Why are we doing this anyway?

strosst · 2013-11-23T02:38:59+00:00

And when I was turned down, about 7 times, including a chick I have onitis for, I gave up and got pissed.

I remembered my RedPill

Don't think so. First off, hitting on 7 girls in a row isn't the best strategy. Second, you should be past the point where you get pissed off by rejection.

causeway303 · 2013-11-23T13:17:08+00:00

Don't make them a priority, bro. Make them a hobby. Use your time wisely and work on yourself.

Good luck.

2013-11-23T12:43:05+00:00

You're too emotionally invested in the idea of defining yourself through women. Sometimes it's just not your night. And getting rejected in a social setting will lower your perceived value in the eyes of the other people present and increase the probability of further rejections.

The ultimate distinguishing factor between red and blue pill personality is how a person responds to adversity. Champions develop strategies for dealing with failure because they know that you typically have to fail to grow.

Just be aware that many men don't even have the balls to try because they're paralyzed by a fear of failure, and they're doomed because of it.

When you sober up you need to analyze your behavior during the party and determine what corrections you need to make. Period. Everything else is utterly irrelevant.

thinkon1t · 2013-11-23T18:35:12+00:00

The harder you try the harder it is.

Just be the prize and they will come to you.

Always be the prize.

cagethepepper · 2013-11-23T12:49:23+00:00

I used to make chasing chicks my priority. I've stopped and I feel much better. Now I focus on self improvement, I'm the priority, not them and I feel miles better. I recommend you do the same.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-11-23T14:13:17+00:00

The great thing about game is that you can try it on new people who have no preconceived notions about who you are. You can be who you want to be.

2013-11-23T14:29:01+00:00

What sacrifice are you talking about? I have been here for about 3-4 months and I've only seen a positive outcome in everything i do.

LMS_THEORY_ · 2013-11-23T04:02:57+00:00

Do you have Looks, Money, or Status? Without it, 'game' won't get you far. Even TRP Endorsees are saying that nowadays

Mr_Bell · 2013-11-23T12:57:55+00:00

TRP is not about 'shifting' every girl in a party. It's about enjoying the party without worrying about pussy. And if you feel you eat some girl, just go and grab her.

You're in control of the situation.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-11-23T02:46:37+00:00

why bother making them a priority

You should be doing this for you not for them.

BloodRoseTRP · 2013-11-23T10:32:14+00:00

From a biological standpoint, our "goal" is to reproduce and propagate the species. However, everywhere we look, we see evidence of our success as a species, with an estimated world population over 7 billion.

This "success" serves to highlight OP's question and perhaps plight. What are we to do with our lives now that we have spread our collective seed as far as possible?

Personally, there is no "endgame" for me. That does not mean, however, that I do not have goals. I set goals for myself, my immediate family and anyone else who I care for or give a shit about. We work and strive to reach our goals, and for me that's enough. The satisfaction lies not with the destination, but with the road to get there.

That being said, do whatever the fuck you want to do, whenever you want to, wherever you want to. As long as you're "happy" with it.

rp_manifesto · 2013-11-23T18:09:26+00:00

Dont go out to game women, go out to have fun even if its with women. If you go out with the intention to fclose a girl you dont have outcome independence because you have a clear goal which, if not attained, means you failed.

If your goal is to have as much fun as possible whatever that means or might entail, then you can never fail. Of course this sounds like selling yourself short, but its actually just a smart mental trick. You still go for what you want, but you dont have a host of expectations fucking up your frame and game.

Its tough, Im still working on this myself. Good luck brother!

Zackcid · 2013-11-24T08:50:41+00:00

I've been evolving like crazy these past months. I'm fucking convinced it'll work out for ya. Maybe it's a mindshift you need. Check out Blueprint Decoded. It'll fix your brain and you'll begin applying that stuff.

I've been working at a nightclub and I've seen some crazy shit that forces me to be more alpha and powerful. It hardened me. Fuck this is so amazing.

Oh yeah, if u get "rejected" by a couple girls one night and decide to keep at it, it's only natural that youll fail with the others. It's changes your physiology when you don't get good results. You'll start subconsciously sabotaging yourself. Same goes for our good nights. If I'm having a great night, every other approach is just so flawless.

Title	Why are we doing this anyway?
Author	ColmM36
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	November 23, 2013 2:24 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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