Wash. Rinse. Repeat

GrandmasterHurricane · 2016-01-04T16:45:36+00:00

You meet her off Tinder (not ltr material)

She said she's tired of assholes (womanese for pumped and dumped).

max_peenor · 2016-01-04T19:20:40+00:00

I check her profile. Not just it's not deleted. There are completely new pictures.

Women are always shopping, even if they don't plan on buying something right away. So why would she close her favorite mall?

The obligatory: don't listen to what women say. Watch what they do.

[deleted] · 2016-01-04T18:05:26+00:00

You sound very immature. You are over investing into a girl you just met. Even demanding the nudes things and waiting for sex just proves it. If you are on your job you will never have to ask for anything. If you were on your job she would be willing to do anything. Girls only say that type of shit to guys they see as betas. It's a big red flag especially if she is doing this at the start of you guys dating. She probably views you as an emotional tampon/beta while still searching for a chad on the late night. Any girl on tinder at 4am is up to no good in the first place. You should of escalated immediately. Read the side bar and get to work.

no_face · 2016-01-04T17:30:52+00:00

Red flags:

No sex, but I understand she wants to take things easy. In her words, "let's not spoil this beautiful moments we have with stupid things".

She marked you as beta bux. A woman who does not fuck you in 3 dates is a lost proposition.

One night out she tells me she's so happy she could finally delete tinder because she found me.I nod in agreement, and we toast with wine. tinder because she found me.I nod in agreement, and we toast with wine.

Here she is basically getting a soft-commitment from you. By agreeing, you indicated that you want an LTR from her. You should never do this until you had sex a few times, even if you think she is a unicorn.

The right thing to do is to say: "Dont delete it yet... what if you dont like sex with me?"

tuffbot324 · 2016-01-04T20:51:40+00:00

I m 27 and it is time to get rid of bullshit

Then why are you bothering?

Comrade_Fuzzybottoms · 2016-01-04T16:18:25+00:00

I know this feeling. All I wanted to do was create something beautiful with you, but you fucked me. And not in a sensual way, not in a kind way. You lied.

That thing in between your legs is not special, every woman's got one.

sqerl · 2016-01-04T17:32:23+00:00

Something that was told to me... you were seduced by her body and your natural instincts. Nothing will replace the feelings she gets from constant male attention. By threatening to leave, you employed the dread game and she will respond accordingly. The feelings it invokes in her will only last a short while. Stop being angry towards her. Accept her behaviour as you would a dog's desire to eat steak off your table. Now figure out exactly what you want from her and make it happen. Under no circumstances should you LTR her. #BeenThere

empatheticapathetic · 2016-01-04T20:23:27+00:00

I know you wanted to believe it but: she was on tinder, she's 21, and she's hot and rich? C'mon man. Sounds like you were wanting it to be true more than it realistically ever could have been.

nzgs · 2016-01-04T21:36:48+00:00

I tortured her for an hour

Why? You already knew what she was doing, the moment you saw the new pictures on tinder your relationship was over. Hold frame, delete contact. You seem to have a tendency to invest too much emotionally into a relationship which is possibly why you have these beta relapses. You invested into it far more than she did, and you got hurt. The person who invests the least holds the power.

Sir_Distic · 2016-01-05T03:15:04+00:00

The opposite of this entire post is this: IDGAF attitude. You have a total GIVE A FUCK attitude.

You're dependant on her every step of the way.

You're not willing to walk. You're threatening to walk to blackmail her. Even demanding her phone password, which she probably can change in seconds, is pathetic and weak. Reeks of insecurity.

Tell her you're not interested in a long term relationship. But if she proves herself she can be your friend with benefits. See if she stays. I bet she walks. Because she holds all the cards.

"No guilt trips" "I tortured her for an hour until she had no choice then to admit why she was there." uhh. That's a guilt trip.

Why didn't you just set her free? If she wants another guy let her. The fuck is so special about her that you can't replace her?

Also, how many other women are you currently with? Or working on? Abundance mentality.

Title	Wash. Rinse. Repeat
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	12
Date	January 4, 2016 1:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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