Hi everyone!

I met this guy online, and we were talking on and off for six months. I am a medical student. When we start talking, he stated that he is insecure about chatting with me. He kept coming and going through the chat. I didn't care for him much with his insecurities. (As we met so many creepy humans on online dating platforms). Suddenly, he began to message " Good morning" every day within one month of us talking. Despite I asked him not to do that. He sends me flying kisses on our first video call. I asked him not to do that.

He was very opinionated towards other immigrated families (South East Asians). He himself was an international student from southeast Asia. To all his comments, I got so angry with him and yelled at him. I blocked him, and he found ways to apologize. He stops saying those. I asked him if he can't respect other people and their ways. I don't want him in my life.

He works in financial industries and thinks he is too much. He complains that ABCD (South Asian descent born in states) should marry an ABCD. I asked him he can marry one for himself. He also desired if he were born here, he would have done better climbing the corporate world ( Although he is doing well in the corporate world).

He also lots of negative comments about physicians and criticized Caribbean Medical students ( Students from ROSS and so forth). I blocked him again. He found ways to apologize.

Because he made so many controversial comments by not knowing me properly, I didn't care for him. I never bother to tell him that I am attending Caribbean medical school. Whenever we spoke, he had to talk down on others to flex himself.

For example: In the beginning, he used to tell me that at age 55, he will retire and attend dental school. I am like, Why do you gotta wait? Try it now since you are young now. Or are you just saying that people give you importance? He finally stopped saying that.

Real issues in the story, we finally met in person and began to like each other. He was getting warmer. Then I told him that I am attending Caribbean medical school and all. I gave him access to my social media.

Now he is upset with me, saying that I should say all these things early. I kept telling him that I didn't know you properly, and we met online. I began to disclose these things after I met you in person. I also told him that I have every right to protect myself from stalkers. He kept saying that l lied to him, and at some point, he even called me a liar. I told him that "I didn't lie to you, and I asked you specifically, I will clear things with you after my exam."

He is upset enough that he wants two weeks to break from me. Now I am confused. Was he loved with the image of me or with me? In so many instances, he used to say; I love you to me. I used to ask him, " How do you know if you love me? or do you know the meaning of love?

Should I leave him?

I am feeling upset with his reactions.