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[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People dont give good oral (or oral in general) to people they are not attracted to.
[–]PersaeusRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
some people don't give good oral, period.
some people are just lame
if it's important, find someone that can suck
[–]0io-Tsundere1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you really want to blow things up just invite plate over for a threesome with wife.
[–]Redpillbrigade171 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell her what? “Babe I have this side piece she sucks me so well. Why don’t you do it too? Here let me whip out my cock for you.” That’s really attractive.
If you’re getting plenty action on the side then you should be sex-satisfied and not give a crap about whether she sucks you or not. Seems to me you’re stuck in your head (maybe for accepting sub par from her for many years? Too much Nice guy history?) and despite the side action you have not achieved abundance mentality and OI.
Tell her how hot she would look with your cock in her mouth, charm her, tease her- you should know the drill and come up with your own from the readings / side bar.
Fix yourself bro.
[–]LongRoad_518 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
guilt of getting sucked by strange chick
You need to read, "When I get Sucked by a Strange Chick I Feel Guilty"
I'm not sure why you care so much that your wife isn't upping her game. Sounds like you still have a mindset of if I do "X" my wife should respond by doing what I want.
I’m not motivated to get my wife upping her game.
It's not about her game. Just be motivated to up your game.
Covertly communicating Covert contract I have about this hasn’t worked, I keep wondering if it’s time to openly tell her?
No don't tell her, but don't hide it if she finds out. From your post history, you've been married 20 years. It's going to take a lot of time.
DL 7: Talk to pretty girls
DL 8: Talk to pretty girls in front of wife
DL 9: Speak directly about your needs, don't be butt hurt about it
DL 10: Fuck me or fuck you speech
DL 11: Get a gf/plate/mistress
From Dread Levels
Give the first 8 steps about 1 month for every year of your marriage where you have been a Beta toe stub pushover
You skipped over DL 9 and 10 and went right to 11. It should be a minimum of 20 months before you get to Level 9... and (I've been told) many find it more like 1.5 -2 months per year of faggotry. So you're looking at 20-40 months. Based on your last OYS 7 months ago, I deduce that you're ~15 months in.
[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The Dancing Monkey getting his dick sucked routine. Go for it. Tell Mammy that side plate sucks like a whore. She'll be down on you in seconds.
[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There’s been a lot of guys lately mistaking external validation for abundance/OI. Not sure if it’s something in the water or they are all just hitting the same point at the same time or there’s something missing from the process.
If I’m gonna fuck strange on the side I’ll tell the wife before I do. She’s a big girl and can make her own decisions with the information she’s given - it’s my life and I live it how I want and if she wants out she’s welcome at any time.
[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take away the sloppy blowjobs and he'll soon know the difference between abundance and validation.
[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frankly I don’t give a fuck if she doesn’t, but sure would be nice to get her going in that dept.
You’re talking out both sides of your mouth. Your post is way to vague to advise you. Tell us more about how you moved up the DL’s. Who is this sloppy BJ plate? What’s your height, weight, lifts... etc
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