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The REAL reason you're not already ALPHA. (Install the IDGAF 2.0 Mindset Now Free Of Charge!)

B0KAM
May 3, 2015
54 upvotes
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Title The REAL reason you're not already ALPHA. (Install the IDGAF 2.0 Mindset Now Free Of Charge!)
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B0KAM
Upvotes 54
Comments 23
Date May 3, 2015 8:28 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/34pa4s/the_real_reason_youre_not_already_alpha_install/
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[–]"I'm an a(u)rtist bro"situ139 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

It sounds like you do care.

[–]peoplearejustpeople9 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

We all do care on the inside about others. You just have to at least project that you don't.

[–]B0KAM[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

peoplearejustpeople9 said it perfectly, thank society for these fuckries

[–]ChadThundercockII -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

dude repost the OP. I want to re read it.

[–]Padge01 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I relate to your bitchass story.

[–]ChadThundercockII 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You... youu.. You are the man. Kick ass post.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]NightGod 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're over thinking it. It's not that you don't give a fuck about taking care of yourself, it's that you don't give a fuck about what other people thinking about you and your life, because you already know you're amazing.

[–]onepill_twopill 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree and I understand, but as I say, I just reckon we need a better term is all. I understand, but to make it easier for others, could we consider finding a better phrase?

[–]B0KAM[S] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Well, not gonna lie I kinda saw this coming, just.. didn't think it would be so soon.

Anyways, when we say IDGAF we don't mean we should let ourselves fall into ruin at the mercy of poor habits. Not giving a fuck about what anyone thinks of you means exactly what it says.

It doesn't mean you can "dress badly" or "become overwieght" (unless that's what you guys wanna do ;_; ).

But rather it means, I'm going to dress well, look like sex, smell so good you'll need to change your pants after u walk past me on the street. I'll cut out the excuses and hit the gym instead of getting busy doing nothing, then saying I never have time to go. I'll start reading good, educational, inspiring and motivational books & Heck I might even start a business a year from now, with all the shit I've learned and the confidence I've gained, and use it to add value to people's lives and become a fucking Millionaire because that's totally fucking possible despite what everyone else wants to believe in today's society of overworked yet underpaid corporate drones.

  • And I'm going to do this because I WANT TO - and NOT because of what society or some other loser will think of me.

It's being able to wake up in the morning and saying GODDAMN I'M SO FUCKING PSYCHED TO BE ME & IF I WASN'T I'D TOTALLY WANT TO BE ME.

All this might seem like a whole load of WTF?? to some of you but if you actually start consuming more of this content, it'll not only make sense, but will become your reality (Read again the part about shit swinging into your favour without your realizing it).

To an extent you should care, but only about the opinions of people who are in a position YOU want to be in I'm not talking about your average Thundercock here, I'm talking Millionaires, Good Leaders, and those who are genuinely happy with their lives.

  • Please someone actually apply this and post your "Rags-toRiches", "Zero-to-Hero" success story here!!

[–]_whistler 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Basically, IDGAF has a better ring to it than "I have a certain number of fucks to give and, while I may choose to bestow them where I see fit, you shall not take them from me through trickery or social conditioning."

Yeah, I'd rather just keep "not giving a fuck".

[–]B0KAM[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

JESUS could not (and I didn't) say it better myself.

yo everyone get this guy to the top for everyone to see.

[–]LithuanianBaltic 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wherever I go, I just keep telling to myself: "I'm the fucking most important person here, why the hell I need to know what others think about me". When someone asks me for a favor, I just think "Do I really want that, does this person deserve to have my time". When cold approaching: "This girl is fucking lucky".

[–]moodyprism 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here is how I cured my anvxiety about approaching and dealing with women. Instead of approaching from a PUA perspective and imagining how I'm going to have seduce this girl and jump through hoops and qualify for her attention I tried something new. Every time I approach a girl I treat it as my own personal play time. I think of her as someone sent to me purely to amuse me and act as though she's my personal play thing.

100% difference just by adopting a different perspective.

[–]exoduslife 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This reads like an infomercial asking you to buy into something you'll regret later.

[–]B0KAM[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks are ALWAYS deceiving

[–]cantslee 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Im going to print this and stick it on my wall, so I dont have to come online and waste time away from "Dont Giving Fucks!!"

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[–]Walt- 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

wha removed? pm me the link pls

[–]wuchtelkuchtel 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Noooooooo!? This was the greatest post ever!!! WHY!!!???

[–]wuchtelkuchtel 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I want it back!!!!! I didn't save it!!

[–]wuchtelkuchtel 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wS5xOZ7Rq8

[–]NeoreactionSafe -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminism talks Equality but practices extreme Individuality. (women's entitlement)

The Beta actually believes the scam of Equality.

Red Pill advocates extreme Individuality (IDGAF attitude) and it will have the effect of eventually crashing the Misandry Bubble because the present system is designed for self sacrifice.

Natural Hierarchy means you abandon concepts like Individuality and Equality, but that's post-Misandry Bubble knowledge and it has no effect at the present time.

Enjoy the Decline means embrace your Individuality today... end your self sacrifice... end your slavery.

Enjoy the Collapse means you are looking towards a post-Misandry Bubble future of Natural Hierarchy.

Red Pill allows both views.

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