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This /r/relationships thread brings me inner peace.

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May 29, 2013
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[–]t21spectre 48 points49 points50 points 13 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

First, no guys wants to be the silver medalist and take care of some other man's child. Unless he's so beta she is the best he can do.

Second, she will always put her kid ahead of any man, and many of us don't want to sit in the back seat and come second in a relationship.

Third, he didn't stick around for a reason. When I take the garbage out to the dumpster at my apartment I'll sometimes notice someone threw out, say, a microwave. I'll think to myself "this thing looks perfectly good, why would someone just throw it out?" Then I remind myself that someone threw it out for a reason. He didn't stick around to raise the child with her for a reason, why bother finding out why, there are plenty of new, working microwaves with a warranty on the market.

EDIT: Forth, most men don't want a pre-packaged family. Although, relationships and marriage are not really TRPs thing.

Fifth, you know her stance on abortion and if you knock her up she is having your kid too, and part of your paycheck every month for 18+ years

[–]orographic 29 points30 points31 points 13 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

Fifth, you know her stance on abortion and if you knock her up she is having your kid too, and part of your paycheck every month for 18+ years

I could look past everything else if the girl was attractive but I cant look past that. She didnt use birth control, she didnt use Plan B, she didnt get an abortion. Accidents dont happen in the modern world. To have a baby women make a series of conscious decisions to go through with it.

[–]whynoflyingcarsyet 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I can see how one child was an "oops" but two or three she either knows what she is doing or loves riding random pole bareback.

Just nope. Not for me.

[–]SpencerMacario 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

LOL...

You know I was thinking of that 'put a ring on it' song that everyone references when talking about LTR/marriage prospects.

Perhaps TRP should write a version for men 'If you like it then you should wrap it up' (you know so you dont knock some random bitch up who takes a chunk of your paycheck for 18 years).

[–]whynoflyingcarsyet 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

KA BLAM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVrCtKhC1uk

[–]SpencerMacario 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

LOL Awesome video. I remember the one that it spoofs very well.

Still I'm waiting for the internet to spoof the Beyonce song I referenced earlier (and gets referenced here often in regards to marriage discussions).

http://youtu.be/4m1EFMoRFvY

Come on internet... dont disappoint me! I expect a good manly spoof. I'm sick of hearing this song every day on the radio on the daily commute (sometimes more than once)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The SanDisk Sansa gets good reviews. With decent earphones, the song shouldn't bother you.

[–]MrStinky 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am Pro-life and even I know this is true

[–]MockingDead 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sixth: I doubt the guy that will accept her will make her feel like the other man did, leading to resentment.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Especially if she's "done having children" and expects him to simply "man up" and provide for another man's child without even getting the opportunity to father his own. I've seen that one before.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

couldn't have said it better myself.

[–]random_reddit_accoun 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Although, relationships and marriage are not really TRPs thing.

Why not? To me, relationships and marriage are extremely important.

TRP, to me at least, is about brutally understanding reality, with no sugar coating or wishful thinking. That greatly helps me maintain good relationships with all around me, because I understand better what is going on.

[–]rkg-pua 30 points31 points32 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I am a single mom of two AWESOME kiddos" - if I had a nickle for every time I heard this..

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 43 points44 points45 points 13 years ago* (19 children) | Copy Link

Single mother at 23 who names herself "QueenMagg", with a firm rule of at least 30 years old. I mean, an advertisement writes itself, get in line fellas. Where have all the good men gone?

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 36 points37 points38 points 13 years ago* (17 children) | Copy Link

To the developing world to find a good woman.

Seriously though, western women are the least datable in the world, they feel entitled to everything and accountable for nothing. The whole psychology makes me want to cringe, hard - because being who I am, the gender I am, and where I come from - I have to work EXTREMELY HARD in order to get ANYTHING AT ALL and I'm responsible for EVERY LITTLE LAST FUCKING THING!

On the topic of single mothers (and not trying to hijack this thread by any means) As a man who's grown up with a single mother and thus led a very tough fucking life resultantly (lack of mental/financial support in ANYTHING) and essentially feeling a lot like "you raised yourself", I really feel for the kid this chicks bringing up be it a boy or a girl, but especially if it's a boy. If he doesn't find his way over to TRP and get some masculinity in his fucking life, that boys life will suck to no fucking end. Everytime I see a single mother these days, I actually feel a little sad inside. It's the sign of a society denigrating at the seams, its reasons like this that people like me (who are actually the same age as the chick posting that topic) would not date a woman like that, not that she'd date a guy like me her own age anyway unless I was some fucking millionaire/billionaire playboy who got access to inheritance when I was 21 even though my parents aren't dead yet.

In no fucking way would I wanna be that chicks beta bucks, but part of me feels a paternal responsibility to younger boys coming up through the ranks who don't have a dad, simply because - I never had a dad myself and I know just how much that fucking sucks. Honestly. Guys who had dads, no matter how much that cunt annoys you - you're all the better a man for having him, even if he was a beta. No dad at all = complete fucking darkness, sheer loss, a massive lack of direction, nobody to guide you - nothing at all. It's a mental void. Fuck, I tried to tell my mum how much it sucks, but she had to protect her ego, I can't get through to that bitch and really connect on this issue, she can't handle the truth she needs to think "she did an amazing job" and use all my accomplishments as attributions of her amazing parenting, that's how all single mothers operate their hamster to rationalise their decision not to abort you.

Boys need their fathers like oxygen and any dismissal of that is just a gross rationalisation to say the least. Being a stepfather to a bastard child is like coming third place in a 2 parent race. The kid makes this chick EXTRA NEEDY as well, financially and emotionally - because she's strained more in both facets.

[–]ubercoolhipsterguy 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

there should be an internet resource for males growing up without fathers...

[–]soapjackal 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I thought that was the internet

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It is far better than the old model: Mr. Babysitter (AKA television) that has become a feminist swampland.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Feminist swampland" hahahahahaha. Damn son, even Cartoon Network seems like the quality has dropped. Ben 10. They srs?

[–]ubercoolhipsterguy 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's not just television - this propagandistic crap is in all of Hollywood.

When is the last time you saw a movie with a triumphant, masculine ending, rather than a "peace, tolerance, understanding, community & harmony" ending?

The education system, Hollywood, all the media outlets, and the State all share the same utopian vision of castrating men and quelling the effects of testosterone.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would say Iron Man 1 was decent, but they sure fucked it up in 2,3.

[–]ubercoolhipsterguy 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right, I really enjoy the exceptions!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a dad, and an older brother (who always had a selfish beta life of his own).

The internet resource is the red pill. It's for every male, the still growing and the all grown up.

[–]thebears1986 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Props dude.

[–]thereisnosuchthing 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't get through to that bitch and really connect on this issue, she can't handle the truth she needs to think "she did an amazing job" and use all my accomplishments as attributions of her amazing parenting, that's how all single mothers operate their hamster to rationalise their decision not to abort you.

women all think they would be or are amazing mothers.

the really smart/good ones are the ones who cry and think that maybe they aren't and that they should have done x/and could have done better for you, because it means they actually give a shit about you rather than their own ego-shield and have access to self-reflection and honesty.

[–]SpencerMacario 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You sir are a scholar and a gentleman.

The only one I feel more sad for is the boy who's raised by two militant feminist lesbians who got inseminated with a glorified turkey baster.

As a 30+ male I would not go anywhere near this woman.

[–]thereisnosuchthing 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

yep you can tell how stupid and shallow she is from the way she's typing about her situation and her lack of understanding at her age about what is really going on/

[–]SpencerMacario 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Exactly...

Put bluntly, she'd have more prospects if she was honest with herself. She wants a substitute dad for her kid and she can probably find a good bluepill beta who's in his 30's who might entertain the possibility. The problem with that situation is she'd still need to maintain her looks and loyalty much like if she were to try and attract an alpha. Her Loyalty is the only thing that such a man would place value on and that would take time to earn because lets face it taking on a chick with a kid or two is a huge investment even to a typical bluepill beta.

[–]thereisnosuchthing 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah but blue pill betas in their 30s tend to have developed a sense about women like that and are much more discerning when it comes to accepting a mate that they will play betabucks validator for(they've also had enough sex to warrant the realization that it's not worth being walked on someone who is worthless themselves and offers you nothing but expectations while not being worth any of them).

Sure, maybe if they were still in their early 20s, but in their 30s they have to be serious retards to not be able to see through a girl like that.

[–]SpencerMacario 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point... Yeah she needs to find a guy her own age before her looks fade and she hits the wall.

[–]watersign 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

good post

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Realising that your mother (and all adult figures who guided you, or attempted to, or the ones on whom you placed undue value (guilty of that, with my brother, and it's really fucked up)) is WRONG is a cold, cold experiencing. Very sobering.

I was naive enough to be shocked when I realised my mother threw shit tests to my face without a thought. As long as I maintain my position and stay srrong, her hamster spins in the right direction.

She is wrong, about many things, and I can see it.

/rant

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Can I get a WHATGMG!?"

[drumroll]

[–]Clauderoughly 42 points43 points44 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Lol...

She made shit choices and now those shit choices are biting her in the ass..

And her predictable response... "Waaaahhh ! ALL MEN SUCK!"

She is looking hard for a Beta over 30 to pay her bills.

[–]MockingDead 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Man, I wish I could do the same and have people defend my choices.

"I got a philosophy B.A and fucked around after college being lazy at entry level jobs and now I can't get a good job!"
"Man, you will some day fidn teh right job! Most HR managers are dicks anyway!"

[–]Sword11 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh people do that, they also cry for the Gov to forgive their college debts.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The cost of college/uni in the USA is absurd. I don't blame people for wanting out of the crippling debt. Did they do it to themselves? sure but everybody pressures you from kindergarten to go to college. it's not a choice anymore, but the next step. You are unemployable without post high school education in many places.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks like many are unemployable with that degree too.

Nowt wrong with going to trade school, amd I wager that lots of people currently in college would benefit more from that.

I dont know too much about them, but it looks like Germany got it right with their post high school apprenticeship system. Only a minority od students attend university!

[–]Sword11 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So don't go. It isn't a right, and there are ways to get free/cheaper education (Military Academy, Community College). Kids just don't like those options because they aren't fun.

Blue collar jobs actually pay fairly good wages (welders)

TLDR: You make your bed, you sleep in it.

[–]AlwaysLateToThreads 44 points45 points46 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yet she still thinks she's somehow better than guys her age and only dates guys in their 30's......

[–]thebears1986 62 points63 points64 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Step 1: Alpha fucks - done

Step 2: Beta bucks - in progress

[–]Bobsutan 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Indeed. I was just thinking the same thing.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No guy her age would take on her baggage...

[–]MSoftHarem[M] 28 points29 points30 points 13 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

Well folks, looks like the reddit admin are looking for more witches to hunt. While we never really enforced it before, our general rule was - if you're linking to another sub: link to the no-participation version of it by adding the subdomain np. to the url.

We are now making this mandatory. From this point forward, any link to another sub that doesn't include the np. subdomain will be removed immediately.

What is no participation?

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But what if I'm a member of that community?

I assume if you're a member you can comment and vote, but that's up to the admins of reddit- who honestly haven't given moderators any clear rules whatsoever. We're basically just bumping around in the dark waiting for them to get angry and go on a banning rampage again.

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This: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1a59tv/mod_posting_rules_update_2013/[1]

would become

This: http://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1a59tv/mod_posting_rules_update_2013/[2]

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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1eilir/no_participation_rules/

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[–]Clauderoughly 19 points20 points21 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Seriously ? Are the Reddit admins that pussy whipped ?

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

I've seen one of them threatening to close /r/mensrights for some minor woman hating in one of topics. Seems like they have no problems with srs ;)

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Could it be related to their corporate masters are feminists? By masters I mean the parent company that owns reddit.

[–]socal83 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

look at conde nast's media portfolio. nearly 100% female-oriented. they don't want this stuff front and center for the same reason nobody else does - advertising dollars.

Fashion and lifestyle [edit] Vogue W Glamour Allure Self Teen Vogue GQ Details Lucky Style.com/Print Home [edit] Architectural Digest Bridal [edit] Brides Golf [edit] Golf Digest Golf World Food [edit] Bon Appétit Epicurious Gourmet Live Travel [edit] Condé Nast Traveler Technology [edit] Wired Ars Technica Culture [edit] Vanity Fair The New Yorker Trade [edit] WWD Footwear News

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

FUCK.

and i was supporting this shit by not using an adblocker.

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even worst: the people who pay and employ feminists, to be feminists. You don't think NOW pays their own bills, do you?

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1ckvgo/woman_who_works_at_college_admissions_rejects/c9hu8xw?context=4

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. Sounds like Yishan is practically running SRS

[–]Clauderoughly 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking beta's / pussy whipped men.

This is why we can't have nice things

[–]iamme22 points 13 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Can you elaborate on what you seen assuming you don't have a link?

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Here you have it, google to the rescue, as always.

Second, if you moderate a subreddit where you repeatedly try to help your submitters post dox, you will also be banned. If your subreddit is staffed by moderators who encourage rather than report doxxing, it will be banned. sillymod, this is your first and only warning. handsomemod has been warned before and refused to listen.

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1ckvgo/woman_who_works_at_college_admissions_rejects/c9hu8xw?context=4

So it's supposedly to be about "doxxing", not "minor woman hating". It's against rules.

[–]dontsuckbeawesome 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doxxing from SRS? "Investigative journalism." Doxxing from MR? Threaten subreddit ban.

Just great.

[–]puaSenator 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To be fair, I've seen some pretty fucked up and sad woman hating in that sub before. I'm all for men's rights, but God Damn, they really do have a few extremely bitter men.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Please, in some cases, how can they not? There are some vile cunts out there in the world and they hurt some men very hard.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be fair, reddit is privately owned and they have the right to do pretty much whatever they want with it. There is no guarantee of freedom of speech here, although it is imperative that they maintain the illusion that this is a nearly completely user-driven website lest they cede their popularity to the next imitator.

[–]phattsao 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. SRS can get away with anything, but whatever they target will be hammered by the admins. Reddit is slowly succumbing to this disease of admin preference.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Plz repost this as a mod submission of its own.

[–]MSoftHarem 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

It is at the top of the subreddit and has already been posted as a mod submission.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah my bad. I'm viewing reddit from the Alien Blue app on iOS and it doesn't show much.

[–]mutualaid -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Luckily this rule wasn't enforced until after y'all went and skewed the voting in the linked thread

[–]MSoftHarem 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Is there a reason you're being overly sarcastic?

[–]mutualaid -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Who gets to decide what's overly?

That thread just turned into a redpill thread, with people downvoting the OP for providing additional information about her question. The whole thing is a mess.

[–]MSoftHarem 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I do, considering I moderate this subreddit.

The top 3 comments are not even from Red Pill subscribers so I'm not sure what your point is. Did you read her comments? It doesn't take a TRP member to know she's full of shit and most men tend to shy away from dating single mothers.

[–]SpencerMacario 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Bravo...

I was gonna say even though the top comments arent from TRP members, they very closely resonate with things TRP members would say and if I didnt know better I would say they were.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And yet there they are as "top comments" in a blue pill space, the red pill space being one of the few spaces a man can actually be masculine and truthful without having the iron fist of authority slam down on him. It's quite interesting that a blue pill space is not actually choking on these truths, but rather instead warming to them. How intriguing!

[–]SpencerMacario 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah...

That is what keeps me coming to TRP. Open, Honest, Blunt truth. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck you call it a duck. You dont call it a horse.

[–]socal83 39 points40 points41 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it brings me sadness :(

for the child.

[–]orographic 25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All those single mothers in that thread giving advice on how to land and keep a man. Fucking hilarious. My favorite are the ones telling her to be confident. Solipsism is a hell of a drug.

[–]mechakingghidorah 24 points25 points26 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That whole thread is sick:

A worthwhile man will see how good you are

No, a high caliber man will see that you're fucking used goods you sluts. Modern women disgust me.

[–]1favours_of_the_moon 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Like she sad, a worthwhile man will see how good she is.

[–]puaSenator 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Hahah, she won't date guys in their 20s because all they want to do is party and fuck. Well, yeah, like I said in her thread, the only guys in their 20s willing to date a single mom is going to be a pretty shitty guy with not many options... See because the guys in their 20s that are quality men, are going to have much more to select from, putting her very low on that list.

Meanwhile, the guys in their 30s that are willing to date her are just beta chumps. Again, any successful and good looking man in his 30s doesn't have to date a single mom. Only desperate 30 year olds are going to be willing to raise another man's child, and that's just assuming she's hot.

She's fucked. And people wonder why we emphasize responsible parenthood?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

"people wonder why we emphasize responsible parenthood?"

The fucking misogyny in this subreddit OMG

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Woosh buddy.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out :)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Again, "Woosh"

[–]Bobsutan 30 points31 points32 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bed. Made. Sleep in it.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish people would stop with the "men aren't ready for that kind of responsibility" bullshit and just tell her the truth, she fucked up. Her options are now limited and a lot of guys are going to see her as damaged goods.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just got a redpill boner from all the responses to the tune of "what the fuck did you think was gonna happen?"

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

The evolution from goey warm hole that alphas ejaculate in to single mother is sadly entertaining. Its like they are getting exactly what they deserve... or something.

[–]mechakingghidorah 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Not quite, our taxes still support them through the welfare state.

If being a single mom forced them into poverty, and they were forced to turn tricks, then they would be getting their just desserts.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One day the government aka the biggest beta provider in the history of humanity will collapse. The gravy train ends for everyone eventually.

[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

.. our taxes

Don't forget the poor sap of a father. He's on the hook for life. Her choice, her body, His money, his life.

[–]SpencerMacario 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not life... just 18-21 years... I think you might only get like 25 years for murder.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Life on welfare ain't the greatest. I think it's pretty close to just. Now she has to change diapers and feed a little brat she probably doesn't want. But, the fucker that didn't wrap his shit up is just as big of a piece of shit. You can get condoms for free, there is no fucking excuse to be having kids you don't want.

If we took the welfare money and put it into something less broken I can agree with that. Something has to be done with the kids, can't have children starving in the first world because their parents are idiots.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But, the fucker that didn't wrap his shit up is just as big of a piece of shit. You can get condoms for free, there is no fucking excuse to be having kids you don't want.

Absolutely true. However, women still hold 100% of all choices when it comes to bringing a child into this world.

[–]Senior Contributorwhiskey_bearfist 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah. welfare living is poverty. and its a cyclical bastard.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

why bother with sex if your using a condom?

its satisfactory at first, but thats only cause you have nothing to compare it with

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because you're a fucking idiot if you don't.

  • AIDS, HERPES, HPV, loads of other STDs.
  • Unwanted children.
  • Child support
  • Semen in vag = girl can get a rape kit done and its more likely to stick in court.

[–]telnet_reddit_80 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That is seriously paranoid.

And, despite years of "equal opportunity killer" propaganda, AIDS is for gays and IV drug users.

Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)a represent approximately 2% of the US population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV. In 2010, MSM accounted for 63% of all new HIV infections, and MSM with a history of injection drug use (MSM-IDU) accounted for an additional 3% of new infections. That same year, young MSM (aged 13-24 years) accounted for 72% of new HIV infections among all persons aged 13 to 24, and 30% of new infections among all MSM. At the end of 2010, an estimated 489,121 (56%) persons living with an HIV diagnosis in the United States were MSM or MSM-IDU.

Your odds of contracting HIV as a heterosexual male, probably white, and living in the first world are minuscule. I'd be more worried getting a tattoo or whether my hairdresser uses disposable razors.

[–]SpencerMacario 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

While it may seem paranoid these are all very valid reasons to use a condom. You should always wear one especially if you are pumping and dumping.

Only reason to NOT wear one is for reproductive purposes. You are in a long term relationship or marriage and you are planning to have kids.

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

  • AIDS, HERPES, HPV, loads of other STDs.

STDs are actually not that bad and can be treated, their largely buzzwords today; also, a condom isnt nearly effective as its made out to be, it doesnt stop stds from spreading throught skin contact, shedding, sweat, kissing/nibbling, and vaginal fluids(if shes on top or its leaking onto the sheets); aids is one of the harder bugs to catch

  • Unwanted children.

snip-snip, coitus-interruptus, monitoring her periods, giving false info on the first meetup

  • Child support

see above

  • Semen in vag = girl can get a rape kit done and its more likely to stick in court.

record and document your shit


really, this shit only happens to low hanging fruit

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I might as well post my own opinion on single mothers:

100.000 years ago a "single mom" did not exist, because they got eaten by sabretooth tigers or some other predator. That's how I treat them today: they do not exist in my reality, I don't even see them.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dat thread. Holy shit...

[–]AlwaysLateToThreads 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's bad man.

[–]rickaboy 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know plenty of guys in there 20s who don't just want to party and screw ...

[–]Lord_Perseus 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

here was my contribution Too harsh or bang on?

The harsh reality of the situation is that you will not likely ever get a high status male ever. You'll get players who see you as promiscuous & an easy lay & take advantage of you & your very evident insecurities. Or you'll get some supplicating mewling beta who despite what your guilty conscience tell you to say will grow sick of him very quickly & end up kicking to the curb.

The kind of man you desire will see you as slutty, & irresponsible single mom who's looking to sink her claws into his bank account expecting him to subsidize you & your kid. Good men will also view you as "used up", defiled by a lowlife, they do not want to be with a woman who's been with men who are of a lower calibre than they are, which is what they will assume your baby daddy to be since you are young & not together

No good man wants that kind of woman so either you'll have to lower your standards & accept you'll be alone, sorry to be harsh but it's the truth

[–]watersign 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking right on.

[–]AlwaysLateToThreads 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Too harsh for that sub! Know your audience.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

At last, an honest woman. In a reply to OP she said:

Don't limit yourself. You want to find a man that doesn't want to limit himself, you have to do the same. I haven't been actively looking for a man because I'm too busy as a single mother working full time. And who has time for that? I have a weird FWB thing going on and honestly? That's all the time I have right now. He is a genuine human being that cares and that's all I'm going to care about until a man drops out of the sky. That's all I have to look forward to because most men aren't interested in single mothers.

What's this? A woman who looks for friends and then finds a suitable male among them? One who actually knows her own value and isn't on a pedestal made out of her own bullshit? Amazing:

You should instead try to make friends. Being friends first can really make a lasting relationship. And being friends with other women opens up support and opens doors to other circle of friends where your next possible partner might be. That's my take on it.

This is a redpill woman right here, at least in frame of mind. The only thing missing is to figure out if she is fat or not. The problem is though that she has a kid. Nobody wants to raise some other man's kid, especially if the biological father is still alive.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's definitely fat.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

original text was deleted. What did it say?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hamsterbation of a 23yo single mom who found out the hard way that she could not have it all.

[–]TheLameloid 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That EDIT: was the icing on the cake. I had a good laugh while reading this, thanks for posting.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was thinking the same thing.

[–]MockingDead 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At one time in my life I would have white knighted, hoping it's true that sexual marketplace value was a myth.

[–]soapjackal 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't realize till I was halfway down the thread that this isn't a np link.

[–]PolishHammerMK -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try harder bitch

[+]courtFTW -8 points-7 points-6 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I would guess it makes you happy because the majority of you are sexist assholes.

Do you even know how funny it was the other day to watch y'all try to figure out why no one likes you, and why no "red pill" women exist in the world?

Hilarious. You guys are a delusional bunch.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You might want to get off your high horse since you enjoy posting in /r/fatpeoplestories (so do I but I don't run around calling people sexists because they laugh at hamsters).

[–]courtFTW 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And how exactly does posting in /r/fatpeoplestories make me a sexist/asshole/bad person?

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Please explain. So far all you have done is insult. Insulting is not discussion, it is just insulting. If you come in here with something to say that is more than just name-calling, we are happy to listen.

Do you realize how you sound? "You all suck, you all are mental, you all are big doo-doo heads. I don't like you!!! So you should stop being doo doo heads and be like meeee so that way you don't suck!!"

Where is the substance? I'd love to hear your angle on why we are so terrible.

[–]Lord_Perseus 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That would require her to process her thoughts & opinions in a rational fashion somethings it seems she is incapable of

[–]courtFTW 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for proving my point. You say I am not capable of rational thought because I am a woman. That exemplifies the thought process of this sub in a nutshell.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

^ Something all feminists are incapable of. They expect people to put up with their shit, but because they refuse to be held accountable, this doesn't mean they need to qualify, explain or demonstrate any reasoning they simply accuse and believe their own bullshit as a defence mechanism. I believe the best qualified term to describe such a thing is "self-righteous indignation"

[–]courtFTW 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Held accountable? What do you want me to "explain and qualify"? What you need to understand is that this is a hate subreddit. What you are asking me to do is the equivalent of a regular poster in r/niggers demanding that I justify to him why black people aren't bad. This is a subreddit for lonely losers to talk about how women are inferior creatures and they hate them. This premise is 100% bullshit, and, as a woman, it personally offends me. What more do you need to know? Now I know what a black person must feel like when they read r/niggers.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is hate everywhere, this subreddit is about understanding the nature of women and by extension becoming a better man as a result. It's not about demeaning women for the sake of it. You're misunderstood and your conclusion is incorrect, but that doesn't bother me, in fact I kind of expect it. If it offends you then simply don't come here, it's not too smart to engage in something which only harms you, if you can't handle "the red pill" you're free to walk away back to whatever reality makes you happy.

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