Thank you guys

NickRedPill · 2024-01-03T08:35:27+00:00

If you identify as unattractive and autistic then guess what? You are unattractive and autistic. How do you expect women or people in general to see you otherwise? Brainwash yourself, even if you think it’s straight delusion that you are a high value alpha male and act as if. Read Psycho -Cybernetics to help you transform your self image.

EmptyTomato6304 · 2024-01-03T09:46:22+00:00

Binging redpill stories isn’t gonna do anything for you man. There’s no way around taking action.

The_Pine · 2024-01-03T10:38:56+00:00

Maximize EVERYTHING in your life. Everything. Finances, job, mission, spirituallty, exercise, martial arts, hobbies, passions, fun, social hobbies and events, therapy, photos, social media presence, anything and everything you can think of, get a mentor for everything in your life and learn from people with experience. Search and scavenge the internet for successful people with your particular set of autism and learn from their dating experience.

You probably won't find them here. But look and you shall find. God's speed brother.

Hossein_Rafie · 2024-01-03T15:53:24+00:00

reading the first paragraph of your post, I could tell what the comments would be about, and I was right. neither am I an OG here, nor have I had any big success with women in particular; but I can tell that I am ahead of the many newbies here, because I am taking action. how?

after getting enough information from this community: I never stopped going to the gym. I fixed my diet, and deleted sugar and processed food from it completely. I stopped masturbating, and deleted everything triggering. I stopped using social media. the only social media I am active on is Telegram, which I use ~1 hour a day, that is it! I restarted reading books, especially Red Pill books and self development. The Compound Effect, and The Book Of Pook for example. (I recommend them of course)

you have made no action and you will not change until you take it. change comes with pain, and pain is your friend. befriend the pain of neglect, and you learn to value yourself above others. befriend the pain of loss, and you learn to truly love your loved ones, your tribe. befriend the pain of your body, and you build an aesthetic body you deserve to have. befriend the pain of envy, and you try to become the best version of yourself. befriend the pain of regret, and learn to take your chances no matter how unlucky you think you are.

me and you, at some point in time, were very similar. will you succeed at becoming someone that you do not hate? not until you take action! I have been there. I just gave you a dose of hope and thrill, but will you learn and change? it all depends on you. all I could do for you was to write this comment, the rest is your responsibility.

and one last point. you are autistic, and you will always be autistic, even when you learn to properly communicate and even master social skills. autistics cannot become normal like others, neither they want to become like them. it is their identity. you ought to learn social skills, normal people's behaviors and manners, flirting and other stuff, but you also need to take another step, one step more important than them all. you must accept your identity as an autistic. you must accept the fact that you are not awkward or abnormal, you are just different. autism is no weakness, it is a superpower. once you accept it and cherish it, once you express it instead of hiding it, you will see how you will glow among others!

and something worth mentioning, do not talk about your autism in every single conversation that you have. it is like you subconsciously see it as an abnormality, plus, it is an unchangeable part of your identity and, like the fact that you are a male, is something very normal and ordinary. do not point it out, and stop acting like other normal people. simply be the autistic you, while knowing how to communicate with the normals and respect their rules as you are in their realm.

UnderstandingFar4663 · 2024-01-03T10:06:37+00:00

Still Autistic and Unsuccessful :)

rlsisthedevil · 2024-01-03T17:27:57+00:00

autistic how? i had to ask a waiter what she said 9x in a row, that was pretty fucking autistic, tbh thinking about it still makes me feel bad. not because it was awkward, but because i think im losing my hearing. anyway the girl i was on a date with still let me stick it in. i think ure fine bro

dankovz · 2024-01-03T22:10:57+00:00

Don’t give up man, I lost my family, and I am still here after a NDE, I understood that God gave me a second chance and I have no plan in wasting it !!! It’s hard I know, sometimes I want to quit, but I remember God, and that’s all I need, obviously I am not doing this alone, with the correct help I will build myself again but this time even better,

You have my support, dm if you need anything king

Title	Thank you guys
Author	Business_Window_6232
Upvotes	31
Comments	10
Date	January 3, 2024 8:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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