Why guys aren't as aggressive as they could be

InsanityManifest · 2013-11-29T23:06:46+00:00

Fact is that whether an approach is considered creepy or not is 100% dependant upon whether the girl finds you attractive or not.

That seems to be my current point of trouble. Not many girls are attracted to me. I get told I'm handsome, but from women in their 40s.

themoor · 2013-11-30T00:26:22+00:00

Women are turned on by a man confident in his sexual and takes control of the interaction.

If she doesn't find you attractive, it probably won't work.

Your looks are lower on her list than her's are on ours.

But if you act like "you've been there before" and know what you are doing, she'll follow your lead. "It's just happened", etc.

Women are rarely sexual aggressors, except toward top men.

But, if you are not one of them, you can still be sexually confident, cocky, smooth, and lead it toward where you want to go. If you've hooked them, they will often follow. I've done it many times (and screwed up) and seen it done.

But being passive and the male just waiting for it to go down like they want it is like waiting for your numbers to come up in the lottery. It CAN happen, but your odds improve if you know how to lead the interaction forward.

The trick is to NOT make it seem like you are trying to do that. That's where the term "natural" comes from. To her, it just seems like the "natural" course of events rather than you "trying" too hard to get to a sexual outcome.

Act like 'of course this is where it's going" without having to force it. Just move it in that direction and if you've already got her turned on without making it seems like a standard "pick up" she'll often go with your lead.

Hard to explain unless you've done it.

But once you have, once you see where it's going, you just "know" it's your score to bag if you don't fuck it up

Mr_Bell · 2013-11-30T14:02:36+00:00

Why guys aren't as aggressive as they could be?

Partly because of articles and accepted mentalities like this.

Swifthand · 2013-11-30T12:55:26+00:00

Women who are interested will never punish you for moving fast. If they do, they weren't interested in the first place. It's a very easy way of weeding out the time wasters.

MrFritzH · 2013-12-01T11:25:14+00:00

Yes, I usually send this video to friends who have had this problem.

Title	Why guys aren't as aggressive as they could be
Author	Swifthand
Upvotes	24
Comments	44
Date	November 29, 2013 10:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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