Ok, I don’t know what to do..my LVM ex of 1 1/2 years has driven by my work and just stared at me, making sure I saw him a total of three times that I saw. He has never physically abused me but the emotional abuse is something for the books, imo.

It’s been about 8 months since I cursed him out and blocked him b/c I was tired of the disrespect and mistreatment. Not gonna lie and as you can see from my past posts I had hoped my blocking him would put a fire under his butt and come beg for me whilst at the same time I just didn’t want to have to deal with him anymore. I am a recovering pickmeisha and I am busting my balls to just be better in all ways so this is very, very hard for me.

So obviously he doesn’t miss me and is doing this just to fuck with me, right? Drive by and stare at me but doesn’t try to talk to me or fix anything, right? I have no contact with him and since I have never met his family or any friends I have no way of telling him to stop driving by other than serving him with papers. Should I do it? How is he gonna just drive by and stare and not come talk to me? What could possibly be going through his head? This is driving me crazy and I think he knows it and that’s why he’s doing it. It’s not b/c he misses me and is too scared to come talk to me after all the shit he put (and continues to) put me through.

Am I wrong?

TLDR: exscrote of a year and a half I cursed out and blocked 8 months ago has driven by my work 3 times (that I saw) just to stare at me but not come try to fix anything by talking to me. Does he miss me or is he severely fucking with me? Should I just get a restraining order as I have no way of communicating with him and I don’t want to talk to him?