For context he is 18 male and I am 20 male. He recently graduated high school. He had this catfishing issue in school 2 years ago which put him into deep depression and social anxiety. He wouldn't talk to anyone at home and had minimal conversation at school. He performed pretty decently in his high school exams. Although he doesnt talk to me in person he messages me through the phone. Every time I make conversation with him in person he doesnt reply or just angrily closes the door on me. Once I confronted him and I accidentally scared him a little too much as I sperged out and out of fear he just threw a bunch of things (lol). I dont want that to happen again.

Basically he has no friends. Only like this one girl he texts who is "just his friend". He has no job. He doesn't go to the gym. The girl he texts apparently was flirting with him at the end of school and he was too pussy to say anything back to her (which Im happy about because he can do so much better than her). He's developed a oneitis with a 1/10 because she was the only girl who showed interest in him after like 3 years. One of my goals is to stop this because this cunt has good genetics and is very hardworking by nature and deserves so much better. He would be a fucking beast with the red pill. I did tell him to join the gym and get a job via text message but he isnt doing them. I tried showing him pics of some very cute babes I met in uni and Im not sure if it worked or not (Im trying to put in this message that at uni everything will be ok and he will meet hot girls and all that stuff, etc. -> im not sure if this worked coz he seems very attached to this 1/10).

What ive come to realise is that despite my brother being neurotypical, he has alot of my autistic traits. I feel like that older brohter/younger brother dynamic meant that he assumed my behaviours were the correct ones. Which is why he is so introverted and decides not to talk to people at social situations unless they talk to him first, etc. I hate my autistic ass and how it has affected other people. This situation has also given me such a drive. Im not going to stop applying the red pill ways until every ounce of autism is drained out of my mind, body and soul.

The absolute worst thing about all this is that Im fucking autistic and Im not sure if the advice that I would give would be suited well for a neurotypical like my brother (although he might be a very high masking autistic which could explain the anger issues so we dont know). I dont know the neurotypical ways of convincing someone or persuading them into doing something. How do I get him into joining the gym, getting a job, building his social circle, practicing cold approaches, etc???

I need help in this. I will not let someone like my brother avoid the red pill. He has too much genetic potential. I want to kick this little bitch out of him so that he fully embraces the red pill way.