Yes, I'm giving myself as a BP example.

pm_me_the_best_tits · 2017-05-19T14:01:29+00:00

TL:DR: Drama

you wouldn't have time for this bullshit if you focused on BJJ

ScholarInRed · 2017-05-19T11:36:48+00:00

Please, tell me where I'm wrong and give me as much truth as possible. I didn't swallow the pill to be treated like a crying girl.

Make sure you're sitting down, mate.

I've just closed a porn video a day after I said I'll quit porn. Haven't masturbated in three weeks I believe, but still relapsing on porn which I'm starting to hate myself for. And you want to know why?

It's because you're not lifting, meditating, reading and enforcing this growth schedule upon yourself. You need monk mode. If you are doing all of these things, you are not doing them nearly enough. Discipline is a stone castle, motivation is a plastic tent.

Because I'm in a relationship in which sex does not happen often, while I literally want to have sex everyday, as any healthy male wants.

Next her, then. Get some plates. No LTR for you. You are not ready.

Everything is well until I tell my girlfriend today "hey, let's go to my place after classes". EVERYTHING CHANGES. We were on the phone, and she sounds forced to come to my place, as if she knew she'd be obliged to suck my cock or something. And I didn't even imply that, because I just wanted to chill with my girl before my BJJ classes

You are her Beta Bux. This term applies not just if you provide money, but also validation/comfort etc. She does not lust after you. You slightly repulse her.

It's a 2 year LTR, second time together (I know, Rollo, I know).

The reason Rollo says not to dig through the trash is because you are conditioned to that woman. This goes double with Alpha mentality - when you want to improve your SMV, this conditioning will derail your journey. You will backslide. No woman is ever worth this.

I didn't 'hear out' the convoluted story of relationship bullshit. It's irrelevant. Here's what's relevant; you're conditioned to BP thinking and behaviour with this girl. By your own admission she does not satisfy you. So you get rid of her.

You need monk mode. Strictly ONS or low-input plates for a good while. None of the RP attitudes are within you, I can tell from this post. You're licking at the pill; it's still in your mouth. I usually deplore these analogies but it fits here.

Read the sidebar. Lift. And for fuck's sake next this girl.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-19T12:28:04+00:00

You should never ever be in an exclusive relationship that doesn't make you truly deeply happy and completely satisfy you.

Relationships don't involve much sacrifice. Yes, there is a little give and take a little effort on both sides.... but not the amount of sacrifice you are making.

Don't fall into the belief that the more you give the better person you are or that she'll appreciate it - she won't. You're just devaluing yourself in her eyes.

This girl with occasional sex and years of on/off bullshit isn't a good enough situation to be an exclusive deal. This is a FWB. Drop the exclusivity. As mentioned elsewhere, being committed is being her BB security blanket (even without money being paid). Don't do it.

I doubt being non-exclusive will fix things with This One Girl, but it will free up the rest of your life to fix and improve what you need to fix and improve.

AnjaJutta · 2017-05-19T14:26:36+00:00

Just put a disclaimer out: If you are not gonna fuck me, I'm gonna go get it elsewhere. Just letting you know.

Then go do what you gotta do.

Downhere_Seeds · 2017-05-19T14:42:20+00:00

This relationship sounds like a cluster fuck of baggage. You view the p0rn because you are unhappy with yourself and are relying on sex, her and the relationship to fix your unhappiness with yourself. Learn to be content with yourself, read sidebar, lift and get a meaningful hobby.

ideal_lemon · 2017-05-19T20:35:48+00:00

Bro, I've been in a very similar situation. Say this to yourself: "She came in my life with a mission (to turn me into a man)". You already realized most of your mistakes. Now to complete that mission, you need to let her go. You need to learn to let go off the woman you love so desperately so no woman ever can do the same to you again.

"The greatest power a woman can have over you is convincing you that your life would be incomplete without her." Never give that power to any woman, or anyone/anything. As soon as you do, you fall back into the BP trap and there's no fixing it.

There's only one foolproof way to getting what you want from a woman. Not by caring, not by being a sweet lover, but by just increasing your SMV. Improve yourself in every way you can, then a woman will come along when they notice your value increased.

TheSecondLesson · 2017-05-19T11:53:52+00:00

She's using sex as form of power of you and it seems as if it's working. You've already said you shouldn't be in a LTR with this woman, so cut her loose. However since you're a man and probably in love with her to seem degree, you may not want to do that. It doesn't really seem like there is another option. You either let her run the train that is your LTR as the conductor, or you don't. Get off the ride. Another option is that you may just be bad at fucking. Easy fix, pick up the Sex God Method (TRP endorsed) and jelq for the next 3 months. She'll be like "What the fuck is suddenly up with this dude!?" next time you bang her.

Goddamnpanda · 2017-05-19T22:53:31+00:00

I didn't swallow the pill ~~to be treated like a crying girl.~~

FTFY

You didn't swallow the red pill. You're staring at it in morpheous hand thinking how nice it would be to swallow it while at the same time reaching for the blue pill. Get some self awareness you little dweeb.

Title	Yes, I'm giving myself as a BP example.
Author	Rares5555
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	May 19, 2017 11:11 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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