Why mastering dating apps is a tremendous advantage to attracting high value girls

SeemedGood · 2025-09-04T17:07:51+00:00

So much wrong with this post, I probably shouldn’t bother, but I’ll be brief:

High value girls/women are not on dating apps. While AWALT is true for core tendencies, there is significant cultural variation of behaviors and OLD is a culture in and of itself (and a crap one at that) in which true high value women don’t participate.
IRL presence is what matters, and IRL presence is what needs your development time and energy. OLD distracts from that.
Your entire “prepare for getting tested by the girls of your dreams” frame is the losing strategy. Focus on being the man of ~~women’s~~ your dreams generally.

WorryOnly · 2025-09-04T16:38:53+00:00

Wtf is a “girl of your dreams”? Is this trp or cosmopolitan dating advice?

Women are gonna sniff if you are a loser with or without reps in when you are not secure in yourself already.

Date is a test yes, but I am the one testing, if she is compliant, in my frame and lucky enough she gets a place in my awesome life, not any other way around. Who the fuck is a girl to put me through exam? She is the one qualifying. Go have more dates, or volume watever. You are just gonna be the same beta who got some dumb luck success in online dating one of many ways to get girls.

When your mentality is pedestalizing, you will still be the same beta meeting a little more attractive girl than you usually do.

Old-Stock-3167 · 2025-09-04T16:52:27+00:00

You can sum this entire thing up by saying "talk to women as often as possible to get better at talking to women." Also, use dating apps in conjunction with meeting them everywhere you go. No good reason to cut yourself off at the knees by avoiding day game or night game. And if you're using apps, unless you've got your game dialed in when it comes to texting, be quick and secure the date. If you're uncalibrated, the longer you talk over text the higher the chances you'll ruin it for yourself. Quick few flirty messages and then logistics.

SalporinRP · 2025-09-07T20:40:08+00:00

This is such bad advice. Dont have time to completely rip it to shreds.

There are some very high quality women on apps. However, most of them arent on there or use them enough to actually get in reps
Have you ever dated girls youre not attracted to? I have. And guess what? That doesnt magically prepare you for girls you are attracted to
Dating apps will mostly demoralize most guys here or keep them focused like a crack addict on a slot machine on low quality women if it does work for them
Your goal is to attract high quality women and high quality women dont exist on the app (for the most part). This is equivalent to lifting weights to perform well in a marathon or throwing footballs to get good at golf

CaptainPleighboi · 2025-09-04T18:09:23+00:00

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weed_cutter · 2025-09-10T17:14:29+00:00

Dating Apps are ass. Many of the 'gurus' avoid them, or just use them as a supplement, not the main course.

And it's generally because as a man, you play to your talents and strengths. For dating apps, that's a highly curated flashy social media lifestyle, plus your Looks primarily. .... If those are your strengths, great, it's a funnel. .... If not you are only going to attract sub-standard woman even if you DO looks-max and live a "social media" curated lifestyle.

But yeah the super hot women aren't on those apps anyway.

Plus it is a LOT of text-game to IRL game ratio. .... If you enjoy texting go for it. I don't.

A guy online dating (primarily) is going to have a lot less "in field" time than a guy working the streets/ in-person networks. In terms of flirting with women. .... Because you need to convert matches to dates, then go on those dates, and those are typically 1-2 hours each.

Glum_Percentage_6453 · 2025-11-05T12:33:58+00:00

i think you are overrating womens instinct in knowing if a guy has a lot of experience. i started dating late, i lost my v-card at 16 but i didnt have sex again until 29. the 2nd woman who i had sex with didnt know i had a low body count, women fall for lies. they are not smart as you think lmao. if anything they are very easy to manipulate. you are overrating it. not to mention it depends on the girl you are going on the date with. foreign women are definitely less receptive to social cues and norms usually. yes if you act like yourself or act like a weirdo and desperate they can sense it, but its all about how you mask it.

banna2 · 2025-11-23T09:24:39+00:00

Dude dating apps are full of 3s and 4s. Atrractive girls already get much attention out of apps

Title	Why mastering dating apps is a tremendous advantage to attracting high value girls
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Date	September 4, 2025 4:10 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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