Summary - a short parable my first boxing coach told me, on the mindset of a warrior/predator.
My first boxing coach posed this query to me, and asked me to answer:
"Suppose you are in a dark parking lot, and a guy is eyeing you up, wondering how much money you have on you. As a predator, what should you be thinking?"
Take a moment, before reading on, and decide on your own response.
My answer was a brash: "I'm a trained fighter, I'm not afraid of him."
My coach then said:
"You should be wondering how much money HE has on HIM"
Lesson learned: A predator's mindset is not defensive in the face of a threat.
edit - many of you are missing the point - it's not meant to be taken literally.
double edit - maybe this example will make it more clear: I taught my boxers that often the best way to stop getting punched is to punch THEM.
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