I really didn't have much interest. This seemed to make him more interested, he texted me constantly and called me and dragged out these long ass conversations.
The second time we hung out at a friend of mine's house I was gonna stay the night there while he went home and while he was leaving he asked me to be his boyfriend in that oh-so-sweet "you're my lovable asshole" way, even calling me asshole in that endearing tone. I said yes only because I was gonna need him for a ride back to mine place the next day and I just ignored all his messages and everything after that.
Lessons Learned
What I got out of all of this is that women really do feel like they're on top of the world when there's hundreds of guys lusting for them non-stop. They honestly want the guy that's not interested in them at the very least because he stands out from the crowd, and to build on that they want guys that DO in fact, stand out. You're more interesting, plain and simple, like getting the weird ice cream flavor just because its new and you might not get to try it again.
It's my opinion that TRP has something of a tendency to push the same agenda: become a Chad with the money and the muscles and the part where you get an interesting personality gets sidelined sometimes. Don't be different for the sake of difference, that's a shallow facade that won't last. Take the time to cultivate your own thoughts, actions, personality and vibe, it will pay off when others see your uniqueness.
TLDR;
Women have too many options, chances are your just another boring piece of meat chasing after their pussy, in which case the only entertainment they can hope to get is to lead you along and give you nothing just for a reaction.
Be interesting, be awesome, make her want you because their isn't enough of that in the world. Don't be another brick in the wall.
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