Hello! For the past 8 years, I've developed a lengthy list of food allergies to the point where I stopped eating out. The last time I went eating out I asked the manager of the restaurant if any adjustments could be made, he said yes, but I ended up getting ill and I just don't want to risk it again. Having said that, I want to start dating again but I have no idea what to do when it comes to dates. The FDS handbook suggests lunch or dinner dates but I need some ideas of how to go about this or navigate this issue.
[–]Sea_Soil16 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
This question has already been asked a few times.
There are some good answers: here and here
If you are following FDS, then you shouldn't be pursuing men. It's not your job to come up with a date idea, or to provide him with suggestions. Just say, "I have a lot of food allergies and can't eat out." If he's a smart, thoughtful guy, and if he actually cares, he will figure something else out. That's like, the bare minimum.
Then, you get to decide if the proposed activity is worth your time or not; if it brings value to you.
Trust me when I say that you DON'T want to be with a guy who you needs you to give him a whole power point presentation on choosing a nice date.
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