There have been a lot of posts lately calling out the theory authors who are trying to get you to be a productive little beta or a “greater beta.” They’re right. Those greater beta posts have been popping up more and more recently, but what I don’t think has been discussed is what those greater beta posts have in common.

Becoming the greater beta

Every last one of those posts makes the same critical error, they misunderstand when mission becomes your first priority. See, those posts have it backwards. They are all trying to sell you on the idea that following your mission will cause pussy to follow. It won’t. It will leave you as a busy worker bee just waiting and telling yourself that it will come if you just keep pushing harder.

This is as classic of blue pill thinking as you can get. What’s the beta archetype? The guy who just studies for an impressive job, gets said job and the corresponding income, and then ends up with a reformed slut who makes his sex life miserable and drains his resources. This is what the posts that put mission first are telling you to do. Don’t worry about pussy, follow your mission and it will come. But they never tell you when you’ll be successful enough that you’ll start having abundant sexual partners.

That’s because you wont get interest in you from your mission until you’ve had success. And why is that attractive? In this situation part of the time it means you will have money from your success. And by the time that happens you are bound to be older. Just like a greater beta. Work harder and ye shall be rewarded… just later.

The real success

The correct way to put mission is NOT first, but second. Mission is what you do once meeting and fucking new women starts to get easy and starts to feel more time intensive than it’s worth. You’ve spun a soft harem for a while. You’ve made the mistake of picking up too many plates and discovered your ideal number. Plus, you pretty much know exactly what to do in all the common situations until it gets repetitive.

When you have experienced everything above, then that’s when you shift to mission. You have internalized alpha behavior at that point. Now when you focus on your mission because pussy will be easily available to you. When you know you can pick up a new plate within a week or two then you are no longer a greater beta. You’re not waiting for sexual partners. You either have them available as plates as I think most ECs do, or you’ve done the Rollo Tomasi thing and found one that passes all your checks and is very well behaved. Which ever way you live your life can only be an autonomous choice when you genuinely have options.

Ignore false profits

Anyone who tells you to focus on mission before gaining true abundance is steering you wrong. Work to always improve yourself, but you need to get out there and do this NOW. You will find it gets easier and easier as you become more experienced building attraction and as your self improvement shows. But approach NOW, there is no magic level of self improvement that will get you plates.