True abundance mentality is having regular and guaranteed sex. Anything else is wishful thinking and pure mental masturbation!

Hector_Castillo · 2017-08-28T15:56:24+00:00

Abundance mentality is knowing that you could go out and get sex.

What you speak of is actual abundance.

Both are important.

Words matter. Equivocation breeds confusion.

If a phrase has "mentality" in it, then it has to do with the mind. Knowledge of a skill set resides within the mind. Hence the usage of "mentality." Engaging in equivocation, as you have, confounds discussion and, ironically, creates more mental masturbation than it helps eliminate.

TakeaL0ss · 2017-08-28T15:38:35+00:00

I agree with you, I've experienced the same stuff and I can tell that abudance mentality is achieved only after you have girls around you... in the past I was a very sentimental person, now if a girl doesn't show interest in me I just give her 2 more chances, if she fails both, then I drop her forever without regrets. (By chances I mean dates,hangouts and all the other stuff that shows interest to spend her time with me)

JamesSkepp · 2017-08-28T16:47:34+00:00

This is why I love pragmatism. Simple, concise, elegant title that combines theory and practical solution in one.

mcmurtk · 2017-08-28T19:07:35+00:00

"Spinning plates is not an option for me because girls in my country are not as open-minded like in the US. They will quickly lose interest if they can't get commitment from you."

I promise there are guys in your country spinning plates. Stop with the male hamster.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-08-28T16:10:34+00:00

Having both been in a position of having sex availability (and taking it) as well as having sex availability (but choosing MGTOW) I'd say that there are advantages and disadvantages to both.

The central issue is your slavery.

Are you a slave to what is essentially a hedonistic activity?

I've always said that every guy needs to have had sex (good sex, not mediocre) and have enough knowledge to be able to say "okay, I get it".

But there is a point where the allure of the new wears off.

Think of it like chocolate ice cream.

Let's say you eat chocolate ice cream very day.

Would you get bored of it?

Maybe you switch to strawberry ice cream.

Bored again?

The issue might be you have an obsession with ice cream.

Maybe you are better off with something different.

Maybe you fry some vegetables?

But wait you say!!!

Vegetables aren't sweet, how can you not want ice cream?

That's not hedonistic enough!!!

But that's a choice.

Free will...

RighteousSouljah · 2017-08-28T18:16:00+00:00

Every man is non monogamous

fromthecrypt8 · 2017-08-28T22:18:49+00:00

I think also regular fucking makes women notice that you are a sexually active male. Broscience, I know, but I remember one time I fucked a woman, and then went to the store.. I could notice a few women giving off a different, "fuck me" kinda vibe towards me, which happens rarely to me.

max_peenor · 2017-08-28T16:31:25+00:00

It wasn't long ago that being married was a guarantee for regular sex. For some married men, it still is. There are even far more than think marriage is the route to it. Almost none of these people had an abundance mentality. Be careful with distilling TRP down to soundbites. Thar be dragons here.

Oh, and some light reading for you: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paragraph

Scurvemuch · 2017-08-28T16:56:05+00:00

there is a difference between abundance mentality and the mentality gained by abundance.

most guys here will never experience the difference.

TheReformist94 · 2017-08-28T17:40:18+00:00

YOU TELL EM! TOO MUCH MENTAL MASTURBATION ETC. UHHH WHY BE IN LTR,SPIN PLATES NOT URS JUST UR TURN. fuckin cucks. Good on u brah

JaspersChest · 2017-08-28T18:47:17+00:00

Pussy slaves as far as the eye can see

Sedated_Wolf · 2017-08-28T20:52:46+00:00

Out of curiosity what is your country?

MFW_Left_Meltdown · 2017-08-29T00:10:20+00:00

Saying "if you don't do X, you don't have abundance mentality," you probably do not possess an abundance mentality.

hjm_14 · 2017-08-29T00:29:39+00:00

What if a man is maxed out on looks in his 30s, is short, can fuck average-looking women every day but chooses not to because he wants 8s and 9s he can't have? My n-count is 1 this year (this year only), but it could easily be 100, although I choose not to because fucking 6s does nothing for me. It makes me feel worse actually. How does one get abundance if he doesn't simply want "abundance" of women he doesnt want?

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