Im asking this because after talking to many fellow autistic red pillers irl, through reddit, discord, obscure youtube channels, etc., Id say over 80% of them ended up being capable in getting hookups and LTRs after they had fully maximised their appearance. However, a rather unsettling trend Ive noticed is that they mostly relied on a woman showing interest in them first (which is kind of embarrassing being a male). Furthermore unsettling, many of these LTRs ended as a result of the behavioural incompatibility between neurotypical women and autistic men. These guys have told me that as the relationship went on and they became more comfortable in the presence of these women, the conflicts arose and eventually led to a break up. For example there was this asperger dude on a youtube channel giving advice on LTRs with women being an autistic guy. He was around 6 feet tall. White. Blonde. Pretty attractive. I contacted him on discord and he said he regularly gets approached by women but they are "turned off" by his autistic personality and traits. Eventually he lucked out when like the 50th girl approached him and he escalated quickly leading to sex and a LRT. He said he was able to do this after going through huge levels of social exposure at bars, clubs, univereisty meetups, talking to people on campus and classes, etc. However, he made a huge mistake in dropping the autistic mask in the relationship which led to issues such as her calling him "childish" and "immature" and "embarrassing in social situations" and eventually the girl cheating on him. I want to prevent this sort of thing from happening to me once I have fully looksmaxxed which is why I am making it my life goal to learn how neurotypicals talk to each other and making sure that I am actively practicing these behaviours.

I have approached many women in the past and failed every single time yet I am not going to use that to demotivate me I will keep trying. Even as an 80 yr cold care patient I will approach and try to befriend women and/or try to ask them out. I have learnt alot about the basic techniques of small talk that most neurotypicals are just naturally born with and only require minimal practice to really maintain. Im practicing and working hard for the moment when I have fully maximised my physical attractiveness.

So fellow autistics/aspies on this sub. After looksmaxxing, did you receive more female attention and got appraoched by women? How did you handle these situations? Did they progress into LTRs, FWB, etc? And if they did, how did you make sure that they stayed and werent turned off by your true autistic self? How did you learn how to mask constantly without dropping it even once?