Every week around midweek, the bars in my town have ladies' night. Which means free drinks for the ladies till midnight. Having been out of the scene for a while and having just started a red pill life, I decided to dip my toes and test out a few theories.

I went to a very well known place where the gate policy is relaxed. I gave myself 45minutes to test things out. I had work the next day and a early morning workout schedule to maintain, so didn't want to linger. Besides, the house was occupied and I couldn't take anyone back that night.

However, I wanted to test out my body language and eye contact to see how the local girls would react (I am in India, game is pretty different here). So here's what I did :-

*Made sure I was feeling relaxed and confident.

  • casually strutted in. Had a slight look of amusement on my face. Just checked out the scene from above (split level club) went to the lower bar where the dance floor is and got a beer so that I have something to hold. looked at the other men and decided they all seemed too desperate. *so I decided to stand in the power stance just beside the bar. Legs apart, head held casually but straight, no slouching. This being my 9th running month of yoga, I found my centre and it wasn't very difficult to sustain.

Did this for a while. Looking straight mostly, then just doing a few turns. I noticed the difference from all the previous times. Women actually were taking notice.

Now for a physical description - I'm of average built. A little belly fat (I'm working on it, weights coming next week), 5'9", very long hair held in a high knot (I've found that women dig this look). I'd say slightly above average in the looks department but I may be underestimating because I do get complemented by the ladies often. But due to my previously beta self, I never really bedded many of them. Or may be they complimented me to maintain me in beta form. Who knows.

So anyway, I casually saunter over to the edge of the dance floor. Its flanked by men trying to get lucky and women taking a break from dancing. Much more men than women. All the men are trying to look cool somehow but failing miserably. They are tying to look without staring.

I just maintain my power stance, sip my beer and look straight in to the dance floor. Looking amused all the time. And it was amusing, some of the drunk girls dancing were funny AF. And then it started.

I was looking at a pair of girls dancing way up at the back. They looked hot. So I maintained my gaze trying to see if they make eye contact (I used to be bad at eye contact during cold approach). They maneuver up right in front of me and resume grinding against one another. They turn out to be a couple of 3s in their late teens. Nice bodies but faces were , urgh. I smile and enjoy the show without making a move. They try to sneak peaks at me and since I'm being very aware I catch them looking every time. Basically they wanted to pretend they weren't looking.

I soon realises other girls were doing the same. Not used to attention, I quickly looked around to see if there was a Chad around. Far from it though, just a few desperate looking badly dressed dudes. Some looking well worn with age and not in a good way.

So basically this went on. Girls here are very used to creepy men trying the cold approach. So they will generally not make eye contact. But they will come up to get a better look. Some of the other groups did the same. Some girls even came and squeezed into the space between me and the guy next to me, giving him a berth, basically squishing me even though there was plenty of space one guy down from me. As far as I have seen, girls generally don't do this unless they are buffered by a guy friend so that they don't open open themselves up for groping. Indian men are very, very gropy. Especially in a club.

It was still early when I left and some girls I would've actually approached walked in as I walked out. I've made a plan to go in much later so that I can now try cold approach in a slightly modified way.

Lessons learnt: Indian women are quite different. I've experienced this on tinder and IRL. But at the base level they are the same. So my strategy is to use this new found body language and be aware of who's taking notice. Then if I like them, I approach. If I don't, I show that I'm enjoying the attention and turn it in to social proof for someone who may not be paying so much attention.

Now before you tell me that I should've approached this very night, please consider this - I'm in an LTR which I have recently maneuvered in to being an open one where I can have sex with other women. How I did this is for another post. But she is a pretty Irish girl (I'm Indian myself) and is currently hanging on my every word. I went completely red pill and it worked like a charm. So I want to approach women who are higher on the scale (6+) because I genuinely want them. I couldn't even see a 5 in that club. And sure I probably could've picked up that pair of 3s or the 4s but I really wasn't all that interested. I was enjoying the attention though. I'm still brand new so I reckoned one step at a time.

So now, my fellow TRP men, shower me with your wisdom, harsh or kind. Lemme have it straight. What would you do.