It’s been almost a month since I stopped talking to a woman I was seeing. We were inexclusive for months but we got cozy, toothbrushes at each towers houses type stuff. So, she thought we were exclusive.

Someone told her I was on tinder, and she asked if I was seeing other people, I told her yes. And then she told me to leave her house.

I’m upset with her because she was still on tinder too up until about a month before that. & she was sleeping with her ex when we first started seeing each other. I didn’t care, because I didn’t want to be a hypocrite, I was seeing other people too. There was never any discussion about being exclusive.

I had told her within the first month of us talking that I wasn’t looking for a relationship. Personally, I am not. I intend to stay out of a relationship until I am 30, or until I own a home.

Also, she’s not loyal. She’s sent me naked pictures while I’m committed relationships with other men. Cheated on her previous boyfriends. So she’s not exactly girlfriend material.

The time we had together was great, we both have cars & houses. We share mutual interest & had a lot of fun dates, gave each other gifts, etc.

I guess I’m looking for advice and also needed to tell someone, as I’ve learned telling people around me often doesn’t have good results.

The way I see it I have a few options:

  1. Become “exclusive”
  2. Stay away and keep seeing random tinder sl*ts
  3. Become “exclusive”, cheat on her anyways