Three tips on controlling frame in LTRs

Archwinger · 2016-01-05T03:20:39+00:00

These are decent tips, in a very general sense, but you're focusing on the wrong parts of them. Not your fault. Just your perspective. You've been up to bat against a great pitcher and are telling us where and how the ball seemed to curve instead of how to throw it.

Battle-Scars · 2016-01-05T03:18:16+00:00

For the record, rationally I know this can't possibly be true, but he makes me feel like it is.

So many times I read on this sub about teaching a guy to hold frame, A&A, humor, mystery, etc. and whats important is how you make a woman "feel" and that rational thought isn't all that important.

Here is a post from a woman who wholeheartedly confirms that it works and she loves it. Nice to see perspective from the other side. Keep posting and don't worry about the knuckleheads..

MentORPHEUS · 2016-01-05T03:27:10+00:00

I know you mean well and your writing is good. However, this exemplifies the Red Pill adage, "Don't ask a fish about how to catch fish, ask other fishermen!"

Your writing style is currently a better fit for the RPW sub, lurk a lot longer here if you want to develop a good TRP voice to address an audience of men.

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2016-01-06T07:15:14+00:00

Women are allowed to post here if we support the mission, right?

I won't ban you, no, but I will delete your post, because your advice isn't good, or useful, or clear.

Like most women who wander in here, you seem to think your vagina will give you a unique and useful perspective on how to be a sexy man. It won't. It's a handicap. You have zero experience.

silver_nuke13 · 2016-01-05T15:53:40+00:00

please stick to red pill women

we don't really trust a fish on how to catch fish

MattyAnon · 2016-01-05T08:43:46+00:00

Women are allowed to post here if we support the mission, right?

Sure, but you're not allowed to declare your gender. So, no. And you're violating the posting rules in other ways, but let's see what you have to say.

he pretends that I break the scale by being an 11 out of 10.

At least you know he's pretending, but there is no reason a man should pretend like this. Better to say it like it is and weather the "minefield" as you put it (which really just means you shit-testing that can most productively just be ignored).

I still have no idea if he has slept with 10 women or 100. And I like the mystery of not knowing that about him!

Yeah, this is how you handle it. Deflect anything you don't want to answer. Fair enough.

"That guy? Oh, what an upstart - I taught him everything he knows!"

Fair enough.

These are pretty weak tips though, and you're trying to present yourself as being the selector and him as jumping through your hoops. That's probably your reason for posting.

Deflect sexual past, claim to be the master rather than the student, pretend your girl is an 11, no major insights here.

Guys: do not pretend the girl in front of you is an 11, do not even pretend she's the hottest girl ever or before you know it she'll be posting on TRP about how you're lucky not to be walking through a minefield that she feels she can impose on you at any time if you "slip up".

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-01-05T05:06:54+00:00

Ugh... Can we please not let the fish make posts here? TRP is supposed to be one of the last bastions of male enlightenment; one of the few truely male spaces available to men in need.

I think it would be extremely ill-advised to allow this trend of women posting on TRP to continue. This is how they will water us down and attempt to betafy us all. It'll start with them playing by the rules, then they'll slowly and meticulously take over.

Iceman3514 · 2016-01-05T02:36:23+00:00

So she is self-aware of this bullshit facade and lets it hold weight in her judgement instead of reality.

Oy vey

"That guy? Oh, what an upstart - I taught him everything he knows!"

CRINGE omg

ErasmusOrgasmus · 2016-01-05T21:42:14+00:00

Mods delete this shit and stop allowing women to post here. Not very good content and women shouldn't be allowed to post here. Even the so called "enlightened ones". Like someone said, this is how women work. They stick their noses where they don't belong and will attempt to beta-phy this.

RedPill1990 · 2016-01-05T22:56:36+00:00

So much Hamstering in this that I can't help but laugh

Title	Three tips on controlling frame in LTRs
Author	Distressive
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	January 5, 2016 2:28 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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