Story/advice/questions regarding shit tests

imbackbabyyeah · 2016-08-22T04:50:53+00:00

If you're looking to get laid, it's probably not the best tactic to go after a girl who has her boyfriend out with her. If you had a good time then fair enough, but I mean the chances of that working out are quite low I would say.

About the shit test, I dont know was she drunk and high also? She might have been tripping out a bit?

Booty_Canoe · 2016-08-22T07:31:02+00:00

First off, her statement itself is probably valid. Chances are you are indeed a different person when you're high. Just because your behavior doesn't seem strange to yourself, that doesn't mean that nobody notices you eating that beer with a spoon while enjoying a side dish of confetti. It doesn't have to show this heavily, but hey, you're on drugs. You do behave differently.

Secondly, your reaction: A muffled "orly" in conjunction with chickening out to the fridge/phone is just you awkwardly removing yourself from a situation you (and nobody else) consider inconvenient.

If you had been alone with her, you could have said something along the lines of "Yeah, weed always brings out my animalistic side" and then bit her in the neck or grab her and carry her to your bed, making growling noises.
Or the same thing with feminine side and acting flamboyantly gay. It doesn't matter, just something funny to exaggerate and overplay her statement.

Lastly, the boyfriend. She might just be a flirty person. She might want to make her boyfriend jealous. She might have been looking for a threesome.
Keep gaming her if you want to, you might be able to seduce her if the BF isn't around and if you're okay with the moral implications here. Other than that, plenty other fish in the ocean.

Hang10Dude · 2016-08-23T06:28:53+00:00

I don't know if it was a shit test or not.

But there is one thing I do know: the fact that you're thinking about this so deeply means that you've got a long way to go.

A statement like that should roll off you like water off a ducks back. You've got to become mentally tougher, and, unfortunately, there's no shortcut to manhood.

Some things that will help you:

-Lifting heavy weights (I do 5x5)

-Meditation

-Reading books on psychology, anxiety and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)

Doing things that scare you and get new, challenging experiences (I was in the army and I worked as a stripper at different points of my life. Now I'm looking into starting a business)
Read up on nutrition and how it affects mood (I'm not an expert on this one, but I suspect there's a lot of good information out there)

evil_misogynist · 2016-08-22T16:25:02+00:00

Don't really sound like a shit test to me, but you could still screw yourself by acting insecure or defensive. It doesn't sound like you messed up really, but it depends on your vocal tone and body language. I would have probably just made a joke out of it. Something like "yeah one hit and I turn into the hippie guy from That 70's Show".

Akela_hk · 2016-08-23T03:03:11+00:00

You were both lit, stop reading too much into things, that's what women do.

makechangegreatagain · 2016-08-22T12:31:17+00:00

Most of the time, shit tests are all in a guys head IMO.

she was probably just saying that for conversation filler. And didn't ever really mean it.

It becomes a shit test when you buckle and worry about what your answer will be. In this interaction, she sees her question got you nervous or anxious so now she knows your weak spot. This is why women shit test weak men over and over cause they can keep them in control by hitting that weak spot.

Sounds like the girl is attracted to you, but if it's your homie's girl, then I would suggest to let it be. Youll just cause a bunch of uneeded drama and potentially lose friends thus decreasing SMV.

Plenty of single girls and girls dating guys youre not friends with out there to fool around with.

EDIT: nvm.. thought nice guy boyfriend was your friend and misread.

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TehJimmyy · 2016-08-22T08:11:51+00:00

"hahaha you're a completely different person when you're high"

Are you talking about yourself again ? smile (Pressure Flip)

Congrats on changing your life for the better

Title	Story/advice/questions regarding shit tests
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Date	August 22, 2016 4:31 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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