Your ethnic background does not stop you from getting laid or even getting hot girls, it just limits your options.

redpillrobby · 2017-03-04T17:48:49+00:00

High status behavior can overcome any initial assumptions that exist due to the color of your skin. I won't deny that being black or brown puts you at an initial disadvantage with white girls (unless you're an NBA player) but there's no question it can be overcome. Learn to walk and talk like a high status man and you'll end up in the same place as all high status men, the color of your skin notwithstanding.

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2017-03-05T00:07:14+00:00

For fucks sake, most dimepiece blonde chicks can't tell the difference between most "brown" races. I shit you not, they won't know who's Arab, Hispanic/Latino, or Indian.

To this end, it's all about your overall image. Look like the Arab prince with oil money or the jacked Latino pool boy who's banging other guys' wives, don't look like a scrawny computer programmer. If you're well-dressed and well-built, you're "exotic" instead of inferior, according to the female hamster. The rules here are universal across all races, you don't need to be white to be functionally "Chad"

yomo86 · 2017-03-04T17:18:46+00:00

Oh 3 month passed already. Time for the mandatory race post.

It's all a game and people only see how good other people are. For instance whites. You see Chad, Brad and maybe Tom, chiseled chin, 6ft tall etc. What you do not see is that the average white male does not even have an ethnic thing going. You just are and society is telling you that for just existing you owe other people.

Zweihander747 · 2017-03-05T00:03:27+00:00

This is post is fucking stupid. Not being white WILL limit your SMV because some chicks are flat out racist or just wont date minorities because of social status. End of

40_SixandTwo · 2017-03-04T18:50:53+00:00

I'm a white dude and I can hardly get white women to give me the time of day. On the other hand black women love me. Almost all my matches on Tinder are black women.

CallMeHaseo · 2017-03-04T20:43:11+00:00

Yo OP are you white? I dont disagree with you but i'm currious if you've experienced the "struggle" your self.

imn0tg00d · 2017-03-05T07:27:39+00:00

This post reeks of SJW propoganda. STFU and get out there and game. Race doesn't matter. Girls don't get to choose who they're attracted to. If your game is tight, you will pick them up.

abbafishhead · 2017-03-05T11:41:28+00:00

No doubt not being white is a disadvantage, but it's faaarrr from being insurmountable... The degree of victimhood and persecution complex among low-SMV minorities here is so, damn, high.

Ever heard race-based bitching from high-SMV minorities? Yeah, me neither.

If a 5'6" Asian brother here in his 20s can rack up 100++ in n-count, which include dozens of skinny young white girls, there's literally no excuse for the rest of you minorities. I'd post selfies that I took with the Tinder girls I banged too if it wouldn't reveal my identity. In fact, adding chicks on my Instagram before I date them aids pre-selection among the minority chicks I'm gaming. Because these minority chicks subconsciously look up to white girls as "the" standard of beauty and attractiveness, they'd also "want in" on the action when they see my Instagram with numerous selfies with young slim hot white girls in my home.

This, gentlemen, is how you leverage past sexperiences to facilitate future sexcapades.

crx1 · 2017-03-04T21:03:52+00:00

This is highly contextual. Today, many hot, white, college party girls seem to be open to hooking up w/ a Chad of any color. However, if you're someone like say, Jenna or Barbara Bush, you wouldn't dare be seen with, let alone bring home someone other than a nice, rich white boy to meet the family.

[deleted] · 2017-03-05T06:57:48+00:00

I'm a firm believer that no matter race, if you are blessed genetically and have iron will and work hard, there is no way you can't lay any girl of your choice.

jrdnsln · 2017-03-04T19:19:21+00:00

The only thing that matters is the color of your balls. If you have brass balls then you will never have a problem getting laid. Keep it simple.

There was a time when I had a Haitian doctor, a Mexican school teacher, a grandmother, and a white law student (all 8+) and can still pull any night of the week. Not to brag, but I had this squad while I was in college with $0 and no car and no job. I'm 29 now and can count the number of times I've actually bought a drink for a female on one hand and the number of females I've fucked on dozens of dozens of hands.

My point, is that, honestly, the bimbos who would write you off based on your race are not worth the game. Jumping through hoops, studying pick up artists, trying to compensate for what OP calls "limiting factors" just to maybe fuck 1 time? Pass.

We're all born with the same brass colored balls. Society has taught you hide them but they're up there. Just let em hang fellas.

hoodbgoode · 2017-03-04T17:25:01+00:00

You sound like you're trying to convince yourself it can be done.

Id rather read from guys who are out there doing it.

rizzla454 · 2017-03-05T07:38:53+00:00

Bro I am brown. I approach white girls and succeed - sometimes when they are with their white boyfriends. Race doesn't mean shit

JFMX1996 · 2017-03-05T08:55:38+00:00

So I'm half Native American, the other half European. Tarahumaran, Spanish, Greek, and Italian (from greatest to least in DNA).

To sum it all up I just say "Latino".

When I have short hair I look really Latino but when my wavy light brown hair grows in people always assume I'm pure Spaniard for some reason.

Anyway, my point is that I'm a Mestizo Latin American and and look pretty Latin American in my opinion. I have pretty good luck with white girls too, who I get along much better with than other Latin American women because of the personalities and interests they typically have.

What I really can't stress enough is that you carry yourself with high status, but don't try so fucking hard. Be confident, know your worth, and command respect not with your words but with your behavior. In a strange way, also have modesty. A man I really like to think of is General Mattis but you could probably think of another example that better suits you.

So often I see guys from minority backgrounds either completely lacking in any quality or confidence, or trying so hard to put themselves out there that they come off as insecure and screaming for validation to show they're as good as the white guy.

You can see it with a lot of Latin Americans, Indians, Pakistanis, and Middle Easterners.

I really see it very often with the Iranian guys in specific. I don't mean to put them on the spot, but I believe many of you have witnessed them.

They claim we dislike it out of jealousy or spite but it's actually far from the truth, I think it's that insecure arrogance that a lot of them carry deep down inside. This isn't exclusive to them, it's something with all minorities. The insecurity and also self-pitying victimization that is absolutely abhorrent and detestable to most women.

Many of them will try to cover these thoughts by completely abandoning their heritages but in the back of their minds carrying it with them everywhere. That, or when they've accomplished something, they'll boast of their alleged ethnic superiority everywhere. Either the "Brown Pride" or "Pinoy Pride" or "Punjab guys do it better" and so on that just disgusts people all around. Maybe you've seen some of these minority dudes taking all sorts of selfies in front of their BMWs with designer clothes and other material objects to boast about their success. Most people will see through it.

I believe just acknowledging your race is the best. Being comfortable but not identifying with it in every moment of your life.

I was brought to the U.S. as a kid legally (in Trump voice, hehe) when my dad got to work for Uncle Sam, and got rid of my accent. Somewhere deep down I still acknowledge that I'm a Latin foreigner, but I rarely think of it. In reality, I see myself as more American than anything as I'd die and kill for these people that I love of this country. Most other guys of minorities when in European or North American countries like Canada or the U.S. still see themselves as "others" or self segregate then whine about their seclusion (though self-inflicted). Often times, in their newly adopted countries they'll never fully integrate or show full on loyalty to it. They separate themselves. As they never truly see themselves as part of their new tribe, people treat them as so, especially women.

If people ask me about my background, I'm not afraid to mention it, or share a saying we have that holds a special place in my heart. Speaking of which, just the other night a cute manager girl who was showing me around during some long hours in a graveyard shift asked me about it and I modestly told her about it. Not too arrogant, not too meek or nervous about it. Just a happiness to share something for a curious mind.

I believe all minorities could do well with white girls if they'd stop putting them on pedestals and simply treat them like any human being. Appeal to their emotions and understanding as opposed to this need to prove yourself to them.

I've honestly never had a girl reject me on the basis of my race at all because I believe its that I simply treat them like we're of the same tribe as opposed to something else and separating myself from them. Instead of looking down upon them (due to ethnicity, at least) or pedestalizing them. Approach them with the same respect I'd have for people of any race. Also a degree of humility and knowledge of your origins that can intrigue them and add a bit of exotic flavor to you. The key is to not go overboard or try to dismiss it and show insecurity in your ethnic composition.

I've had a lot of girls, beautiful girls, really, have good dates and relationships.

Anyway, just wanted to share my experiences and thoughts with the topic.

Edit: Forgot to include a sentence.

sadguy88 · Sun Mar 5 19:32:19 2017 UTC

Here's the truth, if you live in a big metropolitan area, yes, girls are still shallow, but not in terms of race. I went to a relatively white dominated highschool in the suburbs and had no problem getting white girls interested despite being weird as fuck, borderline autistic, and having no friends.

And I was only decent looking(still nothing compared to what I am now). Imagine how much I'd have been better off being cool and better looking?

The problem with Indian males(and women) is that most are just not that attractive. So their chances with whites are just low by default, in the shallow, looks obsessed society we live in.

fur10us_falcon · 2017-03-06T03:39:45+00:00

For a 5'6 Puerto Rican anything but black women is my goal. Don't care if they're old, fat, and ugly just can't be black hope I have a chance.

dajal · 2017-03-08T00:17:49+00:00

Hey can you red pillers tell me where Middle Eastern ethnicity ranks? Say Pashtun (Afghanista/Pakistan), decent height, decent income.. where would that rank?

A lot of times Muslim backgrounds get shafted, even if the female may consider him attractive. Reason being obviously the religion having a poor image amongst them.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-03-12T00:50:53+00:00

Indian dudes can pull off the Arabian Prince look easy. Build some fucking muscle, get that fuckboy haircut with the side fade and let it grow long so u can tie it back, wear fitted jeans and white tops, wear a decent leather watch and a bracelet, wear some decent kicks (no cost shoes or loafers.

ChummyChad · 2017-03-07T04:43:31+00:00

All of these comments saying "all you need is game" "you're just making excuses for your lack of game and laziness" are not seeing that everyone here does not deny the magic of lifting and game. No doubt you can recompense with lifting and game. However, All thats being said is that the color of your skin does produce a slightly steeper curve. I'm brown, and if anything, it motivates me to work twice as hard to account for negative unconscious neural associations attached to the color of my skin.

Title	Your ethnic background does not stop you from getting laid or even getting hot girls, it just limits your options.
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Date	March 4, 2017 5:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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