About two months ago i, 22 freshly graduated student moved to USA, North California for a summer exchange programme, and to see what US is all about. South Lake Tahoe might not be the best experience for this, but it is what it is and im trying to get the best i can.

I recently met a friend, also from my country, he's about 6'2, blond , ripped dude. I'd easily call him a Chad. Now once i met him i got excided as i though that this guy is gonna be a great wingman and we will slay every club we went to.

First night was not to bad, we hooked up wit about 4 different Thai chicks, no F close. They were not too bad for their kind, petite and cute looking but that's not what we both wanted, but ended up staying with them anyways.

We've been hitting clubs every weekend since then and still haven't managed to pull anything. Now my friend here, constantly gets attention wherever he is. I never felt ugly in my life yet this guy makes me feel like a hobbit. Im 5'8 also been lifting a lot, but less shredded and more bulky, we've been hitting the gym together a lot tho.

All of the attention goes to him most of the time, yet he never escalates. Never approaches, barely gets any numbers, and hasn't gotten laid since January. He constantly gets text from Tinder, the chicks ask him to choke them etc. sending nude picks and so on.

I asked him why he doesnt approach, he can pull an 8 every night of the week if he wanted to. He said he does not want to crush his ego and feel defeated. He goes for 100% pulls. We still hang out with the Thai chicks we met. One of the chick he's with has a boyfriend back home, yet they make out every weekend. He doesn't want to fuck her "cus asian chicks have bad pussy". Now one of the thai chick who is constantly with me, is always jealous of the other one for kissing him, even when she's with me. That's probably the weirdest feeling i had before, even worse than rejection, guess im hard nexting her after this weekend.

So here we are, putting in numbers, yet so far they are more into their negatives than succesful.

I am barely an approach master and it's something i have to work on, but seeing a guy like my friend who could easily be considered a chad get no pussy at all makes me confused and trying to understand how does this game actually work. I guess it's a numbers game after all.