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Desmadre
March 15, 2013
19 upvotes
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Title This was posted in Seddit.
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Desmadre
Upvotes 19
Comments 23
Date March 15, 2013 5:49 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]TRP Vanguardlegendofpasta25 points26 points27 points 13 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Seddit appears to have a 'white guilt' complex. Seduction churns out a bunch of alphas and then the newcomers start acting like seduction apologists.

Their main appeal is teaching people to get laid. Is anyone there complaining that they are 'too alpha'? Nope. Are there any girls complaining that their boyfriends are 'too alpha'? Nope.

The most successful guys become alpha, those who don't make the cut pretend they don't want to be alpha anyway as a means to protect their egos.

Seddit 1.0: be alpha. Here's how.

Seddit 2.0: Being alpha is so beta, just be yourself, and you'll find the right one.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Are there any girls complaining that their boyfriends are 'too alpha'? Nope.

Yes, actually, there are. But you notice they aren't leaving their boyfriends for being too alpha.

[–]zionController8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But you notice they aren't leaving their boyfriends for being too alpha.

Exactly. They just want betas to be emotional tampons.

My girlfriend tells me I'm a jerk all the time. I have said "Do you still love me even though I'm a jerk?" she says "unfortunately" and I say "then its not a problem".

Never had a girl be more loyal and adoring before.

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My favorite is when they call me an asshole, and punch me in the arm while giving me bedroom eyes.

[–]Ethan470 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love getting called an asshole these days, I now just respond with "Yes." or, "Yes, I warned you", because I usually have :)

[–]chikinpickle 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha this was after she'd been telling me how mean I was. I said "Didnt your parents ever tell you that it means someone likes you when they make fun of you?"

Boom, killshot to the panties.

This girl has caught my eye a little. 20 year old claims to be a virgin. Dont think shes had a taste of a real alpha man yet and shes thirsty. Last (and only) bf friendzoned himself. I had three other chicks calling me "fearless leader" and hitting on me in front of her. (Including a suspected porn star) and a feminist girl after I took her apart for saying the classic "men who rape women need to control themselves."

Called her a sexist to her face. She changed her statement and got me a beer.

feelsgoodman

[–]RedHonest1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point.

The red pill for a lot of guys are noticing the men whose girlfriends are always complaining about them, but they stay with them.

[–]telnet_reddit_809 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Are there any girls complaining that their boyfriends are 'too alpha'? Nope.

Yes. Absolutely. You could fill books with it.

Just not to you so it doesn't really matter.

[–]TRP Vanguardlegendofpasta8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Complaining to beta orbiters, but I hardly consider that problematic.

[–]telnet_reddit_809 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I'm saying. But that's where most of those guys are coming from.

And I don't mean their mindset, I mean literally, those guys are the ones who heard those complaints from their "gal pals" about this sort of behaviour and never made the connection "oh! all her boyfriends act like that because that's what she really wants."

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If these guys would just remember "never take a woman's seduction advice" they'd sidestep this whole mess.

People don't tell the truth with what they say. They tell it with what they do.

[–]telnet_reddit_803 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If these guys would just remember "never take a woman's seduction advice"

It's funny because you cannot explain that even to people who work in marketing and have long learnt the limited value of consumer polls. They know not to ask their customers but watch what, when and how is actually sold, and yet are completely unable to apply that knowledge elsewhere.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doublethink: the ability to sustain two contradictory ideas by not thinking about both of them at once.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seddit 2.0: Being alpha is so beta, just be yourself, and you'll find the right one.

That's a good way of summing up the current seddit condition. "Just be yourself" has to be some of the worst advice, yet it's appearing to be a mantra there.

[–][deleted] 21 points21 points21 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]orographic10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fake it til you make it

[–]2StandardDeviations7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Upvoted for "meta-narcissism".

[–]j-pHil0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Care to elaborate more?

[–]RedHonest2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Feminine imperative in spades. When I have time later, I can deconstruct the arguments, but the piece contains a lot of strawmen.

[–]Modredpillschool4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I put up a decent fight. Man Seddit is in rough shape.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The quality of seddit continues to noticeably deteriorate. It's a bit upsetting to see, because the resources there really helped me out. Current links and discussions are so blue pill / white knight it's unbearable, though.

[–]WhoaKungFu0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I appreciate your efforts trying to get the word out.

Though, you were arguing with the person, assuming they were being objective. Which they weren't. They were speaking with emotion, and with that any sort of logic goes out the window. The jacked-in man is no different from a woman. Play on their emotions and you can get them to see your point of view.

[–]soapjackal1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The strawmen are everywhere, but I don't think anyone on seddit got to the bottom of the article before they decided to circle jerk over the idea that they can be beta and superior to real men

You think truly confident men sit around worrying if they’re being alpha enough?

Truly confident superior men get the quality women. And even if they don't spend all thier time even bothering with the whole alpha,beta,gamma, delta nerdy delineation, they are alpha males.

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