Summary

Open relationship with girl, has sex with me and ex, has sex only with me after I read a book

Body

Long story short, I was with a girl in a LTR, and broke up with her to spin plates. We remained in an open relationship, I fucked her and kept fucking other girls too. She knew and was ok with it. She also had sex a couple of times with her ex (the dude that took her virginity), but the guy also just used her for sex and didnt want a relationship.

Now this situation intrigued me since I read here that most girls in open relationships will still have sex with one dude. So why is she not having sex with just me or him? Now you probably think because I give her attention and him sex, or the opposite. NO. I hardly speak to her in the days we dont have sex, and when we do its noting special. Him the same.

Fast forward a couple weeks and I read Daniel Rose's Sex God Method, i recomended to every guy like me who doesnt know how to really fuck a girl. Next time she came to my house I took her, slamed her to the bed. She already was shocked. When I fucked her I pinned her arms, pulled her hair. Spoke to her about how excited I was.

This is not to much change, but it makes a HUGE difference!

I usually fucked her long (30 min minimum) and this time just 10 mins, but she said after that I never fucked her like this and she loved it. She never fucked with the ex.

My hypothesis, and more advanced members please correct me if I am wrong, is that she saw me as an alfa worth sharing but the sex was unsatisfying, and she got that urge removed by him who knew how to fuck her better. Once I fucked her even better she did not need him anymore. Btw he has many beta qualities.

Lessons learned

Sexual technique is as important as frame, alfa mentality and body, invest time in perfecting it.