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You guys were right.

beanndip

October 15, 2014
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Title You guys were right.
Author

beanndip

Upvotes 46
Comments 24
Date October 15, 2014 4:13 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2jbu2g/you_guys_were_right/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/you-guys-were-right.23007
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Comments

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan57 points58 points59 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"You never get to just love a bitch" - Patrice O'Neal

[–]bonekeeper 21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

1/10th of the reason I'm starting a small business is just so I can hire a hot secretary for DAT DREAD.

[–]Adolf_ghandi-4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What are you going to do if she hits the wall? Simply replace her and risk a lawsuit?

[–]bonekeeper 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I could just fire her and claim I'm cutting costs, but there's no need, specially if she's a good secretary.

By then, if I'm still in business, I'll be making good money, so I could just promote the old secretary to something else and hire a new, younger secretary. Everybody wins.

[–]Gordon881 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Could you link to where he said this?

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

My biggest downfall over the last thirty years has been being too fucking nice after being the dominant bad boy that attracted them in the first place. It also has been the best way to get rid of some crazy bitch. Part of it was I listened to people telling me not to be how I was when I met her, believing I had to be nice.

It's so effective at getting rid of them, that it's my go-to instead of hard-core dumping some crazy cunt that might vandalize my cars or claim rape, abuse, etc.

If I want to keep them around, I ask them to do shit for me, give them very little nice, and make them pay me in some way for shit I do. If I want them gone, I fix her car for free.

[–]beanndip[S] 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is spot on. If you want to keep a girl, make sure she thinks she doesn't think she "has you in the bag", always make her think you barely care about her.

[–][deleted] 5 points5 points5 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's all it takes, go full beta towards her, and alpha everywhere else.

[–]1xwm3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Might not be a bad idea to send her a text along the lines of: "I just wanted to make sure that you are ok and ask if there's anything I can do to help." to reinforce the idea.

[–]hashtagpound2point20 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If the attraction began from your alpha traits, it can easily be destroyed with some beta tendencies.

[–]aptway14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Always keep two in the kitty.

[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep came here to post this.

[–]NietzscheanStoic13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The Red Pill ride doesn't end until you die, my friend. Once you get her, you need to maintain her by always being alpha. You're allowed slip ups, but you never know how many. That varies by woman. But too many slip ups and you're toast.

[–]TXhype18 points19 points20 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Guys think this place is just a fucking way to pull in women. It's more so the code to life and bettering yourself. Its a motherfuckin lifestyle not a game.

[–]beanndip[S] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, before i thought it was just for getting women, now i realize it is a lifestyle that must be maintained, not just to keep women either, but just to be happy with oneself.

[–]200mgtestc -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2011/09/mind_blown.gif

[–]Squabbles1232 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never stop game, ever, and ESPECIALLY not after marriage (if you are suicidal and actually get married). For as long as you "game" her, you'll have her interest.

[–]ShagggyDog2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Maintenance is more important that acquisition. Many guys fall back to BP mode as soon as they succeed in attraction phase. I have made this mistake before, and later found out that it is because of some hidden layers of confidence issues. Once I got the validation from her, I thought I have won. You have to work on independent confidence to make sure your RP mode is not an act/game. It's your life style. It's who you are.

[–]beanndip[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hace just learned this now. Once o had her i let my guard down figuring i was in. Now i realize, that I must keep up rp behavior or every girl i come across will walk all over me and move on.

[–]bonekeeper 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maintenance is more important that acquisition.

Not only more important, it is harder too.

[–]2mbillion0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So many fall in to this trap - I myself will admit to having done it.

Red Pill is not about a one time pussy smash its a lifestyle change that needs to be embodied and continuously lived.

In a LTR you can give a little BP but its a slippery slope, once the woman flips the switch its over

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why go bluepill again? What's the point? Being redpill is more fun than being bluepill, no? Well unless by "being redpill" you meant "utilising tricks to make her believe you're redpill while you're not"...

That's what I learned. You don't "use tricks" - that's no use. Because at first, you're doing something you don't want to a person who you like, and then, a person you like does something to you that you don't like. I refer to the parts where you seduce her using "red pill ticks" and then she dumps you once you turn bluepill, of course.

Instead, you change yourself at the core, and THEN the fun starts.

[–]joaquim56-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Validation hamster at full force with this one.

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