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DebateBusiness_Window_6232/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:46 AM
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I mentioned genetic potential as a sort of confidence booster for neurotypical people. You guys dont know how valuable being neurotypical is in this society as it automatically grants you benefits in social conformity and basic societal integration. You are immediately capable of forming friendships, securing employment and forming romantic relationships, 3 key essentials in adult life for the majority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:12 AM
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Thats if you are both attractive + neurotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:50 AM
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Well there are many different aspects of female pshychology that the red pill tries to define I cant just say them all in this post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:37 AM
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You are somewhat correct. I feel like this is mainly caused by the high autism rates in the community. On the forum however, I always see success stories and field reports of success from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:35 AM
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Most people should be worried about wasting their genetic potential because being born neurotypical automatically ensures fruits in life that most autistic people are unable to achieve easily such as friend and social circles, stable employment and romantic relationships. A neurotypicals ability to achieve these things is nothing but a product of mostly their genetic potential combined with their efforts. Us autistics put in more effort but dont recieve any of hte benefits because our genetics l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:34 AM
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Thanks. I 100% agree with you. I have tried that. Currently on minoxidil and finesteride for the hair loss. I have a very low body fat %, with visible abs and muscles and a V taper dorito shaped back that most people dream of. Yet it doesnt change the hair or my height. I know I look better than before but Im still unattractive. My social skills are hte real issue here as I have seen the ugliest shortest men get attractive girlfriends just by being socially capable. Im actively trying to make my…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 05:50 AM
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I did do some minor research and the majority of the people on this sub are either of the following: neurotypical and/or white/attractive. It is so rare on this sub to see a post from someone who is not only unattractive/ethnic/balding but also someone who is autistic. And i wanted to hear their stories. I have seen so many posts on this sub about how after they went to the gym and had a glow up they were able to make friends easier, talk to women easier, got hit on, etc. I did that stuff but it…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 05:25 AM
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I know. I talked about this in the post. It really pissess me off when other neurotypical men in our society dont folllow red pill despite being genetically gifted. I would abuse the. red pill so hard if I was a neurotypical. My issues right now are literally just the basic minimum requirements that most neurotypical men meet without having to put in any work and it sickens me
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 01:44 AM
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so right now I am in univeristy but it doesnt start until a month. I go gym. Thats it. No other friends to go out with or anything except for one guy I occasionally play tennis with or eat out with. I have MANY acquaintances from uni and high school. People that "know me" but arent really close to me or willing to go out wiht me anywhere. This is my biggest issue. I tried speaking and making friends at the gym but that was disastrous lol. I dont have a job rn. I am looking for one though. My fir…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 01:35 AM
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No I dont have an indian accent I also sound white as hell. Im in australia.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 01:26 AM
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I did. Did you not read the shit I tried doing??? Did you not read that I will not give up and still keep going through this self improvement? Im asking for advice and stories from fellow autistics who have been in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 01:15 AM
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Yeh I know looksmaxxing will bear fruit but I will need more work on social skills, flirting, etc. because Im still balding at 20, indian and short (5 feet 5). I mean maybe some girls will approach me but I reckon the vast majority wont. What you said about needing to be good looking as an autist feels really fatalistic. Its probably true but I wont let it eat me up. I will continue improving my social skills and appearance. Also you being 6 feet tall and having had girls accept to go on dates i…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 09:58 PM
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The vast majority of NTs will have stable employment, social cirlces/friends and will ahve experience in long term sexual relationships whilst hte majority of non neurotypical autistic people wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:10 PM
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I believe we have all seen the dating app statistics. THe majority of women only find around the top 20% of men actually physically attractive enough. Due to the huge number of people that use dating apps, this reflects more into actual society. Being "attractive enough" in todays age is competely different to back before online dating and social media as women were only exposed to men in their physical presence. I mean maybe you are right about the monogamy. I do agree that the majority of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:07 PM
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THanks. I agree with you too. Being good looking only takes you so far and the rest is how socially adept and likeable and fun you are.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 11:59 AM
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that data I believe includes ALL men and women aged between 18 to 40 (i dont know what the upper limit is). When you include every single age then the numebr is misleading. For example, large numbers of very young adults betwene 18 to 21 will generally be in their "self improvement stage". If you look at CDC studies, in the years 18-19, around 65% of men have ever had vaginal intercourse, which then makes a huge jump to 81.5% in the 20-24 age group and then another huge jump to 95.6% in the age …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:18 AM
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since wehn it putting extra effort into ones income, appearance and social skills part of being sociopathic???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:13 AM
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Im not even average. I have autism. Trying to be average even is the struggle of my life. THe point of this post was to say that neurotypicals automatically achieve this "average" in having stable employment, friends and relationships whilst most autistics dont (and there are a lot of autistics on this sub). Im saying that just being average is not good enough if someone is neurotypical as they can be so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:04 AM
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Maybe you are right. But the quality of the friends and relationsihps will change based on how much effort you put in. And that is something that you have to agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:47 AM
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I agree with you absolutely. But just because someone tries harder in self improvmeent doesnt mean it is their entire life and that there is no time for having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:18 AM
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Yes I have been outside. Dating: due to the rise of online dating and resulting shifting views of conventional attractiveness, dating espeically for men is very difficult. Which is why male virginity and loneliness is so insanely high (female is too but not as high as male) Housing and income: In order to own a home or pay for rent in this society you need to be making more htan the average income otherwise you will fall behind. Getting a degree is the best way to economically progress in this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:16 AM
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Yeh I agree. Back then most poeple didnt need a college degree to be able to land a nice job, a nice affordable house, meet a partner, have kids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:19 AM
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Did I say that in your journey of self improvement you should not enjoy as well??? I beleive that is the whole point of self improvement to reap the rewards of your hard work. Even those dudes hooking up are putting in an effort to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:18 AM
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Which sucks. If only neurotypicals knew how blessed they were
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:15 AM
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Getting angry at women is a sign of entitlement. That is not waht TRP is about. It is about self improvement to be WORTHY of loving relationships with women because it acknowledges how intensely competitive our society is. Yes there are people who post on there that seem entitled and complain about women. But mostly, TRP is about asking for advice on how to self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:09 AM
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Good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:00 AM
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Based on biological demand, MOST people still desire the same things in having a good social life, high income and attractive sexual and romantic partners that they vibe with. whilst it is true that what people desire does depend on personal preference, ultimately most people still desire the same things due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:59 AM
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I agree but also kinda disagree. Only the very socially adjusted and physically attractive men are able to "f*ck around alot" due to that genetic privilege. However, most men in this society just dont fit these criteria and will require the red pill to achieve sexual success. And achieving something after putting in a lot of work is by far more satisfying and fulfilling then being geneticially privileged into achieving them. That is why these "male ho*s" say that they dont find having sex fulfil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:48 AM
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This comment should be pinned or something. It is the huge issue that autistic people face when implementing the red pill. WE perceive things far too literally and cannot see the nuance between the lines. Like in that situation where he is supposed to be more dominant, the autistic dude outright controlling her is in no way dominant and just creepy and lacks social intelligence. Instead he could have, like a man, had a conversation with her and demonstrate dominance via his ability to effectivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:45 AM
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alright Ill try that. This comment also made me realise the different thought patterns of autistic vs neurotypical people. I completely forgot about how people like to figure out things themselves. I as a sperg dont really care.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 12:44 AM
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alright ill try to take it slow. Lets see how it goes
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 12:40 AM
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I feel like you are right. He did mention through the text messages that duirng high school he was flirting with the "prettiest and most popular girl" in his school and she showed interest back to him. Then he said that he rejected her because he wasnt confident in himself and he doesnt feel like he deserves her. I told him that he feels like this because he was only relying on his natural neurotypical flirting and social skills in order to talk to her without putting in any other effort in his …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 12:39 AM
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He indeed has been working out in the garage. But he needs the gym.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 12:36 AM
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Sorry for the long post. I just really needed to vent
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 02:19 AM
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Hmm interesting. Ive always struggled with self deception and trying to improve my own confidence as I am very realist in nature. Hopefully this book helps me
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 08:39 AM
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Ive tried sparring and really enjoyed it
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:46 AM
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I tend to perform best at things when I continue to doubt myself. E.g. i ranked in the top 5% in my country's cohort for uni entry exams. I kept doubting my knoweldge and kept improving. It was like an addiction. And the main reason for this was because I would see success after the failures and the efforts put in SO maybe you are right. I am being too hard on myself.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:40 AM
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I know that. Which is why im asking yall. Like how do you keep going despite not improving at all and continuously failing. Ive seen many success stories here and it seems like most people naturally achieve success after putting in all the effort. Its validating the effort. I in turn have only received failure after failure and it demoralised me. How do i overcome this and keep going regardless? How do I ACCEPT that I will have to grind and grind without any reward to ensure that I actually do p…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 06:24 AM
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Very interesting point. I think it depends on the data and how they conducted their research though. E.g. did they only use cic, heterosexual people in the data or not, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:13 PM
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I both agree and disagree with this. Most men who are neurotypical, regardless of appearance will end up with a stable job, wife and kids. But most autistic men dont. Only the atrtactive ones, like you said, are able to achieve such things due to the halo effect. Unattractive neurotypical men can compensate for their lacking physical appeal with social appeal and skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:14 AM
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I agree with this partially. Attractiveness will boost your appeal to women but it affects autistic men way more. Unattractive neurotypical men can just get by with natural social conformity and skills. But autistic men HAVE TO BE attracive to have the same level of success
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:09 AM
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Absolutely true. And the only way autistic men can overcome romantic loneliness is via being very physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:05 AM
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Interesting. Ive never heard of this theory before. But I have seen quite a few very attractive and tall male autists so it probably isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:58 AM
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Sucks man aye. Like it is so shocking to me that most men and women just naturally and involuntarily make friendships with the opposite sex, flirt, date, have sex, etc. As in there is no huge amounts of conscious effort required they just DO it???? The only friends I have ever had were pity friends and were never actually my genuine friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:31 AM
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That is so surprising to me. An unattractive dude who is socially challenged due to autism is able to generate likeability from multiple women? I would like this man's contact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:21 AM
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Was it because of he was genuinely socially skilled or because he was just very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:22 AM
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This comment hit me so deep I started crying. Thank you for acknowleding it. You see, the majority of men are in fact unappealing to women, which is shown in dating app statistics and various pieces of research. However, more then 90% of men will be able to have dates, romantic relationships, etc. just via being neurotypical and naturally socially conforming. If you are autistic not only are you prevented from doing this, being autistic demands a sort of "compensation" in order to achieve the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:20 AM
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I feel like in terms of dating and relationships, being autistic (whether you are a man or a woman) requires a heavier dependence on physical attractiveness. I have spoken to many autistic dudes and they tell me that they ended up in relationships after they were approached first themselves. Same for the majority of autistic women. I recently watched this very cool tiktok from morgaanfoley (her latest video) where she explains how being a "pretty" girl allowed her to fit into popular friend grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:11 PM
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Yeh if i got an official diagnosis I would probably be level 2. Those people you are talking about are most likely level 1 autism. Level 1 and 2s are both NOT intellectually disabled but level 1 just has lower support needs than level 2. I feel like this arises because level 1s have more naturla social intuition than level 2s. Ive noticed this in real life where when I talk to a level 1 autistic they seem to be able to mask pretty well and have the neruotypical accent and actually talk like thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:13 AM
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I made this post because it is the overwhelming neurotypical response I get whenever I complain about my issues. They always have this faith in me that I am more capable than I let on. And maybe its a form of gaslighting for sure but I just cant get it out of my head. I want to succeed. I want to be like a normal person in society. I wish i could have the trifecta and be happy. I know Im a strong person but I dont think i am strong enough for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:28 AM
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If you are in a situation where women are willing to even go on a date with you, you are already very far ahead of a lot of autistic dudes. That means that you were capable enough of generating that initial spark of attraction. Keep trying bro. You got this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:26 AM
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This is where things get kind of controversial. I feel like most of these sexually successful autistic men are generally very conventionally attractive or had heavy early intervention so that they could learn social skills, etc. What do you think of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:24 AM
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This is an interesting take. I am also very intrigued by the impact that early intervention has in countering the effects of low support needs autism/high functioning autism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:20 AM
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I agree too. Alot of people here say that they are autistic but when you ask them about the trifecta (friends, job and romantic partners) they actually have lots of history. They are usually employed, have stable friend groups and have had past relatoinship experience but as soon as their streak of not getting laid goes for too long they start assuming that they are "autistic" when in reality they are just traumatised neurotypicals. In comparison I have no social anxiety anymore. I have worked s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:13 AM
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I feel like there is some nuance to this but I feel like you are generally correct. This is the sort of rhetoric and complaints I hear from other autisitc men online over the past 2 years. But what I also hear is that attractive autistic dudes also end up in awkward situations where they are unable to reciprocate flirting when a girl approaches them due to a lack of social competency. Its like there is this model looking girl in front of you and you just dont know what to say, how to say it, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:33 AM
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I agree with this. But once again, I feel like your husband is part of a minority within the autistic community. Out of curiosity, do you feel like his natural physical attractiveness had anything to do with how he is perceived by others?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:30 AM
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You are correct. But its not the whole picture. The example of your uncle being a weird funny guy who isnt afraid to say what he wants in conversation is indeed a very rare occurrence. Take for me as an example: I dont have ANY social anxiety anymore I legit just go up and say what I believe is the right thing to say/say what I feel like. And most of hte time it does not work. It is usually followed by ignorance, silence, some polite nodding and "yes yes" or just blatent annoyance and negativity…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:28 AM
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yeh lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:46 AM
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Yeh man I feel for you. Similar boat where Im 5 5 and balding and indian all at 20 years old. Yet people on reddit get so pressed by this simple fact that women care about looks just as much if not more than men that I have to make posts and mansplain it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:54 AM
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because being neurodivergent means you are heavily disadvantaged in the dating market and you must be veryyy attractive in order to compensate for your lacking social intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:53 AM
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She only dated people who were either very famous adn unattractive (mac miller) or dudes that were not that famous but objectively very attractive such as that real estate dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:52 AM
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if he is neurotypical than that should not really be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:51 AM
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Always remember the "opposite" ideology. E.g. men are attracted generally to younger women in their late teens to mid twenties due to innocence and purity. Whilst women are said to be attracted to men slightly older than tehm due to maturity and having a "daddy". Same way men are more attracted to women with lower number of partners whilst women are attracted to men who are more expeirenced with slightly more number of partners. i.e. if a girl realises that other women find a dude very attraccti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:51 AM
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yeh lol ikr. I dont understand why some people get so pressed when you be spitting hard facts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:49 AM
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yeh i agree. And if an unattractive man is to compensate for his lacking physical attractiveness he has to do so with immense compensation like i said. Being VERY socially competent, knowing how to flirt, etc. Looksmaxxed completely. Gym. Making a lto fo money. Having a fun lifesytle with lots of friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:48 AM
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actually there is. Its called being phsycially attractive. And if you dont believe me then make a tinder profile using some obscure attractive male model from norway and then see the messages that women send to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 AM
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best way to put it thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:05 AM
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Australia yeh. Like i said the males with high funcitoning autism i know here literally look like magazine cover models. They dont struglge with hookup culture or online dating and can date pretty easily. But they have IMMENSE struggles in maintaining those realtoinships into long term once women realise how hard it is to deal with their autism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:02 AM
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You clearly havent done your research. MOst high funcitoning autistics (whihc is defined as having an IQ that is NOT in the rnage that is classified as an intellectual disability) are unemployed, friendless and have immense struggles with relatoinships. only 20% of HFA men will have kids. Only 15 % are employed. Despite having a high IQ. WHY you may ask?? Simply put the neural pathways responsible for socialising are replaced with pathways responsible for IQ and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:01 AM
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thanks. Yeh i also agree, most women would ideally want the atttractive + neurotypical guy but that is juset common sense lets be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:59 AM
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Yeh lol i should have mentioned that. An attractive + neurotypical man is like a gold mine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:59 AM
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Spot on. Being in a relationship for a neurtypical man is a choice, not a burden or desire on his life. But for a high functioning autistic person, trying to enter a relatoinship is like trying to see when you are blind. The neural pathways in yoru brain that guide you through building attraction and emotinoal connection with a woman are literally taken away and replaced with neural pathwayss that are responsible for IQ and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:58 AM
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Then why is the male fertility rate for high functioning autism 0.2?????? (only 20% ever will have kids). Explain please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 AM
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you definitely have not done your reserach. High functioning means NOT HAVING AN IQ IN THE RANGE THAT IS CONSIDERED AN INTELLECTUAL DISABILITY. You can still ahve a very high IQ and sitll struggle with employment and taking care of yourself. Pls do your reserach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 AM
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yeh lol ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:56 AM
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you definitely do not know what high functioning means then. It means NOT INTELLECTUALLY DISABLED. Why is it that 85% of high functioning autistics are unemployed????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:55 AM
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I agree. But having a glow up and becoming attractive will not work all the time. Some people have a genetic limit that cannot be surpassed no matter how much is invested into self improvement. This is when other things will be required to be more atrtactive such as verey good social skills, having money, etc. I feel like the red pill is the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:04 AM
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I agree with this. Its not offensive its just facts. I reckon it alos depends on their physical attractiveness as people would see the slight stuttering and slightly weird behaviour as "quirky" or "funnny/cute" personality traits instead of social incompetence and creepiness if the autistic person was also physcially attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:51 AM
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i think they would. Espcially if you have HYPERACTIVE adhd plus autism where women would see your impulsivity as confidence and be more attracted to you etc. Also you being conventionally attractive should help you out. Out of curiosity whats your ethnicity? Height? Are you in shape? Do you have a jawline? etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:35 AM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:34 AM
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i provided the statistics already. Autism is worse than being ugly. But lmfao imagine being both like myself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:34 AM
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because some people on this app actually believe that autism is just a "character trait" or a behavioural issue that can be fixed with "hard work" and not being "lazy". I have to go out of my way and bring about hard facts and statistics to mansplain to these people because they genuinely believe that appearance is the primary factor that determines one's ability to socially conform and build romantic relationships and not neurotype. Trust me there are a lot of "bl*ckpillers" and "inc*ls" on thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:33 AM
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it makes me wonder. How would a hyperactive adhd person who also has high funcitoning autism perform socially/romantically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:29 AM
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I agree and disagree with you. THere are definitely many people who say they are "autistic" after mesing up one social encounter. True autism (high functioning) is a legit brain abnormality and is not just a "personality trait" however. I mean why else would those diagnosed with it have an 85% unemployment rate, 0.2 fertility rate relative to neurotypicals, 20 year shorter life expectancy and a 10 times higher chance of comitting suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:29 AM
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Most neurotypical men will not struggle with employment or getting marreid, having kids, etc. But for autistic men (mild autism that it) the fertility rate is 0.2 compared to neurotypical men with a 90% divorce rate and only 9% will ever get married. Not to mentino the 85% unemployment rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:28 AM
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I mean i reckon red pill is useful for everyone but especially unattracitve + neurotypical men. Most men regardless of attraction will end up married with kids, etc. But same cannot be said for autistic men. YOU are way off base here. Prove ot me that being unattractive will prevent you from having a job, friends or a wife and kids like autism does
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:27 AM
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only hyperactive adhd though. Inattentive adhd men probably have it harder. I mean it would be pretty hard to talk to a woman when you keep losing track of what shes saying lol. But hyperactive adhd means people will see your hyper personality as confidence and will be more attracted to you, you are more likely to risk take, etc. You agree with the analysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:25 AM
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Yes i definitely agree. I find it much easier to communicate with autistic girls. However, a commmon trend i see is that many autistic girls end up dating neurotypical men anywyas :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:03 AM
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Because some people just dont know how to accept this. Some people on this stupid sub believe that women will choose an attractive man with aspergers/mild autism over an unattractive neuortypical person which is just bullsh*t. Neurotype is ultimately more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:55 AM
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its shallow because men arent as critical of aspergers in women (which is why teh female aspie fertility rate is twice as high as the male one). Also aspergers is genetically determined and cannot be changed. Kind of like a woman's appearance (although female appearance can be enhanced through makeup and beauty whilst aspergers cannot really be changed)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:54 AM
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its somehting you cannot change. Its something that is genetically determined like a woman's appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:53 AM
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yeh i made a huge mistake in this. I fully 100% agree with this. When i talk about neurodivergieyncy i mean autism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:52 AM
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i would take all of those over autism any day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:37 AM
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Just general from my observations. People make it seem like you have to be white and 6 foot tall at least just to be dateable which is absolutely bullsh*t. Most men regardless of their race or height are able to enter relationshpis of get experience simply just by being neurotypical and meeting the other filters. You might have more strict filters but in general, the above ones apply the most to soceity as most men will end up getting married, have kids, etc. But the same cannot be said to those…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:04 AM
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there is truth to what your saying yeh. Thats the horror of high functioning autism. You know that you are intellectually very capable and have a high IQ and that you should be able to compare yourself to those neurotypical standards but at the same time you remember that your brain is structured differently and that when you try to socialise, it isnt natural, fun, involuntary and carefree like it should be and instead it is unnatrual, disgusting and forced (because I am efffectively suppressing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:41 PM
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The 1/10 can definitely get the 10/10 if he was neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:02 AM
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yeh bro thats also my issue like I guess I can sorta merge into friendship groups but dfeinitely not with women it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:57 AM
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What you said about how being attractive makes social awkwardness endearing is very true. The only way to compensate for having autism is by being eye candy. If you are unattractive + autistic there is no hope. Unattracitve + neurotypical people can still ahve a chance coz they can maintain employment, friends, etc. and just maximise the benefits of the red pill. Only around like 15% of men are attractive which applies to autistic people to. The male fertility rate for atuism is 0.2 which proves…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:22 AM
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keep saying that and watch your girl get piped by some 5'2 balding indian in the room next to you and then tell me if looks matter more or neurotype
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:36 AM
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thing is, preston proves that a good looking person with aspergers still has some hope but only in like short term flings and online dating. In order to be able to have longer term relationships, preston still have a hcance due to looks. He jjust has to keep trying. At least he has some valdiation in continuing the self improvement journey due ot the positive self reinforcement he recieves from the short term flings - at least he knows what it feels like when a woman likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:32 AM
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i actually agree with you but there is a problem: only like around 15% of men would be considered physically attractive by most women which also applies to mildly autistic male population. So what are the other 85% ugly autists supposed to do? At least if you are ugly + neurotypical you can get popular and with clout you can land a hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:19 AM
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Being neurodivergent is only a death sentence if you are also genetically physically unattractive (e.g. short, unattractive face, balding at a young age, etc.). I fit this dual wielder category lmao. If you are very attractive + neurodiverse, you still have SOME hope I guess. For me flirting with women feels like a potential case of sexual harassment. Socialising isnt natural or fun its forced and creepy with me. It makes me wonder about hte nature of genetic determinism. Where some people are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:22 AM
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what price? I want my OWN kid. I dont want to raise some elses kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:13 AM
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yeh thats what imma do. Ill see what they say on the looksmaxx website. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:49 AM
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Maybe you are correct about that. Ive seen this advice before about how being low inhib such as getting drunk makes it easier for autitsic symptoms to go away. But when i tried it, it only made me more retarted lol. Low inhib will make you more confident sure, but it will not remove your autistic tendancies. You will not learn those hidden social rules that NTs know naturally just by being low inhib. Still I feel like a disproportionate amounts of incels are on the spectrum. Theres like this new…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:25 AM
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yeh and these people are legit the same people you will see on inc*l forums. THey wrongly assume they are too ugly for society without realising they are mostly undiagnosed autistic. Inc*l forums target men on teh spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:56 AM
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autism pill is the most brutal pill. Mildly atusitc people are signficnalty vulnerable to the red, blue and black pills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:50 AM
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very difficult to find them. More autistic men than women. Also most autistic women choose to date NT men because why would they date an ugly autistic guy over an attractive NT guy that she can find just by showing a nomakeup pic on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:49 AM
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at least i would be able to form a romantic connection with someone who loves me too and i get to hug and cuddle them in bed and have loving, amazing conversations. Imagine that right?? Such a struggle isnt it?? Also imagine having a little version of yourself that you can nurture nad make your own and cuddle at night with. Imagine that its such a struggle isnt it???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:48 AM
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Im saving this comment. This is my favourite reddit comment of all time. You have actually given me hope in my life. Thank you. Im going to frame that quote and put it in my house: "It is the darkest of nights where stars shine the brightest". HOLY f*ck that is such an eye opening quote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:00 PM
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can you even read? here are the staitsitcs again for high functioning autism: 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Male and female fertility rates of 0.2 and 0.4 relative to neurotypicals. Average life expectancy of 58 years. And the most horrible one. 10 TIMES HIGHER SUICIDE RATE. So explain to me in what way is having autism better than being "normal". I would take being normal any day. So you are saying that you would rather be a depressed virgin NEET your entire life and not have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:57 PM
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thanks for the viewpoint. I used to think like this until i burnt out and make heavily bl*ck pilled. Thanks. Your comment has allowed me to go back to the red pill and self improvement. Im going back to the gym first thing tomorrow :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:53 PM
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even the ugliest autistic women dont want me. Ive tried talking to them and asking them out. Irl and online. Legit get treated like a creep by someone who has the same disability as me. Most autistic women date NT men because why would they want an autistic guy???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:52 PM
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here are the staitsitcs for high functioning autism: 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Male and female fertility rates of 0.2 and 0.4 relative to neurotypicals. Average life expectancy of 58 years. And the most horrible one. 10 TIMES HIGHER SUICIDE RATE. Prove to me that any of your factors have it worse than this. Oh wait you cant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:51 PM
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Women dont have the same social expectations on them as men. Being autistc can be quite endearing as a woman due to being seen as shy and innocent and thus, attractive. Its why the female autistic fertility rate is twice as high as the male autistic fertility rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:50 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:49 PM
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here are the staitsitcs for high functioning autism: 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Male and female fertility rates of 0.2 and 0.4 relative to neurotypicals. Average life expectancy of 58 years. And the most horrible one. 10 TIMES HIGHER SUICIDE RATE. Certainly everyone does struggle. But we are talking about collectives. And as shown with my evidence, COLLECTIVELY, high functioning autistics struggle wayyyy more than those hot, neurotypical people. Lol, you think you can jsut "…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:49 PM
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where is your evidecne that looks will impact every aspect of life? Why dont you read the statistics of high functioning autism: male and female fertility rates of 0.2 and 0.4 relative to the general population. Average life expectancy of 58. 10 times higher suicide rate. 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Most people are not attractive. Most people are ugly/average. But because they are neurotypical they dont have to struggle with finding friends, employment or romantic connections…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:42 PM
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It seems like such a common sense idea but some people really have hte audacity to tell me "but everyone struggles in life" like yeh sure imagine having a brain that doesnt let you natrually socially conform AND being so repulsive to look at that people gag at you. Then come and tlel me that "everyone struggles in life".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:50 AM
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i honestly do. Never had a female firned. Never had real friends. THe idea of someone being romantically interested in me is so funny that i start laughing to myself and scare the sh*t out of my parents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:59 AM
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Did the women in your life approach you frist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:35 AM
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lol i am also dual wielding both. Flirting with women feels like a potential case of sexual harassment whenever I do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:34 AM
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Yeh i agree, if you are autistic the difference between being a depressed virgin NEET and having a good life is attractivenes. Attractiveness doesnt matter as much if you are neurotypical though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:33 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:32 AM
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attractive + mildly autisitic = finding romantic connections shouldnt be difficult but finding friends and employment will sitll be very hard if you are ugly + neurotypical then it shouldnt be hard to find friends, employment or work due to having natural social skills. But if you are mildly autistic the difference bewteen having an ok life and having a horrible life is legit your attractiveness because it can cover your lacking social intuition. Most people in real life i nknow how have asperge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:32 AM
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you have obviously not experienced being mildly autistic lol. Neurotypicals can smell your autism and will start to bully and isolate you. Its why 90% of mildly autistic college graduates are unemployed. Also wohy the fertility rate is between 0.2 and 0.4 relative to the normal population
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:30 AM
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it only works when it is done early (early intervention). If you are an adult you have essentially missed out on 18+ years of essential social development that is really hard to catch up on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:27 AM
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yeh but then explain why 90% of us are unemployed???? Or why our fertilty rate is 0.2 - 0.4 (male and female respectively). Or why our suicide rate is 10 times higher than for normal people. Or why the crippling loneliness leads to a 58 year life expectnacy. Being attractive will not automatically overcome autism. Sure you can get short term hookups but if you are a guy, women will smell it on you. ALso being attarctive wont make it easier to make friends or find employmen tif you dont have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:26 AM
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But unattractive neurotypicals are still much better at being able to maintain long term relationships. If you are mildly autistc, you will only be able to succeed in the short terms in hookups/flings, etc. Over 90% of marriages invoving a mildly autistic person ends up in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:25 AM
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Absolutely. I would go as far to argue that us men would see an attractive woman with mild autism as even more attractive due to pretty privilege - they shyness, peakocking and quirky behaviour would be characterised as persoanlity traits by us and not signs of autism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:23 AM
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aspergers syndrome. HIgh functioning autism. Wehre you IQ is above average or average (not intellectually disabled) but due to your brain structure you are prevented from naturally picking up social cues, etc. resulting in an in ability to socially conform. Many of us are loners and virgins and unemployed because people assume we are normal when in reality we have a huge social disability and many of us go through life without support
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:23 AM
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Then explain why most men are unattractive and despite that are able to effortlessly form relatoinships, find employment and friends? PHysically attractive and mildly autistic might do better in short term relationships but will still immensely struggle in finding employment friends and long term relationships, as shown in the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:21 PM
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"You'd be surprised how many women find it hot when you REALLY are passionate about a hobby or topic and dive into that shit. The important thing here is that you don't keep speaking about it all day, repeating yourself. Something that I've noticed other people do. Personally, I am on the quieter side and would rather do stuff than speak about it." This is a classic example of the halo effect. Becuase you are attractive, she doesnt critise you infodumping and sperging out in front of her about y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:18 PM
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Absolutely spot on. And due to them believing that you are normal, you are also gaslit into thinking that you not achieving all those things that normal NT people achieve is YOUR FAULT when in reality it isnt. I struggle with this immensely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:14 PM
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I never actually thought about it this way. Your looks are permannent, but social skills can be improved....espeically with mild autism you will be given a lot of opportuniites.....interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:14 PM
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Lol you must be a 1/100000000000 What is dating then? How do you do it if you are a short, balding ethnic man who has mild autism? Where you cannot excite them with your appearance and you cannot even build a friendships connection with them, let alone a romantic one due to your mild autism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:13 PM
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but when you are unable to do the basic task of holding a conversation and building relationships, your ability to maintain employment and find friends is signifcantly affected. Look at those statistics I talked about. 90 % UNEMPLOYMENT RATE despite having a college degree. I would rather be a short, ugly guy who is neuortypical instead of a good looking autistic guy. whilst the atuistic guy will get hookups and short term sex, he wont be able to hold ont to them for more than a few months. THe …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:12 PM
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spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:09 PM
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the mildly autistic attractive guy will only succeed in short term hookups and flings. I knkow a few men like this in real life. They are unable to maintain loving long relatoinships. if you are neurotypical however, you will be able to maintain a relationship. Starting one is the issue in this case due to unattractiveness. Luckily though, women can be attracted by social competence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:09 PM
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yeh the subjectivity depends on how attracative you are. If you are attractive like yourself and the guy above you you will actually enjoy life since you will be validated with the attention you get from the halo effect, poeple will be less critical of you, the opposite gender will appraoch you themselves due to attraction and you dont have to worry about all those things, making it way eaiser to maintain employment. In fact, you can actually perform better at work since a lot of spergs are very…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:07 PM
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thanks for the tips. Do you think teh low fetal heart rate before birth has anything to do with this?
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 06:12 AM
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This is interesting. Apparently I had some issues with birth, they had to do a c section: my heart rate had dropped dangerously low and they had to transfer me to a different hospital.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:39 AM
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Then how come every single interaction iwth women I have in real life feels like a forced interrogation. How come they look at my balding hari when i speak to them. How come they have closed off body language and try to excuse themselves? How come they giggle amongst each other when I try to approach them? How come I have been lectured by adult women my age to be more "mature and less childish" despite being a 20 year old? I have tried alot. I have gone through too much embarassment. What you ha…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:37 AM
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id love to have aspie girlfriend. We can both sperg out and just be autistic together watching star wars movies and doing sus stuff together lmao. It would be wonderful. But finding an aspie girl is extrmemely difficult. Firstly coz most are undiagnosed and better at maskign, passing of as NT and secondly IVe seen this trend where many aspie girls get hit on by NT men and end up dating neurotypical men :(
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:34 AM
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It is a good strategy id admit. its way easier to fit in with other atypicals. But there is a huge problem with this. Firstly autistic people are extrmely hard to find in real life. Also there seems to be a trend where most neurodiverse women choose to date neurotypical men coz like why wouldnt they you know. Also, in real life when you are looking for work, frineds, etc. most people will be neurotypical adn you have to learn how to fit in otherwise you will end up homeless without work, etc.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:32 AM
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thanks for giving me hope.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:31 AM
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lol then explain why women like it when men are "toxic" instead of being "nice". Lots of people think they should be mean to women. But thats not what is happening. Women are attracted to the "abundance mindset". Acting carefree and mixing both being respectful and toxic at the same time gives off the vibe that he is a high value person with a lot of options, making him more attractive. I honestly dont know why Im explaining this to you. That is literally a normal biological imperative of both m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:00 PM
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god damn it i forgot to mention that :( KNEW i was missing something Yeh its a biological drive for women to go for that sort of alpha character who is worth more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:29 AM
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I think being healthy and toned is the best way. Not being skinny like those victoria secrets models but like being in healthy shape
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:11 AM
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sometimes I guess its kinda annoying and slightly creepy when a guy befriends a woman and then reveals his true intentions. Unless its obvious that his feelings for her DEVELOPED over time and werent originally there during the intial phases of the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:46 AM
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Very sorry for you man. I feel like i might have to change the post. Women do care about looks right, but first filter is neurotypicality. Second filter is appearance and height. Also apperance and height wont really matter if you are at least taller than her and not deformed. You being 5 2 definitly makes it hard for you. Try finding women who are shorter than you maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:46 AM
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yeh many people here think there is only one type of attractive male. I try to be funny, charming and kind but women dont let me lol they accuse me of being boring or sus or straight up creepy lol. I feel like its coz of my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:05 PM
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There is a sort of fatalistic thinking to my post and im sorry about that. Yeh I also find it infuritating how some people fail one social encounter and then say "im autistic". I really want to slap these people so hard that they end up in a coma. The data demonstrates that there is still hope for people with ASD. But it does reflect that you must work really hard in order to be able to fall in teh roughly top 20% who are able to find employemnt and get married to have kids, etc. Also can i ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:01 AM
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yes I agree with you. If you are mildly autistic the only way to compensate if via being very good looking and tall. That way people will cut you some slack. Thanks for acknowledging this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:57 AM
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veryyyy interesting lets discuss. I reckon the psychopahty gets sometimes seen as "confidence" due to a lack of empathy from them? I also saw a staitsics once about how a lot of CEOs are very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:56 AM
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90% unemmployment rate after college graduation. Male fertility rate of 0.2. 10 times higher suicide rate. Life expectancy of 58 years. The fact that you have said we are not "pushing ourselves to lead a fulfilling life" is extremeyl unfair and toxic. It invalidates all the efforts we go through to not end up in those statistics. The statistics prove that our brains are just wired differently and self improvement will not guarantee to work. The male fertility rate is litearlly 0.2. Commonly we a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:54 AM
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maybe. That is the point of statistical evdience and discussion. I do not know if you are correct or not. IF you are, provided you give me the evidence, then sure, I will change my mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:25 AM
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bruh where is your sttistical evidence?????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:57 AM
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true. But the majoirty of society's "dregs", "losers" or "outcasts" are. People like elno musk dmeonstrate an improper portrayal of aspergers syndrome. Here are the facts: if you have level 1 ASD: 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Male and female fertility rate of 0.2 and 0.4 respectively. 10 times higher suicide rate than normal population. Average life expectncy of around 58 years. Yeh - tonnes of successful or high status people are not neurotypical that is for sure due to the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:54 AM
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self improvers do. "Just work on your social skills via practicing and going through embarssment". Ill admit that this advice DOES WORK IMMENSELY WELL - but only IF YOU ARE NEUROTYPICAL. If you tell an autistic person to do this and learn how to mask their atusim symptoms you will cause insane levels of depression, anxiety, self hatred, burnout and potentially increase the risk of suicide. Neurotypicals dont have to suppress their authentic selves in order to fit in - they naturally and involunt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:52 AM
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hahahhaha. Let me show you the power of statistics. The following are stats for mildly autistic people: 90% unemployment rate after college graduation. Male and female fertility rate of 0.2 and 0.4 respectively. 10 times higher suicide rate than normal population. Average life expectncy of around 58 years. So yeh is it our fault that we dont self improve enough? Or is it that you fail to recognise what neurodiversity means in that our brains are physically wired differently and dont get the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:48 AM
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does a 90% unemployment rate sound like a "mixed bag" to you? Is a 10 times higher suicide rate something that is "better" than being ugly and neurotypical? The unemployment rate for neurotypicals is like 5%. Having a job is essential in life. Provide me a single statistic that proves your point that ugly people have it worse than high funcitoning autistic people.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:42 AM
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male fertility rate of 0.2 compared to neurotypicals. 10 times higher suicide rate. 58 year life expectancy as opposed to male neurotypical life expectancy of around 80 years. 90% unemployment rate outside of college graduation. If you are neuroytpical it doesnt matter how you look you will always be able to conform and ntarually integrate into society - end up with friends, roamntic partner, stable employment and eventually children. Being good looking makes it easier but it isnt a deal breaker…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:15 AM
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can you pls write your post about this - specifically about the effects of physical attractivness for men with aspergers/high functioning autism. You see i am trying to looksmaxx to the point where i can get appraoched by women . Right now i am balding, fat, short, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:06 AM
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Maybe. You should definitely look into making yourself more attractive (although pls dont go down the surgery route). Maybe fix up your style to be more conventional, go to the gym and lose weight, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:40 AM
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oh nice im happy for you. So when you say attractive, do you mean liek you are tall, white have a jawline, etc? also do you have to approach women or do they approach you frist?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:39 AM
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i have seen ugly and short men with girlfriends. I have seen them with friend groups, matinain stable employment, etc. You seem to fail to realise that autism is a developmental disorder characterised by an improper structuring of the brain. Your comment is very ableist.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:37 AM
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so you are saying the swedish governemnt are a bunch of morons? You are making a claim yourself and then providing 0 evidence to prove to me that neurotypical men dont have it easier than neurodiverse men.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 08:35 AM
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Very interesting question. Id say mostly. For women, physical attractiveness matters way more than social competence unlike with men. That is why the female fertility rate with autism is TWICE as high as men - its easier to use makeup and other forms of attractviness increasing metrics in order to be noticed, approahced ,etc. Also being socially awkward, introverted and shy can be pretty endearing for women as compred to men who are expected to be confident socially skilled leaders. So the same …
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 08:33 AM
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male fertility rate of 0.2??????
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 07:57 AM
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ugliness doesnt really matter in the face of neurotypicality. Attractive + neurotypical = tutorial mode in life. You dont have to "think" about trying ot find stable employment, friends, or gfs it just happens and is as involuntary as breathing unattractive + neurotypical = requires red pill self improvement to achieve the same thing as attractive + neurotypical but is sitll very possible > most people end up here attractive + mildly autistic = requires same red pill self improvmeent but this ti…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 07:00 AM
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exactly. Attractive + neurotypical = tutorial mode in life. You dont have to "think" about trying ot find stable employment, friends, or gfs it just happens and is as involuntary as breathing unattractive + neurotypical = requires red pill self improvement to achieve the same thing as attractive + neurotypical but is sitll very possible > most people end up here attractive + mildly autistic = requires same red pill self improvmeent but this time for social skills in order to overcome autism -> h…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:59 AM
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Ill have to slightly disagree with your sabre. I reckon its tall > face > white > build. Ive seen many "good looking" tall men of other ethnicities such as middle eastern or black and they end up SLAYING. Also there is something else before all of this and that is neurotypicality >
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:56 AM
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immature huh. So you think the dual benefit of being able to conform easily due to neurotypicality and also receiving the halo effect of attractiveness doesnt make it incredibly easy to form friendships and relationships? Thats naive of you to say and is probably why people dislike you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:12 AM
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thanks for being positive. Although its really hard for us to do that. Cripping loneliness depression and anxiety. Not being able to maintain employment. No friends. No raomntic partners. The story is the same for many of us
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 01:48 AM
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absolutely. This is the halo effect. But just know that since you are neurotyical you still have e achance at creating attraction with women. If you are autistic, it is just so much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:37 AM
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thanks for the tips !
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 04:04 AM
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i feel like the red pill is a gold mine for people who are neurotypical because they can further enhance the benefits that just being neurotypical and being capable of effortlessly conforming into society has
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:27 AM
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can you give me tips on how you have learnt this pls. I keep comparing myself to NT standards :(
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:26 AM
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you must be a very small minority. I cant make friends. I have never had romantic experience despite trying very hard. Hell Ive never even had a female friend. I cant maintain employment. The senory issues at work made me quit. And lets not even talk about coworker bulllying. I feel burnout and cant study or even push myself to go to the gym anymore. I have major issues with self harm. Everyone treats me like an immature child. I dont feel like an adult due to hte yeras of missed out social deve…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:16 AM
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I completely agree with you. Being good looking is such an important determiner of life outcomes that saying that it doesn't matter is just stupid. IF you are a neurotypical and attractive - socialising, landing dates and relationships and maintaining stable employment/getting promotions is as easy as breathing. It doesnt require effort or thought - its just an involuntary flow of life. If you are unattractive + neurotypical this is where TRP is useful. And it really pisses me off that unattract…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:21 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:51 AM
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she legit says shes not making a generalisation and then proceeds to genearlise autisitc men as creepy weirdo stalkers. And then proceeds to get 1.5k upvotes. YOu cant make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:39 AM
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can you even read? Did you see the statistics i mentioned? the 0.2 male fertility rate was from SWEDEN - a place full of tall white blonde hair blue eyed males. So yeh dont know what you are talking about. Women arent that shallow. Women care about social competence more than your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:37 AM
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some retards need scientific back evidence just to prove to them a basic, common sense style concept. These retards will continue to beleive that "women only want tall white chad" like its some ptsd trigger
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:07 AM
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prove to me neurotypical men perform worse than mildly autistic men? Did you even read about the 0.2 fertility rate?????? And that was in Sweden - a country full of tall white blonde hair blue eyed phenotypes. Godspeed and good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:05 AM
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I will never have kids. I am never giving them the same suffering I am going through
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:27 AM
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yeh https://www.reddit.com/r/AutismInWomen/comments/xvepqx/i_often_dislike_autistic_men/ 1.5k upvotes too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:26 AM
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Yeh I feel like this is the halo effect. It goes like this: good looking + neurotypical = socialising is as involuntary and easy as breathing ugly + neurotypical = socialising is still involuntary and easy but you will require self improvemnt in order to be more "attractive' and land gfs. attractive + autistic (like your friend) = socialising would be very hard btu due to halo effect, you end up getting approached first and respected way more by other males too ugly + autistic = never had a chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:37 AM
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yeh i feel like i shoudl change my post to NOT BEING AUTISTIC. IF you had ADHD onnly that means that you dont have an autistic brain structure - this means that you will still be able to easily form social connections and bonds, despite it might be a little harder due to ADHD but nowhere near as hard as iwth autism.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:10 PM
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Yeh true. I feel like you are a high functioning autistic the only way to compensate for your lacking social skills is to be very attractive. You said that you are not autistic right but still neurodiverse? I feel like there are different styles of neurodiversity. If you have ADHD and are bipolar 2, it doesnt necessarily mean that your brain is wired in a way that will prevent you from naturally absorving social skills like with autism. Can i ask how has your life outcomes been? Have you been ea…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:08 PM
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Thanks. In terms of genetics, what was your luck? Were you born attractive + neurotyipcal, average + autistic, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 08:10 AM
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thats the problem i dont know. I try really hard to be neurotypical and likeable but I just end up embarassing everyone around me. I have missed out on years and years of key social development that even primary school kids know better than me. I dont know if I cam capable of catching up and even if I do try, I dont know if I am strong enough to go through all the pain and embarassment of making social mistakes, ofeending people ,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:09 AM
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Yeh my bad i was really talking abotu mild autism in my post. If you have adhd or some other ND phenotype but NOT autism, then you will be able to tacitly and involuntarily absorb social skills and natural social intuition without having to manually learn it (with autism, you ahve to manually learn social skillls instead of automatically/involuntarily). This causes many disadvantages in life if you have autism. 85% unemployment rate after college graduation. 58 year life expectancy. 10 times hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:08 AM
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prove to me most mildly autisitc poeple staitsitcally live better lives than neurotypicals????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:48 PM
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i guess you are correct. But the male autistic fertility rate is 0.2 whilst the female one is 0.4 (from a large scale swedish study). I feel like this is the result of the "halo effect" of attractiveness. People generally come to the conclusion that around 20% of men are physically attractive to women. Assuming this applies to the autistic population as well, I guess we have kind of an argument saying that the autistic people who are able to enter relatinoshpis and have kids are disproportionate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:05 AM
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I had male frineds but i was mostly just like the joke of the group, teh one who was made fun of. After high school they all left me and i ahd to initiate every conversation and every nightout to the movies etc. THey all go to concerts and clubbing and festivals together yet tehy never invite me. They havent even introduced me to their gfs coz they know i will turn her off completely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:02 AM
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yes. Autism rate is only like 1/50 or something right now. But it has been significantly increasing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:01 AM
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I feel like autism rates increasing is a reflection of the high amounts of toxic, artificial chemicals flowing through our food and bodies nowadays and also due to the advacning age at which people actually decide to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:21 AM
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i have never had a female friend before. I have tried to talk to women as both poential romantic interests and as friends and it never works. I have never seen unatttractive/average looking autistic men with girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:20 AM
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I both agree and disagree with you. Whilst you are correct in that we dont have an adquate natural, intuitive judgement/understanding of the current dating market, simply telling people to 'stay away' is very sad. Why shouldnt we try to achieve goals in life that neurotypicals dont have to try to achieve? We also have the same desires as NT people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:51 PM
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Whats the issue with self diagnosing???? You do realise some people live in extremely financially tough situations and cant afford to spend thousands on an autism diagnosis. But i do still agree with you though. I really hate it when neurotypical men thinnk they are autistic simply coz they get no pussy. Its extremely toxic and disrepectful to the autisitc community where even thousands of hours spent on learning social skills wont even be comparable to the skills a NT person naturally, involunt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:01 PM
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i infodump about my special interst mostly. I dont follow proper social conventions of properly introducing myself or having the correct body language whilst doing so. I appear not interseted enough in the other person. I only talk about things i like. I make outrageous remarks. I just act childish in general. Not like a proper adult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:39 AM
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aight bet. Now you tell me how many men fit the attractive, tall and high occupation mold? 95% of men dont fit that mold and most asd men are unattractive/average. Which is why the suicide rate is 1/10, why unemployment is 85%, why the fertility rate is so low. The 0.2 fertility rate demonstrates that only the very attractive group of autistic men are able to reproduce. YOu are partly correct in that i agree with you. But I wnat you to realise that neurotypicality matters alot more and thatn sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:08 AM
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https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/hidden-danger-suicide-autism/ if you do the math 1/10 ASD people kill themselves. Where is your proof that the suicide rate for short men is higher than that of ASD men? I agree with you too that height and attractiveness are massive factors but the key is that you CAN COMPENSATE FOR IT WITH NEUROTYPICAL SOCIAL SKILLS AND INTEGRATE YOURSELF INTO SOCIETY. 85% of ASD college graduates are UNEMPLOYED. Where is your proof that just as many short, ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:34 AM
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i have had the opposite experience. EVen neurodiverse women treat me as an immature man child and dont respect me when i unmask my autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:56 PM
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thanks for the response but i find it extremely hard to believe that women dont dream of a perfect guy lol. That is just normal nature to have desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:18 PM
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obviously. But i mentiond in the post that 95% of the time he will be able to "mask" and "replicate" an emotional connection where it feels real to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:17 PM
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From my and the experiences of many autistic men, when we unmask, women treat us as potential threats. "OH he is so creepy and weird adn childish". Women literally lecture us as if we are little immature children. I have complex ptsd from unmasking in front of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:16 PM
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Interesting thanks for the persepctive. In general, do you like ND men or NT men more?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:15 PM
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Male ASD fertiliyt rate of 0.2 compared to normal male neurotypical population. Suicide rate of 1/10. 85% unemployment rate after college graduation. Average life expectancy at 58 years old. Do you want the sources too? I mean i dont want to completely destroy your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:23 AM
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but not everyone shows autistic traits. The 5% weird you are talking about is compleetley different to autism traits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:22 AM
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interesting. Thanks for the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:54 AM
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thats actually a pretty cool way of thinking. Im good with sciency stuff. Makes me wonder why i never thought of it like that before. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:52 AM
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I said 95% of hte time he is socially competent and 5%/sometimes he shows his autistic side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:51 AM
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Ok then bet. Where is your evidence that women care about looks and money over a guy's neurotypicality? Where is your evidecne that neurodiverse men perform just as well as neurotypical men in relationships? Come on show me. Clown
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:37 AM
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You must be an extremely rare find then. I feel jealous of the guy that ends up with you. I have tried to be "myself". Unmasking my autism. Trying to show my funny, real persaonlity. And women have literally accused me of being "creepy" and "weird" and "immature", lecturing me like im a little b*tchy child. Only when i mask my autims and try to act neurotypical do women actually talk to me normally. I feel like the female brain does not really care about looks or money or income. Sure they help.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:36 AM
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coz im trying to show that looks and occupation CANNOT compensate for neurodiversity. Im trying to prove that women arent shallow enough to regard someone higher than someone else due to their looks/money. Im trying to show how the female brain is actually much more highly callibrated towards detecting social ineptitude and that slight deviatinos away from socially competent behaviour is a turn off. Im saying this because i always see ugly, short men in relationships. Women care much more about …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:32 AM
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yes they are. Mildly autisitc men, regardless of appearnace struggle immensely. Only the extremely attractive were able to utilise the benefits of the halo effect ot the extent ot be able to integrate well into society as they werent punisehd for their lacking social intuation and were able to absorb social skills naturally like most people. Occasionally, tho their mask will slip. I knew a guy like this in my school. Most pouplar guy in the school despite having aspergesr. But i feel like due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:31 AM
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i feel like many engineers have ASD. It might actually benefit having asd as being a software engineer coz then they would see you as the "good worker" and not a leader with extroverted scoial skills and capabiliites. YOu must fight for your rights to promotion. Make sure you do that ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:36 AM
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then if not for neurotypical men, what type of men get in relationships? Ghosts?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:34 AM
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true. I agree with this. I feel like this is the way it goes: Attractive + NT = easiest life ever, socialisng and flirting is as easy breathing and is involuntary with no work required unattractive + NT = life is harder but you are sitll able to compensate being ugly with being neurotypical and relatable. This is where TRP is best Attractive + aspergesr = life is very hard but still, wth enough work you can compensate your autism with your appearcne and the halo effect will allow you to perform …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:44 AM
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happy for you bro make sure you find someone amazing aight?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:22 AM
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yeh i dont blame women for seeing autistic men like that i know plenty of autistic men who are so insnaely socially stunted from bullying and harassment when growing up that they just end up seeming creepy. But it doesnt change the fact that women are way more critical and harsh on any form of social awkwardness over men: in fact, social awkwardness in women is never seen as "creepy" or "weird" unless they are extremely physically unattractive. Most women can become physically attractive enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:21 AM
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not all women are perfect. I see women as equal to us. Not on a pedestal. I agree with you. Women do care a lot about looks. But neurotypicality CAN compensate for being unatttractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:18 AM
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Yeh if you are a white persno with aspergesr I HIGHLY recommend travelling to a different country to date due to white fetishisation in those nations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:32 AM
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this is so insanely toxic and unfair to say. Autistic men are literally the "nice guy" phenomena which so many women find as a turn off. I have tried being nice to a lot of women, acting neurotypical, asking quesitons, etc. but even the slightest weird body language or slight stutter in my sentence or the way my posture is set causes women to feel uncomfortable around me. Its not that im not compassionate. Women biologically NEED that filter in order to understand which men are trustworthy and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:31 AM
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I feel like its a combination of two phenomena: 1.) due to social pressures, women are forced to conform earlier 2.) some autistic traits in women such as being shy or introverted are not as heavily criticised as on men. Instead autistic women are sometiems seen as "cute" or "quirky" (assuming they meet thresholds of physical attractiveness)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:28 AM
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From personal experience, even mildly autistic women are extremely sensitive to any deivations from neurotypical male behaviour and will also treat me horribly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:27 AM
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For sure. However Aspergers itself is not looked down upon id say. I think its the general social awkwardness nad "creepy" behaviour that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:27 AM
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yes. I feel like women do care about looks but what is wayyyyyyyyy more importnat is neurotypicality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:26 AM
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inspiring. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:24 AM
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then how come i always see the ugliest most alien looking, shortest men with the most beautiful looking girls???? Because they are neurotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:59 AM
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but will that trauma restructure your brain and make you autistic? You will still have tacitly absorbed social skills through studying your peers over the years that autistic people will not be able to replicate. A traumatised attractive person can still utilise their NT socially callibrated brain and make the best of life and fit into the "flow state". But an autistic person, no matter how much positivity or self improvement can never change hteir brain structure. Pls remember that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:30 AM
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i mentioned that at the start that we are assuming all comparisons between people with good socio economic outcomes and upbrining like a middle class american family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:45 PM
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nothing. Im just saying that in self improvement, autistic men need a proper guide and treatment/therapy and support. Red pill is toxic on its own and we really need a mentor to help us through it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:28 PM
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Yeh neurotypicals can sense autism in people after like 10 seconds of talking to someone. Any slight deviations away from expected propelry socially callibrated behaviour is punished severely and you are seen as "creepy" or "weird" due to the uncanny valley effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:28 PM
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I feel like you are correct that red pill can work with people with autism. But i feel like it only really works with men/women who were initially genetically attractive/have genetic potential that they can maximise to increase their SMV. You said that u knew some women were into you? I have never experienced that. NO woman has ever appraoched me in life. And when i approach them its either one worded replies, ignorance or they get angry at me and treat me like a child. I think its because on to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:26 PM
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hahaha you obviously havent done your research. Nor have you lived in our shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:24 PM
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thanks. I 100% agree with you that being short isnt that big of a dealbreaker/liability in the face of neurodiversity. short ugly fat men are alwyas in relationships. Same cant be said for a short ugly fat guy who has mild autism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:19 PM
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men should improve themselves. Im trying to say that TRP and self improvement only allows for real benefits when someone meets certain genetic baselines: not a dwarf in height, no physical ailments or disorders, no mental ailments or neurodiverse disorders and born in decent socio economic conditions. Someone born in this cateogry can use self improvemnt to their benefit. But if you are autistic, it is really difficult to follow and stick ot self improvmeent. I have ben exercising, i have been a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:17 AM
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I got dianosed at 19. I went through my entire life without any form of treatment. What coudl this do to a person with aspergers?? I am unemployed. I have no friends, i have never had any romantic experience. Is this similar to the stories you hear about other undgianosed/untreated men with aspergers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:46 AM
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wow that is really detaild thanks. I wanted to know if you happen to know any statitsics or measures that show how life outcomes get better after early intervention? E.g. what happens in adulthod in terms of employment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:46 AM
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absolutely. Mild autism makes you almost 100% prone to comorbidities. Pair that with being ethnic in a white majorty country like usa and you have the perfect recipe for an indivdiual with serious mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:26 AM
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I actually agree with you. Poeple with just ADHD are actually much better at socialising simply because the hyperactive nature of their impulses portrays a sense of confidence, a key factor in neurotypical communicaiton and promoting likeability of yourself. However, since autism is almost hte exact opposite of this with more introversion, lack of confidence and social anxiety, etc. autism has a wayyyyyyyyyy lower ability to socialise properly. It makes me wonder. What if someone has both adhd a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:25 AM
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short people have friends,work and partners. Fat people do too. Small dick people have it too. Poeple with acne have it. But not high functioning autistics. It is such a deal breaker that i have to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:26 AM
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Yeh congratulations. I heard that its a lot easier to talk to other ND women if you are ND. Can i ask, through this journey, did you have to experience burnout, depression, anxiety, self harm and perfectionism, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:47 AM
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yes. But someone who is born neurotypical only has to put in like 1/100th of the effort that a ND person will have to put in self improvement just to achieve the same results. Statistically speaking, mildly autistic folk have terrible life outcomes in western countries. E.g. suicide rate of 1/10, unemployment (with college degree) of 80%, ND women have to face extremey high rates of sexual assault as their high functioning autism limits their ability to provide consent, higher rates of deprssion…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:45 AM
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thats your point of view. THe rest of the world, id say, based on statistics would not share this point of view. Around 85% of high functioning autistics (HFA) are unemployed despite having a college degree, 1/10 autistic people kill themselves, the fertility rate of autistic women is 0.4 compared to hte normal female population - 0.2 for men with autism. The life exepctancy of ASD indivdiuals are 58 years of age - most normal people in western countries live to around 80. Higher rates of homele…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:38 AM
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but those are celebrities. Im talking about in regards to the majority of people. Obviousyl people wiht aspergesr who are celebrities will do ok because they ahve compensated for their lack of social intuition with immense status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:56 AM
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Yeh true. I guess the burnout and depression is hte resultant of hte autistic mindset and not hte result of the red pill. Can i ask what manual or books are you referring to? Are tehre any good books or resources that can help with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:50 AM
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can you help me with this pls? What specifci social rules and stuff did you learn abotu that made you better able to talk to peopel? Im initially good at introductions. "Hey how are you/what degree are you doing"? Etc. Mirroring conversations. But after this tehre are just awkward silences and if i try to fill these silences i just get replies like "yeh yeh, hmmm" and then most silences. I dont know what to do. I dont know how to maintain a relationship with someone whetehre it is friends or a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:03 AM
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i agree. But there is a flaw in their argument. THey are strictly speaking about neurotyipcal people. Indeed, getting in shape, dressing nice, having hygeine absolutely will increase your attractiveness. Hell many "overweight" people are actually genetically very attractive and slimmind down reveals so much of their bone structure, etc. You can go from a 3/10 to a 9/10 just by going to the gym, dieting, changing pu your style and being hygeinic. But its only for neuortypicals. If you are autisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:41 AM
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lets all do this quiz to find out how autistic we are: i got 130 aspie and 70 NT https://rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:18 PM
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yeh something like that. Which is a horrible curse. That is why many of us end up becoming shy and introverted as we have intense rejection sensitivity dysphoria and social anxiety frmo teh times we said socially incompetent things as kids and got bullied
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:54 AM
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thank you for the wisdom. I know that i am actually better than some indians. I am taller, i have kind of a jawline, etc. But the issue comes down to autism. Even though i might be more physically attractive than some indians due to my autism everything is made worse. There is no form of lookism that can compensate for autism. Thats why i eneded up with that attitute to be perfect because you really have to be extremely proficient at masking in order to get by as neurotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:24 AM
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thank you so much for this commnet. Firstly though, you mentioned how i should fIRST become as physically attractive as possible. Does this mean i should also focus on social skills and stuff whilst this is happening? Or should i first maximise my appearnce? I know this sounds very counterintuitive but i believe it is very important. You see, im short, balding, fat nad not very good looking on top of autism so that is a double whammy socially. Like if i just kept practicing social skills and try…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:10 AM
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i do pracrice. I have approached and talked to women trying to be either friends or flirting. I have tried texting, talkig in real life, etc. Maybe its just that your cousin might be physcially attracive and the halo effect allows him to compensate for his autistic tendancies. I am not physically attractive: short, indian, balding and fat. On top of that autistic. If you were to objectively rate your cousin's physcial attractiveness based on your knowledge of lookism (and the rate at whihc he ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:21 AM
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thank you its really heartwarming when others accept you for who you are and you dont have to mask But there is a big issue in this. And that is accepting defeat that you are autistic and will be treated as "different" to other poeple even if you are "accepted" more. A lot of people decide to go down this route but it isnt for everyone. I really hate it when i let poeple know of my diagnosis. I either get infantilised into a man-child (which i absolutely hate with all my heart because i am a MAN…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:18 AM
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can you pls talk to me about your autistic cousin? What does he do specifcially in terms of Rp content? Does he study? Does he have a job? Is he in shape? Does he have a lot of friends and gets invited to parties and stuff? Or is it that he is just confident and was able to, through practice, able to socialise and flirt properly without even having to focus on things like his appearance, job, education, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:14 AM
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im not blaming women im blacming myself for not trying hard enough to overcome being ugly and autistic. I dont blame women at all. If an unattractive, autsitic women tried flirting with me or talk to me and showed weird or creepy signs, i would also not want to talk to them. I dont blame women at all i just hate myself so much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:13 AM
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yeh its just the brutally honest truth. No guy ever has to dive so deep into self improvement to be scoially accpeted and to find a gf, it just sorta subconsciously happens for them. Meanwhile mildly autistic, unattracive men will literally spend years self improving just to make one female friend
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:12 AM
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i agree that red pill advice is good. But i was trying to say it is a DOUBLE EDGED SWORD where it can either be very beneficial for you or ruin your mental healht. I was just kinda venting about how autistic high functioning men dont really ahve a guide through all this and just obsess over everything to the point of burnout and mental health problems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:43 AM
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which is why i am taking the risk and following red pill advice. Although it most likely wont work as i am unable to compensate for my autism with physcial attractiveness and i cannot compensate my unattractive self with social skills due to autism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:30 AM
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no. I said it was a double edged sword that might or might not work. Blue pilled advice is even worse as "unmasking and confidnece" actually leads to more bullyng and harrassment and if you are an adult male, it can even be seen as creepy and childish. I have tried unmasking my autims and trying to act nice before and all that happened was i was bullied and made fun of. Blue pilled adivce is a one edged sword that only leads to more pain. Red pill you at least have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:03 AM
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absolutely im not denying it is good advice: its just HFA men dont have a proper guidance on how to self improve and it leads to burnout and depression once we work reall hard for somehting and not receive the benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:15 AM
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but when you go through 40 years of life without having ever touched a woman, you have to start making compromises. HIgh functioning autism really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:27 PM
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especiallly if you are a ihigh functioning autistic this would absolutely help in confidence as a lot of high functioninig autistic men have never even touched a woman in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:26 PM
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that is extremely stupid of you to say. Thanks for tryign to help me out i really appreciate it but the statement that "most people aren't autistic" is just untrue. Assuming you are neurotypical, you never had to practice those unwritten social rules everyone alwyas instinctually follows. we have to and it really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:59 AM
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i believe massive frame means being in good muscular shape and having a wide back, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:11 AM
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also talkign about a passion is very easy for autistic people. But many women actually find this weird and creepy for some reason because they realise that you are obsessed with it and will start making fun of you for being a "nerd" once you start infodumping about your autistic special interest. Honestly its terrible advice to tell an autistic person to "talk about their interests." The person who made that comment is probably talking from a neurotypical standpoint where basic social skills and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:08 AM
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time change. Nowadays society's structure prevents autistic people form being able to form relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:58 AM
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i like what your doing here. Im going to add my own interpretation: 1.) attractive + tall + neurotypical = slayer 2.) unattractive + tall + neurotypical = still slayer but a little bit harder than 1 3.) unattractive + short + neurotypical = requires more work but with enough self improvement, can slay and get in many relationships. E.g. go gym, practicisng social skills, getting a lot of friends, being in a high paying and secure occpuation, etc. 4.) attractive + tall + high functioning autistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:57 AM
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prove it show me. Show me any evidence or source that shows that high functioning autistic people (people with aspergers) are intellectually disabled? High functioning literally means "not intellectually disabled" (i.e. have an IQ in the range that is not considered intellectually disabled). Please stop spreading misinformation. The only autistic people who are intellectually disabled are those that have severe autism or level 3 autism (i.e. non-verbal types of autism is an example of this).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:22 AM
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i was thinking gamer girls or nerdy type girls studying stem at my uni, idk. I get what you are saying and thanks. But i want you to know that i have talked to a lot of women, NT and ND and it never goes anywhere. I have tried unmasking and masking and it never works coz of autism and unattractiveness. Your advice will work for me i know. But first, i have to make myself as physically attractive as possible. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:01 AM
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thats because you rae talking about the neurotypical population of men. Looks dont matter a lot here because social competence can get you by. But whne you are unattractive and autistic, it is a whole different ball game. Looks are almost everything with autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:35 AM
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hten how else would you say that "women care alot about appearnce" wihtout sounding like an incel? Its just common sense and when you try to tell them this they call you an incel like you are right now. Proabbly coz you are both neurotypical and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:33 AM
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The problem is when to start training social skills: wehn you are dual wielding unattractiveness and autism, you cant really just go up and talk to poeple without repulsing them. YOu have to first make yourself as good looking as possible and hten try to socialise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:32 AM
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i agree. This applies way mroe to people with autism as their social competence cannot be used to get by and they need to compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:31 AM
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Absolutely it applies to everyone. What i was trying to say was that it applies to people with autism MORE. Let me explain: most people, regardless of how they look are able to form rleationships, get dates, have friends, etc. All due to being neurotypical and being born with natural social skills. Its certainly much harder but social competence can just naturally get you in the door. People with autism have this ability taken away from them and thus, require a sort of "compensation" in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:29 AM
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I have to both agree and disagree with you. Looks and personality both matter. But what let your personality shine to them was your looks getting you in the door. They are both absolutely essential, especially for autisitc men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:25 AM
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absolutley. But you said it yourself looks "get you in the door." You have a CHANCE to develop your social skills in order to learn how to maintain relationships instead of just relying on short term hookups. But not for someone dual wielding unattractiveness AND autism. You cant get your foot in the door via looks you have to make yourself as attractive as possible first and then try to improve yoru social skillls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:23 AM
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can you go into further detail about what you did and what happened? Like did you get more female attention, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:22 AM
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not for autistic people: neurotypical people can be the ugliest and shortest, most deformed looking human and still find plenty of relationships. But when you are autistic, you have to go past a certain threshold of looks first in order for the other person to actually tolerate your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:21 AM
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its a more uneven IQ distribution: there are a lot of spergs who are below the average IQ (but not intellectually disabled) and then there are a lot of spergs who are above the average IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:20 AM
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i get it buts its extremely difficult to find other autistic women becuase a lot of them i know are in relationships with neurotypical men :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:19 AM
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thanks. Its just i feel so down seeing young adults my age doing the things i always wanted to do but i cant coz im a dual wielder :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:17 AM
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except when you spend hours reading social skills book, randomly appraoching people in social settings nad trying to make friends, appraoching girls and trying to ask for their number and going through countless numbers of rejections where you come home crying every single time you attempt said feats of social embarassment, there really is no other way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:28 PM
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go on the aspergers or autism sub reddit and post "From my experiences, autistic women care more about appearance than us men" oh boy just watch. YOu will get downvoted to hell and you will get so many messages calling you an incel and a misogynist for even daring to insinuate that women even consider appearance in dating. You will get little fake anecdotal stories about how "my boyfriend is a 5 foot 3 inch tall, balding, fat guy who treats me with kindness" and how "we care more about how a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:27 PM
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they are just trying to protect their fragile egos and spread hte message that "women arent as shallow as men and dont care about looks." If you even dare insinuate hte potential idea that women care about looks in these sub reddits all thats gonna happen is you will get downvoted to hell and get bombarded with messages like "women arent as shallow as men" and "ive seen short ugly men in relationships" and "my boyfrined is a balding, short, fat man who treats me with KinDnESS" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:23 PM
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not sure. Ive heard a lot of us are asexual and alot are LGBTQIA+.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:37 AM
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yeh and it also usually comes from people who never had to struggle with dating coz they were not dual wielding unattractiveness and autism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:35 AM
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bro you have no idea. Some poeple will still tell you "BuT WoMEn DOnt CaRE aBOUt LooKS" even after you provide them with peer reveiewd scientific evidence. And once you do provide it, they start personally attacking you coz they know you are correct and have nothing to say to disprove your evidence-based arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:34 AM
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women arent shallow. I have seen the ugliest most deformed men slay. But an autistic man? Hmm, like 60% virginity rate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:03 AM
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yeh it really is amazing advice. the guy should post this on r/aspergers you will see posts like mine there every day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:16 AM
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thanks man this is amazing advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:16 AM
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EXACTLY. This is such a brutally true comment. Its like you either be the infamous weird nice guy that women despise dating or you become the womaniser that women also hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:11 AM
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um your wrong. You see even the most unattractive of men desire the pretty girls and even the most unattractive of women desire the attractive men. You have ot use your personality and social skills in order to compensate for a lack of attractiveensss. Autistic women are better at compensating because they are not as criticised as autistic men for lacking social competence nad thus they mask better, have lower diagnosis rates, etc. Your advice can work if autistic women were willlng to date auti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:09 AM
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5 6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:07 AM
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absolute fax
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:07 AM
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having a high iq makes you extremeely prone to anxiety and catastrophising. Id rather have a slightly above average IQ than be in constant anxious turmoil and pain every single minute of every day. My brain is so messed up from permenant cortisol flow :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:06 AM
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this is the realest sentence i have ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:51 PM
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absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:48 PM
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yeh man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:48 PM
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thanks but its really tough when you are balding, short and ethnic. In the USA most people are white and most peole with autism are white. its not easy living in a white country and also being ethnic and having autism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:01 AM
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i see both of your point of views. I prefer a balance. GIve yourself free internet time everyday whilst also forcing yourslef into social situations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:00 AM
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ive heard this rhetoric before. Ive been working on my university degree and been going to the gym. You reckon it will work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:54 AM
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no you must be very lucky. Autistic women are very rare (4:1 ratio men to women with autism). Plus most autistic women try to find neurortypical boyfriends. Look at this post that got 1000 upvotes https://www.reddit.com/r/AutismInWomen/comments/xvepqx/i_often_dislike_autistic_men/)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:53 AM
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your saying that as if more than 50% (majority) of autistic women get raped or sexually assaulted. Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:52 AM
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look up how 1/10 autistic men kill themselves. Is that not important? Look up incarceration rates. Look up depression and anxiety rates. Look up self harm rates. Look up unemployment rates for high fucntioning autistic men. Look up bullying rates for autistic boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:51 AM
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would you rahter be called a school shooter or "rude"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:49 AM
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wrong. If you are neurotypcial you can improve your social skills with hard work. If you are autistic you can try to improve it by asking out a 1000 women and you will not get better becuase your brain structure is deformed. These neurotypcial incels are hte laziest and most privileged people on the planet and i hope they never find love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:49 AM
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true. many autsiic men are prone to incel like thinking. They incorrectly assume their apperance is the reason for their social or romantic failures when in reality most autistic men look fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:48 AM
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see? These people think autistic men have it easier have nothing but a victem complex who just blame men for everything. Autistic women have it way eaiser in life. they have twice the fertility rate. Much less likely to kill themselves. Much less likely to get diagnoseed becuase society lets them mask. Much less likely to be forever alone becuase they arent seen as creepy but "cute' and "quikry"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:46 AM
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absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:44 AM
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absolutely. But that doesnt mean that males with autism have it easier. Women and men with autism both have differnet issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:44 AM
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your advice might work if it wasnt for the fact that most autistic women wnat NT men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:44 AM
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aboslutely and to further progress your point, autistic women are ALLOWED to learn to mask because social misshaps are labeled as cute and quirky. But for men and boys? Social mishaps gets you associated with being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:43 AM
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you dont understand. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO MASK. you are given the chance to practice and mess up socially adn that is what is called "cute". You can then develop socially. Even the slightest misshap by a man socially is immediately labeled as creepy, weird, awkward, etc. and leads to intense amounts of bullying and harassment. This forces us to become introverted and never even try to socialise again which then leads to being a 30 year old NEET virgin depressed loser who self harms every day. Mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:42 AM
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and what about NT women with ND men? I dont think that even exists. At least ND women can get with NT men in the first place. Seeing a couple with a NT women and ND man combo is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Autistic women have been proven to have TWICE (0.5) the fertility rate of autistic men (0.23) in relation to neurotypical population (from a swedish study involving 2 million people)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:39 AM
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absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:37 AM
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the challenges are different. With autistic women the challenge is to not get used for sex (whilst still living a pretty normal life iwth friends, many boyfriends, etc.) and for autistic men the challenge is to even get to that point in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:36 AM
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yeh true. Normal = not autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:12 AM
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red pill is all about self improvement in a practical sense. so you are saying that women will find you attractive if you are a fat, broke, lonely depressed retard who has barely any friends and no sexual exprience because he is 'in touch' with his 'true personality'. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:14 AM
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that proves women are more visual because they criticise even the slightest features that arent attractive. E.g being short, fat, balding, etc. Men are much less strict. E.g. men always date short women, thick women like he said in the post. You will never hear a women say "oh that short, fat balding guy is so attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:09 AM
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women care about looks but mostly its neurotype. Id even say its like 20% looks and 80% not being autistic. If you have high functioning autism you will insnatley be seen as weird or creepy by woman. Just look at fertility and virginity rates most men actually get laid and have kids. Even though dating apps show like 4% are considered attractive to women. Women are more sensiitive to social awkwardness. If you are an aspie being good looking matters alot. If you in top4% looks and height and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:14 AM
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this only works for neurotypical men. Men who are autistic (high functioning) can go to the gym for years, and pracrtice social skills for years and will still be seen as the weirdo creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:50 AM
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lmao statistically most people are unattractive and are still able to pass on their genes and have kids. Compare that to people with are high functioning autistic: (only 20% of them are able to have kids compared to the general populatino) . Looks do matter. But nowhere near the same as persoanlity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:48 AM
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women arent shallow. They do care about looks but nowhere near the amount men do. Women care way more about social callibration and whether your autistic or not. If you are its such a turnoff that they act asexual around you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:11 AM
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yeh she is screw her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:28 PM
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exactly bro dont listen to her she is just privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:28 PM
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this is the dumbest thing ive ever seen. Sex and intimacy are basic human needs in the redroduction system. Maslows heirarchy of needs says so. You are saying this because as a woman you get unlimited access to this and never feel "lonely". Obviously men arent obliged to a romantic partner and he never even said we are he just mentioned how important it is. LOl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:28 PM
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those were just examples not every autistic person does those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:38 AM
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yeh i vibe way better with other autistic women too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:37 AM
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but you do know about "chadfishing" right? Where attractive men who say that they are child molestors still get female attention? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gw1SbBxx518&pp=ygULY2hhZGZpc2hpbmc%3D https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qK4tLFHbjtc&pp=ygUcY3JpbWluYWwgY2hhZCBmaXNoaW5nIHRpbmRlcg%3D%3D https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5ygzbE0QtY&pp=ygUcY3JpbWluYWwgY2hhZCBmaXNoaW5nIHRpbmRlcg%3D%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:34 AM
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silly and artificial or a real world issue? You do know how detrimental high functioning autism is to men in all aspects of life right? Im trying to determine whether making mysefl more attractive or trying to get higher incomes is even worth it. I.e. can looks and money overcome the negative effects of autism on male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:24 AM
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thanks for the honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:21 AM
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So you would choose the first attractive autistic guy as long as those "autistic things" like outbreaks, agner issues only occur like once a year? So it depends on teh quality of the mask and the guys ability to keep up with the mask? Interesting. Thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:13 AM
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but i really wanted to point out how 95% of hte time the autistic guy is capable of msaking the NT guys's persoanlity and there is no difference between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:03 AM
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im just trying to see if looks, height and income can outweigh autism. I belive they cant. But i wanted to see what women actually think about it frist before generalising
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:56 AM
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because i have seen the most alien, ugly, short looking dudes with the most attractive nad beauitful women which raises my standards. I know its really stupid. "lowering standards" is esentially about finding someone lower on the looks scale. It should be more common as it would fix alot of men who are unable to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:38 AM
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i dont think its as simple as that. Maksing sounds good but in reality it is extremely diffciult. Especially when you are short, ugly balding and autistic like myself. Rip :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:47 PM
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yeh its sad. I dont get why people say they woudl rather be tall attractive and autistic. They say they dont know what its like to be good looking and tall. Well we dont know what its like to be NT and not having to force ourselfs and do years of self improvmenet just to talk to a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:34 PM
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I kinda disagree with this. Im autistic and i find it wayyyy easier to talk to women who are also neurodivergent, especially autistic. We just vibe better and are able to let our real personalities out as we do not have to mask that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:05 PM
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i feel like if a guy is very attractive and tall then women would ask them out themselves. Otherwise if he mid or ugly they woudl just expect men to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:43 AM
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agree. Some short women give the 'cute' vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:40 AM
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same bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:39 AM
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EXACTLY. Thanks for agreeing with me. Autism is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:38 AM
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there is no way you are still a virgin unless you have undiagnosed autism. I have seen the most alien looking mfs slay. Bro im serious you might have aspergers. Do an online test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:37 AM
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yeh i am also neurodivergetnt (autistic high functioning) but i am short and balding (at 20 years old). SO yeh no woman has ever approahced me in my entire life. Certainly good looking aspies have it eaiser. But aspergesr still makes it harder. Like you said they had to approach you. But you should be happy that you were capable enough of maintaining her interest and getting htem to like you personallly. That is something not even looks can do for you. Well done mate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:00 AM
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so this is an example of hte aspie/high functioning attractive tall guy syndrome. Women approach them but after talking they leave/reject. Your brother must be a really cool and smart dude and i wish him the best. Just let him know that since he is good looking/tall it will be much easier for him (with enough hard work adn dedicatino) than a balding, short ugly sperg in finding love. Just remember that. He will succeed i assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:57 AM
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that is not hte red pill you are talking about the black pill. red pill is not "female centred". It is about improving a man individually. You legit believe that men improving themseleves is a form of misogyny. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:24 AM
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because it promotes the idea of being optimistic and being happy with who you are. It relieves you of the stress of self improvement and the depression of not achieving your goals despite all the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:22 AM
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what other high fucntionig mental health condition would prevent men from being able to make friends and flirt though? I assumed that autism is the only one. Maybe shizophrenia? ADHD? Extreme social anxity/ptsd, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:44 AM
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isnt that the red pill essentially? Healthier version of yourself comes under red pill self improvement doesnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:10 AM
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should i do this first and then focus on social skills? I feel like if i try to learn social skills rn whist looking like this its gonan be pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 02:21 AM
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this only works if you are white due to white privelege. I am indian and short and balding at 19 :( But geomaxxing is still AMAZING advice for white people. Especially if they go to latin america or asia where white privelege is insane. In brazil women only desire sperm from white, blond hair and blue eyed men its so bizarre how much htey desire white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 02:21 AM
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i feel like elon is the example of the "sperg compensation principle". E.g. he had to become the worlds richest man to compensate for his autism and thus, be seen as attractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:56 PM
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i absolutely agree with this. I just have this dilemma about whether to looksmax first or try practicsing social skills first. See i am 19 years old and i am balding and i am indina (which is frequently noted as teh date no one wants to date). I feel as if i cant really just learn how to talk to people at first because they will be inanely repulsed by my appearnce. So far for a few months i ahve been going to the gym, doing skincare, using minoxidl in my hair, etc. I feel as if i should focus 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:49 PM
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absolutely. Spergs are AMAZING at pattern recognition and learning to mask if GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY. This is another reaosn why attractive spergs do better because if you are attractive, people will want to be friends with you more and thus, you can imitiate the way that they talk to women, flirt, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:46 PM
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