I'm in Sydney.

Probably have a few Tinder dates coming up. No idea where to take them a) I'm cheap so I don't like spending money on bars b) I like meeting at night because it's way easier to escalate when note everyone can see.

What I used to do in Hong Kong was to get bubble tea, and then cab (2 dollar, 5 minute ride) to a really close park that was always secluded, and escalate there. (I fucking love bubble tea + it's cheap + it's a lot more low pressure than a bar)

Problem in Sydney: a) I don't know it well b) I'll probably have to meet in the city/downtown, where I can't quickly move them to a park (because the closest park has a lot of people).

Thoughts? Should I just do the bar thing? Bars are so boring though my god (and I'm really bad at talking in a loud setting...+ the girl is pretty tall so she might be taller if she wore heels which is not okay) - although it's surely easier with alcohol, I'd much rather just save the money and hook up sober (which isn't hard anyway).