Summary You can control yourself.

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"Guys my girlfriend always goes out clubbing without me, how do I deal with this?"

Great, I reccomend you sit her down and both of you communicate openly about how you don't like how she goes clubbing.

Yeah shove that "advice" up your ass if you read that and believed it for a second. Your girlfriend going clubbing isn't the real issue. It's an external indifference. It's your internal judgment. THE PROBLEM IS IN YOUR HEAD. Her going clubbing isn't the problem, your imagination and thoughts of her grinding on Tyrone and Chad is what is fucking with your head. Realistically you can't control her going clubbing, you can only control your reaction towards her clubbing. So how do you deal with it you ask?

Soft next/breakup or accept it. Make up your own damn mind.

You cannot control other's actions, but you can control your reaction

"Dear TRP, I'm too scared of losing my girlfriend"

What has happened once in this world, has happened earlier. Many men have lost their wives, children, jobs and many more. Your situation isn't unique .All is familiar and short lived. Losing your girlfriend, just puts the universe at balance. The universe is 13.8 billion years, yet your lifespan is a negligble fraction of that. Is losing your girlfriend really that important? Whatever the universe throws at you, is within your endurance. Man is like a fire, and problems are like twigs.

Feed enough twigs to the fire, the fire grows. Feed enough problems to a man, he grows.

Basic idea:-

Your "problems" are all self inflicted. It's just your judgment of the external world.

What has happened to you, has happened to others. Your problem isn't unique.

You can't change others, but you can control your reaction. That's true power.