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Seeing more and more reality

SavantTrain
January 17, 2013
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Title Seeing more and more reality
Author

SavantTrain
Upvotes 14
Comments 32
Date January 17, 2013 10:41 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/16s2fg/seeing_more_and_more_reality/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/seeing-more-and-more-reality.235396
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[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to the world of military relationships.

[–]moorethanafeeling 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

As a soldier, a thousand times this. I don't know if it's because of how small a world the Army is, but I've started to notice just how grimy people can be. Spouses will stay back and fuck the people that were too shitty to deploy with the real soldiers. What kind of world is that?

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

The real world. Integrity is not a character trait of human females.

[–]DEVi4TION 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit you might be right about that... I'll be searching my memory and looking for examples to the contrary for the next couple days. Damn, you might have just explained a lot in one sentence.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"Hypergamy doesn't care."

[–]DEVi4TION -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Don't men also perform(?) hypergamy? Ditching their current girlfriend or wife for a younger hotter girl. Yep. This argument is null and I think neither women nor men have 'integrity' in a relationship. Or both, some men and some women do, while others don't. This redpill idea is mostly based blinded women hating with some good info sprinkled here and there.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not really. Divorces are for the most part initiated by or driven by women. If men were as hypergamous, it should be close to even, but for the most part, men appear to desire to stay married.

Also, military men are often distraught by the fact that the common scenario is that their wife or girlfriend cheats on them while they are away.

I'd say women and men are quite different in relationships, unless the man has adopted game/seduction/alpha behavior. Given that most men are not like this, I'd say that for the most part, they don't participate in hypergamy.

[–]DEVi4TION -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But would they, given the opportunity? Men also cheat, a lot.

[–]SageInTheSuburbs 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's true that most men want to fuck most women they see who are 7/10 or higher on looks, however men are actually committed. Even if they do go out and fuck attractive girls—usually because their wife isn't putting out—yet they will still stay committed in their marriages providing for their wife and children. Women are not committed, the moment they find a man who has more resources they will abandon the relationship. Many, even though shacking up with a man who makes more, will also still try to get alimony and child support payments from their ex; women are all about resources and social status.

[–]Boss_Monkey 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Here is a way to find out. Ask any woman to define 'honor'. You may be shocked at the outcome, they can't.

[–]DEVi4TION -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be fair I can't either. I know what it is but I couldn't verbalize it.

[–]zionController 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That really sucks because I've always wanted a career in the service. It pains me to think of the mad adultery that goes on.

[–]moorethanafeeling -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't suggest joining. There's so much behind the scenes stuff going on with promotions and privileges. The freemasons play a huge part in all that.

[–]zionController 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

omg. for real? Please elaborate. I'm dying to know

[–]moorethanafeeling 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure why I got downvoted for that, but basically you won't make it far up the ranks without being a freemason. When being considered for a promotion, your career is contained within a folder. Part of that packet is a picture of you. One of the ways freemasons notice others in this process is to do something in your picture so that you can be spotted. But it doesn't look weird for people that aren't looking for it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I shake my head every time I see "proud army wife" or "I'm so proud of my bf serving in the Marine Corps <3333". It makes me sick knowing that 90% of these females will fuck some guy behind their backs and then get divorced when they come back home.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

God damn, even my sister is turning into one of these uncaring cunts. I'm going to do my best but my mother is so passive about it(she's the one supporting her through college) that it's almost futile. I recently met her new boyfriend who is one chill mutherfucker; he may be beta but the guys still great. Unfortunately she still hangs out with one ex that is altogether an alpha much older then her and having whatever way he pleases I'm sure.

I'm gonna straighten her ass up once she comes back for break.

[–]iggybdawg 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

When I was in college and my sister was in highschool, she told me of LJBFing a guy and how nice she was to him... I blew up in her face, telling her how that is the cruelest thing she can do to him, basically answering a yes/no question with MAYBE, that she needs to tell him a clear and honest "no" to set him free to find love elsewhere, and that she could not truly be his friend unless she became his female wingman to get him some tang. She was confused, to say the least, but in later years she did tell me about helping her awkward male friends find girls.

[–]zionController 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I dated a girl who had a young guy offer to marry her and buy her a house and treat her like a queen when she was 18. She said he put her too high up on a pedestal and it turned her off. She moved in with a 26 year old drug dealer / part time roofer and fucked his brains out for 4 years instead.

[–]Modredpillschool 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Stay classy, women.

[–]SageInTheSuburbs 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Did the young guy actually have the money to do this at the time, or was it just a promise to work really hard to get her those things?

[–]zionController 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rich family. He coulda done it no prob

[–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I wish there were easier ways to wake up. If only we had some way to teach men how to be men as children. Like a parent.. but a man not a mother. I think in the old days we had those...

Has anybody shared a link here with him?

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No kidding. Now I'm becoming a man as I approach my mid twenties. I think this should have been taken care of years ago before I screwed some good things up with beta behavior.

[–]SageInTheSuburbs 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Seriously, high school in particular would have been much better had i been awakened.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Better now than never. The past is dead.

[–]TRP Vanguardtheubercuber 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

OP? Storyteller here is a girl (reveal in second post)

[–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well then, never hurts to unplug a lady...

[–]XxXsmok3bluntzXxX420 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not really. Women are more brainwashed than men, and have more to lose.

[–]Modredpillschool 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Let me rephrase. Never hurts us to unplug a lady. :)

[–]XxXsmok3bluntzXxX420 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If we could, the entire world should be, but better and more efficient to concentrate time and energy on men. Women are just a combination of her surrounding peers opinions, and a red pilled man's woman will follow her anyway.

[–]zionController 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So many people have these stories. No matter how much you invest, you will always be liable to be a victim of hypergamy

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