Show off.

z_omg · 2014-04-08T01:59:37+00:00

Women have been conditioned for millennia to see through the surface of men and know who is alpha and who is not. There is more attraction when nothing needs to be said. Work on your inner game - become the best you and you will propagate your alpha without needing to speak about it.

Invalidity · 2014-04-08T00:09:11+00:00

Just like the word creep is generally misunderstood, so is the word overcompensate. Most betas when they see a short guy riding in a ferrari are likely going to think, "Man that guy is hella overcompensating."

Wrong. That's a man who knows that that extra bit of flash is going to turn eyes. He doesn't give a shit what the man beneath him thinks, he's not trying to impress you, or anyone else for that matter. He's likely a man that knows what he wants.

Be the man who knows what he wants, and is not afraid to show it. Unless that 'it' is something like an obsession to Dungeons and Dragons, in which case, keep that shit underground.

RejectionEquality · 2014-04-08T08:00:05+00:00

"Showing Off" = Marketing

It is an important skill that men need to learn not just for attracting women but in promoting their careers. For a long time for my man refused to "toot his own horn" in his career. He was raised by his mother to believe that modesty and humbleness are more important than promoting oneself. However, upon studying more about marketing my man learned that that is 100% vital to learn how to skillfully "Show Off" and it all comes down to his frame and game.

Marketing oneself (whether to women or clients/customers/your boss) is an important and difficult one to master, especially true today where we are constantly bombarded with poor forms of marketing and most people have learned to "tune out" a sales pitch. Quality marketing has to find a way to show off a product as genuine without "overcompensating" and turning off the target audience.

RejectionEquality · 2014-04-08T01:00:21+00:00

There's nothing wrong with showing off unless you brag about it. That makes people cringe.

Gabe6678 · 2014-04-08T03:21:24+00:00

Although I agree with you, showing off makes people dislike you.

Barles_Chukowski · 2014-04-08T16:22:14+00:00

I think women like discovering a man has skills and cards up his sleeve she didn't know about. It makes him more mysterious.

When I take my clothes off for the first time and women realize I've been carrying a firearm the entire time they knew me, it makes me look way cooler than the guy who talks about all his guns at the party.

When I offer a girl a bowl and I casually pull out a fat bag of really good weed, it makes me look much cooler than the guy who tells everybody he "only smokes blunts."

When there's an altercation and suddenly I remember I have a blue belt in Jiu-Jitsu and handle the drunk guy without even having to throw a punch, it's a lot more impressive than if I was the guy who talks about his martial arts training and lifting all the time.

When I don't mention I like to make music, and there's a guitar at a party and I pick it up and just start fiddling around, or when a girl Facebook stalks me and finds my shitty music, they like that I haven't mentioned it.

So I say work on your awesomeness, but let the girl discover it. Once she's made one discovery about you, she'll pay attention. Just give her a little hint about how awesome you are and let her unwrap you.

vandramir · 2014-04-08T04:47:13+00:00

Showing off is a form of seeking validation. You can use material items as a way to raise your status, but if you bring attention to the item it will work against you. It goes from being a part of your style to being something you bought to try and impress them. Just like you wouldn't mention going to the gym to a girl because it ruins the fantasy they have in their head, you don't bring up the car or nice watch in a conversation.

lolyzor · 2014-04-08T07:53:56+00:00

Spot on, man I was crazy when I was a kid, natural alpha but over time, everyone was jumping on my head so hard telling me "dont be a show off" "dont be loud, be polite, be beta" and slowly over time I turned into a beta. But I am going back to TRP slowly, as you said I have to reprogram my self to be as natural as possible, fuck social norms, they are there for the beta losers....

rj88631 · 2014-04-08T15:50:16+00:00

Being the center of attention is always helpful. If she is looking at you, you already have Step 1 done. People want to go where the party is. Be the party. In the workplace, in class, at the bar.

I am not saying be the class clown but instead be the guy everyone wants to talk to.

RejectionEquality · 2014-04-08T06:42:51+00:00

I still believe humility is the ultimate virtue. Have you ever spent a day talking to a homeless man? The crap that he takes, the shit that is inflicted on him, it might even be self-inflicted but nonetheless, pain is pain, it makes you humble. To know where you are, and that you are not in the shoes of that homeless person.

Humility, mate, is one of the ultimate privileges of being a man. Women, I don't know when they feel humility. But I know that, as long as western civilization continues to run its course towards self-destruction and moral effacement, the number of women that will feel humility, will be so small, that they will be forced to hide it for fear of being a social outcast.

Even as we speak, how many of us are humble? Yes, I get what you are saying. You need to be proud, be loud. I agree. But humility keeps your head in the game.

Remember, no matter how high you might fly in life, we will all, always be buried six feet beneath everybody else.

Title	Show off.
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Upvotes	31
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Date	April 7, 2014 11:27 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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