Rollo Tomassi interview - Why Women are attracted to the Dark Triad personality traits of Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy

Nikkozezim · 2019-02-20T15:59:50+00:00

A crazy case study would be my best friend in high school. His name was Dallas. He would constantly cheat on his girlfriend, and everyone knew it. Women still lined up to fuck him. His girl stayed with him until he literally left the school. She was addicted nonetheless. They weren’t ugly either. As a matter of fact, I was envious of his relationship and his affairs at the same time. As his best friend, I knew it all.

He was the most dark triad individual I ever knew. Charismatic as hell, didn’t care how people felt about his actions, whether it be who’s girlfriend he fucked, or how much he cheated. All he cared about were the brothers in his camp, including myself. I envied his inability to empathize, because at one point a girl broke my heart, and he just told me to go fuck some other girls and I’d be fine.

It took months until I was fine.

No matter what it seemed like he won. I am a year older than him (we are both in college right now) and I remember seeing his prom picture. The girl was a fucking stunner. He kept doing it, my success with women always paled in comparison. I constantly keep him in mind when trying to achieve this dark triad that I may never be able to achieve. Narcissism/machiavellianism is all I have been able to personally get somewhat of a grip of. I have too much empathy...

Done spitballing.

Govedo13 · 2019-02-20T14:07:09+00:00

Nice article. Reminds me of the Britain's most famous prisoner - Charles Bronson and his story. It is great read if you have the time for it. Women are attracted to such damaged people like fleas to shit.

ChesterRickman · 2019-02-21T22:54:21+00:00

The most successful guys I know usually have oneitis for some girl with who they failed hard, but in the meantime they spin plates with other girls who they don't really give a shit about. They get continously rejected by this one girl while the harem side-bitches adore them. It's really crazy.

adam-l · 2019-02-21T18:36:39+00:00

1st point:

Women were always attracted to the leaders. There are two ways for women to have their attraction circuits "triggered": observe the man actually leading, and observe the man exhibiting behaviors that are typical of, and allowed only to, leaders.

2nd point:

Knowing the above: What if you can effect the above behaviors, without actually being a leader of anyone, without even having the capacity to be the leader? What if you somehow manage to exhibit the attractive behaviors without the possessing the underlying "specifications" to actually lead others?

3rd point:

Humans evolved in bands. That is to say, until a few thousand years ago. all humans lived in small groups of ~40 to ~150 people, were everyone knew everyone else. In a setting like that, Dark Triad traits have no chance. Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy need a wide social ground in order to thrive. They need the ability to hide, deceive, pose, lie etc. It is impossible to pull all these through in a band setting.

Thesis:

"Dark triad" men are men that have a predisposition (biological and/or psychological) to exhibit "leadership", "I'm the man" behaviors that are attractive to women. These traits are viable only in an extended society, as is the large-scale societies of the past 5-6 millennia. In a small band, you could only get away with them if you really had it, and had the consent of other men. Otherwise, those traits got you ostracized or killed.

It is neither the Narcissist, nor the Machiavellian that "kills the enemy". These are the guys that would have you kill the enemy and they get the credit, while you get killed or maimed in the process. As for the psychopath, he is more probable to kill members of his own band, than the enemy.

Note that it is precisely the extreme difficulty to pull through the air of importance that the Dark Triad men had, in a tight prehistoric band, which is what makes them attractive. It was so dangerous to pose as important if you were not really important, that makes it an expensive, i.e. "honest" signal.

We should have cleared this things up, but it seems that the shadow of the Hobbesian view of prehistory is still long and dark.

weaponizeincels · 2019-02-25T04:35:20+00:00

“Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait”

Lol, men have no choice though right? Rape is illegal. You have to wait for sex if you want it at all.

weaponizeincels · 2019-03-10T16:53:11+00:00

“Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait”

I measure how this makes me feel as a person searching for someone. Extremely turned off. Not for the sorts of fridge reasons that people automatically assume though. I want very badly to be able to be in the position of the pursuer and show pretty much animal lust towards a guy but I still wouldn't want to do that with someone with this mind set because it completely removes all psychological authority from the male. :( Ironically so because pill takers are so focused on appearing strong, but I don't see how the desperation of automatically wanting sex from literally any woman is strong in anyway. It's pathetic. Isn't it the same kind of basic marketing ideas that people shill around here that the easier to obtain a thing is the lower it's value? So... you don't apply that to yourself though?

So I want to know why the logic around here is so skewed that way. Do you actually see yourself as an animal who wants sex no matter what? Because I don't think this place would exist if that was actually true. One wouldn't have to secondarily create many layers of trying to psychologically get sex if it was only exclusively about sex on the surface. It's clearly not. So why exactly keep up the facade that superficial sex is the most important thing?

Is it sort of removing men's actual psychological & sexual authority but assuming they are and treating them like some kind of animals who only want sex?

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” Oscar Wilde

Okay sorry if this post was offensive. Seems like no matter how hard I try to word things just right I still manage to offend people in places like this. inb4: 'post removed, user banned, multiple males sending me messages of how my post gave them panic attacks, etc'. I'm not at all saying male sexuality is bad, or wanting sex is bad. Those things are not bad. But aren't you self degrading if you treat it like it's nothing and should just be given away like it's nothing...?

So, again, ironically so... aren't you depicting yourselves as less than and lower than females even though the entire premise of your ideology is to try to appear strong in order to attract women...?

BrosefJones85 · 2019-02-21T00:36:33+00:00

When most males are betas this is what happens.

Title	Rollo Tomassi interview - Why Women are attracted to the Dark Triad personality traits of Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy
Author	MichaelLifeLessons
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Date	February 20, 2019 1:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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