"Stealing" a girl?

purecyse · 2014-09-12T20:12:59+00:00

Treat all girls, regardless of relationship status, as if they were single and you're golden.

skripklubbin · 2014-09-12T21:11:52+00:00

If you have to ask how to do this, chances are you won't be able to pull it off.

level_e11even · 2014-09-12T22:50:35+00:00

I've done this a couple of times. With girls in deep LTR (2+ years). This is what has worked for me:

Do not treat them like they're in a LTR. If you're pursuing it's because you assume the relationship is going nowhere and/or that the end is pretty much inevitable. Which means you have to think you already won.

So, don't treat her differently. Approach, comfort, and escalate as you would with any girl. One key thing, however, which is the most important:

Do not. I repeat, do NOT talk about the boyfriend. She'll want to maybe talk about him. Maybe about the things she's done with him, maybe about your similarities (even if there aren't any, she'll make them up just to see how you react). It's your job not only to distance your conversation from the boyfriend-related stuff, but to portray precisely what her current relationship is lacking WITHOUT ACTUALLY SAYING IT.

Here's what I mean: She's in a boring LTR with a supplicating beta who would cut his wrists the second she leaves. Well, maybe not to that extreme, but she knows (they always do, especially if they have you for a juxtaposition). And that's the idea: you want her to realize what EMOTIONS she's missing from her current relationship.

You see, women like stability, commitment, and protection. Things her current BF most likely provides, yes. But women also like social dominance, displays masculinity, and of course, sexuality. Raw. Your plan is to give her glimpses of what she's missing through your actions (escalation) and background (non-braggy stories please, they'll smell that from a mile away). It has to feel natural and cohesive (frame).

I've done this 2 times, THAT I KNOW OF, and have failed a couple of times (there was one out these failures who told me straight up that if she were 'single' she would have fucked me, but alas, it didn't happen). Who knows the girls I've banged that did have a BF and never told me.

Anyway, be socially dominant, display masculinity, show her how eventful your life is/has been, and maintain muthafuckin' frame. Their hamster will inadvertently make a list of pros and cons between you and the beta BF, and not barring any instilled social, family or even religious values (or 'blocks' as I'd like to call them), she'll come to the inevitable conclusion that you're simply better... Usually after sucking your cock on the hallway of her apartment (true story).

SQQQ · 2014-09-12T19:54:28+00:00

I have told some of my closest friends before, you can try and get in the pants of my girlfriend, you can even have sex with her - as long as you let me know when you did. Don't go behind me back. If she's willing to cheat on me with some of my closest friends, I'm sure she'd be willing to fuck someone else as well. So my friends would actually be doing me a great favor, see it as some kind of slut-test.

DistanceSkater · 2014-09-12T19:42:15+00:00

OMG so much misogyny! You cannot steal what no one owns!!

Kidding, I love "stealing" girls... You generally only have 1 competitor while single girls will have 5+ And that one competitor is getting boring.

Hardest part is just getting them alone with you. If you convince a girl to go out and get a drink, despite her already being in a relationship the battle is half won. Just do your thing.

And don't be ugly.

ryche513 · 2014-09-12T20:26:35+00:00

This might be a lot harder to do than you think. Not all guys who are in LTRs are beta so you're already making an incorrect generalization about "stealing" girls from these guys. Some guys will try to violently deter you which we already know no female is worth fighting for, others might try to remove the girl from the situation, others might even welcome the challenge and let you spit your game. Usually when they do this, you don't really have much of a chance since the girl will be hot on the fact her BF is acting like he doesn't care, so she will just end up going back to him while you stand there with a couple of drinks in your hands.

I think you really have to pull a long game on girls who are in "committed relationships" because you have to plant yourself in the girls life to the point its causing the other guy to get jealous of you. Let the guy basically hand the girl over for you. His insecurities and jealousy will push the girl to you and all you have to do is do your thing. Its like clockwork the amount of relationships "fail" this way. The girl will meet a new guy at work/bar/while shes out with friends (you are that guy), she will take interest and want to be friends, she will tell her bf about you, he will get jealous, he will constantly think about her leaving him for you, he will get angry with her about you, she will get fed up with him because of his beta attitude and jump into your arms. This is my strategy anyways. Maybe Im just not suave enough to "steal" her right then and there, but the long game works wonders. Plant yourself in the girl's life and let the beta do the work for you.

riverfan · 2014-09-12T22:08:04+00:00

If she is with someone you know, work with, or are friends with, leave her alone. If she is married to one of the above, congrats, you got a sister.

A night of pussy means the loss of a friendship, maybe more than one. Guys reach 40-50 and look around and realize that MAYBE they have 3-4 friends total. You can't lose the ones you have.

oldredder · 2014-09-13T07:07:53+00:00

hm. I made once choice, you might make another. These are my 2 close calls & my choices, not accidents, leading to the outcome I chose.

Girl #1. Dating a friend of mine (he'll be pissed at me for other reasons: I slept with his sister). His girlfriend was really into me. Into me enough that outside of where the boyfriend is, even not alone (with my other friends, not in his social circle) DTF without question. My 1 question to her: do you still feel right now that ____ is your boyfriend?

Her response: "... where did all these questions come from?" and a look of exasperation. She's already getting wet, it's a choice. If one desires push/pull that's the time to give the smirk & say "I don't really care. Let's do it!" and find a spot my friends aren't (unless you prefer an audience, I don't). I chose not to go ahead with this. Also the sister is hotter.

Girl #2: really into me, sex is nice. But she's dating another guy I know. I've known this guy a long time. They are a couple but he's very much OK with us having sex. It's not an emotional thing there, it's fun time. For them together it's emotional. One day she bursts out with "I don't want to fall in love again" and cries. I'm stone cold. Not hurtful just showing zero mirroring of the emotion. I'm not feeling it & I'm not going to. This is a choice but it's also a necessity. I could have strung together any lies I felt like to pull her away and have her to the other guy's exclusion. That's not going to make me happy, her happy or the other guy. I didn't do it. I was already getting sex so why do that? Seems like a bad outcome & I don't regret my choice.

I'm not sure if I could ever tell you what's right or wrong. I think life experience will have to be your guide. Maybe this will be of some value to you. Maybe not. It just is what happened to me, nothing less, nothing more.

bppg · 2014-09-12T19:38:10+00:00

Leave them alone. Where is your honor and respect for yourself? And remember that if she jumps ship she will likely do so again.

SQQQ · 2014-09-12T20:16:37+00:00

if u've taken the red pill why would u think there is another woman worthy of your effort to steal? (unless u know her man and want to start a fight)

theres usually better bang out there for less effort.

Title	"Stealing" a girl?
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Date	September 12, 2014 7:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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