I agree with most fds points and logic and find myself relating to a lot but one thing I’ve noticed is how trashed on friends with benefits are. I don’t really get it honestly, I understand not doing wife duties for a fwb but otherwise what’s wrong with it? I’m in that type of situation now and I think the arrangement works quite well. We’re both having sexual needs fulfilled and he shows himself out afterwards. I get this could be seen as him “using me” but I’m using him as well for the same end goal so I don’t get what’s wrong with it.