I started talking to this guy (23) from bumble and its been nice to talk with a guy who is emotionally intelligent and tuned in (one of my huge must haves in a guy). We have not met yet for various reasons but I talked about how much self improvement and self respect means to me (thank you FDS!!) and he mentioned he is awful at creating boundaries... I offered to send him resources on how to do it, particularly in relation to attachment styles which I’m super into. As someone who knows how hard setting boundaries can be when you think you don’t deserve to have any, I empathise with him. But I wasn’t about to baby him like my ex. He is a grown man that needs to figure that shit out 98% by himself. Little help is fine but I’m not going to put more effort into your self growth than mine. I know this is a big red flag, not having boundaries but should I cut him out completely? I’m not dating right now and I told him that but he still keeps messaging me like a friend (fine by me) and I will admit I send him animal pics ahaha. I just want an FDS perspective on my situation thank you 🥂